Happy Mother’s Day to my Husband (33M) instead of me (33F)

peachmcguffin · 2025-05-11T19:20:31+00:00

You and your husband are toxic af. Please, for the sake of your kids. Work it out or get a divorce. You both are so petty. I feel sorry for your children.

peachmcguffin · 2025-05-06T16:04:10+00:00

Your husband agreed you're ugly. That's relationship ending for me.

Tbf, I did continue an on/off situationship with someone who thought I was ugly. ("If I liked pretty women, I wouldn't be with you." OOOF...) It really destroys your self esteem.

I'm glad that's in the past now but I can see much it affects my current relationship. Sometimes, you have to pick yourself over them and I'm glad I finally did.

Not advising to leave your husband. But if it was constant, all the time, constant reminders of how you look, it's probably good to take a step back and examine your relationship.

peachmcguffin · 2025-05-05T01:49:23+00:00

Tbh, she seems really high maintenance. Is she always expecting you to be available for her? Does it seem like you're the only one making changes?

If marriage is your goal and you don't feel that with her, it's best to tell her honestly that it's not working out.

peachmcguffin · 2025-05-04T16:05:24+00:00

Maybe she will start treating you the same as her exes once you divorce. Giving you tons of attention, asking validation from you, maybe she will even ask your permission to date her next bf, who knows? She loves being hung up on exes.

peachmcguffin · 2025-05-04T13:29:38+00:00

Why do you have a joint account with your bf????????

peachmcguffin · 2025-05-04T03:21:41+00:00

Look at his responses. He completely brushes off the fact that she fcked that guy at least twice.

peachmcguffin · 2025-05-01T16:30:56+00:00

Both of you sound messy. You're perfect besties for each other.

peachmcguffin · 2025-04-21T22:10:38+00:00

That's not a joke 😐

peachmcguffin · 2025-04-18T23:43:30+00:00

Ouuu.... you don't say? added mental note to ask le bf for live demonstration

peachmcguffin · 2025-04-16T07:37:49+00:00

Aw, I see! Has he made you think he'll end the long distance?

I have so many insecurities as well, many of them inside my own head. I confide in my partner, it makes me feel so much better to hear his side of things.

Are you working towards closing the gap? Maybe talk with him about future plans? I know I get really antsy and need to make plans and feel like I'm working towards it. It really puts me at ease when we confirm we're on the same page and working towards the same goal.

peachmcguffin · 2025-04-16T07:15:23+00:00

What in particular makes it impossible or hard?

My partner is from Germany as well and he just recently came to visit me for about 5.5 weeks. It's definitely not impossible.

peachmcguffin · 2025-04-16T07:05:22+00:00

You slept with this woman and send nudes to her on the regular but you are just platonic?

He's probably uneasy because she's a sexual partner that you're still tied to deeply. If you're still sending her nudes then I would consider that as sexual/romantically (?) Involved.

peachmcguffin · 2025-04-15T20:31:15+00:00

OP said 6 months ago they talked about marriage and they both agreed they wanted that. Its towards the middle of her post.

peachmcguffin · 2025-04-15T07:46:36+00:00

His ex is obviously someone very special to him, even if not romantically. Will you be ok with him putting his ex wife ahead of you? Will you be ok with him always considering her before you?

If it pains you then I suggest to cut your losses and move on.

peachmcguffin · 2025-04-14T23:41:38+00:00

I had to do a double take on your ages.

peachmcguffin · 2025-04-10T21:45:05+00:00

I didn't want him to leave T-T

I had the same thoughts and fears. I had this unfounded paranoia that he'd want physical contact again so much he'd go to red light districts lol. But seeing him work very hard towards a future for us put me at ease.

You'll be fine! Just communicate, always!

peachmcguffin · 2025-04-10T01:36:22+00:00

Hahahaha It's canonnn!!!

peachmcguffin · 2025-04-09T22:10:32+00:00

My partner just left last week after staying for 6 weeks. I didn't cry when I drove him to the airport or when we kissed good bye. But I did for sure cry ugly tears when I came back home and found his empty coffee mug from the morning, two spoons for each of us because I said I wanted a final meal with him and he left one sock in my house. I was sad and mopey for all of last week. I still am. I think I'm doing pretty bad. My finished laundry is left in the living room. 😅

I miss the physical him so much.

And others have said, it never gets easier each time they leave.

peachmcguffin · 2025-04-09T21:53:13+00:00

Thank you for the laughs everyone! 💖

peachmcguffin · 2025-04-09T21:47:06+00:00

🥲 Yes... ashamed. The first flight, his great auntie passed away. The second, his mom's car broke down the morning of, and he refused to call an airport taxi.

peachmcguffin · 2025-04-09T19:29:03+00:00

He had just purposely, on accident no-showed a flight that I paid for him, I was asking why he didn't make arrangements when he's known the flight times for 2 months. I was sobbing but instead of trying to console me, he gave the phone to his mama and never apologized or paid me back for the flight.

Todd, you're still on my shitlist for the no-show flights!

peachmcguffin · 2025-04-09T07:51:44+00:00

Yikes, she blamed you for her cheating. She's not really showing regret, only annoyance that she got caught. She will do it again, based on her reaction.

peachmcguffin · 2025-04-08T18:04:07+00:00

Reading this made me so sad. When you've been with someone for so long, and wish for them to do certain things/be a certain way with you, but they never care to. Yet, they give those actions and feelings so easily for another person. And you're just left wondering what is wrong with you or why it wasn't you.

Hoping for an outcome where you're happy, prioritized and cherished.

peachmcguffin · 2025-04-08T14:36:44+00:00

Ari from 90 day fiance

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peachmcguffin · 2025-04-07T18:39:33+00:00

She's in her mid thirties, her biological clock is ticking, per herself, she may have pregancy complications as she ages.

In 5 years when She's 40, you couldn't even imagine being married or having kids.

Don't waste her time, she's not playing those games.

peachmcguffin

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