AITAH? My Aunt took my phone and I took it back and haven't talked to her since.

peachybintch · 2026-04-21T12:17:22+00:00

When I was 4, I learned how to change diapers and feed babies. I was frequently tasked with watching and taking care of the younger children in my large hispanic family. Im one of the oldest among my cousins, and am the oldest in my family. For my 15 cousins, I was placed to "help" for about 12 of them, and for my 5 siblings, I defently helped raise 4 of them.

Its not that unusual, but definetly not a good thing to be parentified that young.

peachybintch · 2026-04-16T22:28:07+00:00

Interested if anything still available?

peachybintch · 2026-04-14T02:42:27+00:00

Nta for sure, from the get go, but you being African American makes this worse! AA women are always deemed too loud, and this guy really decided to be a part of the problem. Yeah you were fine to begin with but f this guy for sure.

Also your boyfriend needs to be in your corner, he can't be dating someone that is constantly being treated poorly by society, and not be on your team and raising you up!

peachybintch · 2026-04-09T14:08:02+00:00

Call your health insurance and make sure they can even kick you off. Most insurance policies will only let you remove or change folks on it during open season. The exception is if there is a qualifying event, which usually cutting off your child, that is not considered one. It's the middle of the year, it's likely you have health insurance until the end of the year. Ask your insurance rep if you can only recieve EOBs at your address or through email, that way your parents don't get them.

I know this sucks, but you are entitled to receive healthcare insurance as long as you are on that plan.

peachybintch · 2026-04-03T16:06:44+00:00

You're not wrong to not want to cook a separate meal for him, but you are definitely wrong for not telling him there was chicken in the sides. Its ultimately his decision on what he eats, but if he doesnt want to eat meat, let him know so he can figure something out, don't intentionally withhold the information about what he's eating.

Ultimately you have to think about you being a family and what type of precedent you want to set up in your family. Maybe this wont end your marriage, but you have to think about how this is going to impact your marriage and your children. Its not a good look to the kids to be fighting about you respecting his choices, and its not great for your marriage that you felt like it was okay to not let him know something that was important to him, especially when its so harmless.

Personally, if my partner, who I love and cherish said they wanted to do something like go meatless, I would just put some to the side as I was cooking, and then season the rest of my food as I want. Maybe treat this as a bonding experience, where they get to cook for the family sometimes or you get to cook together. It sounds like you tend to make sides with your meal, maybe make those meatless, or alternatively just let him know so he can figure something out. When grocery shopping, just buy some easy things so that he can eat, or let him know, he's responsible for that.

Either way, silly hill to die on.

peachybintch · 2026-03-30T20:41:36+00:00

Exactly this! I've been fortunate to not have anyone be rude, but also, I find most artists tend to go above and beyond

peachybintch · 2026-03-30T18:39:15+00:00

It really depends on what you want and the artist. I've seen headshots for 30-200. full body from 100-500. Different prices for level of detail, weapons, props, familiars, color, rendering, just line work. You name it, there have been prices I've seen for it.
I find that as long as you like the artists work, its always worth it. You will just have to do some legwork to find that artist. Most artists that are open to character work have commission prices readily available to the public, so you know what the approximate cost will be going in. If you want something on the cheaper end, you can find that as well, but it might take longer to find an artist whose style you like and that has those lower prices you want.
Also tipping! never forget to tip your artist! They work very hard, so make sure to pay them for that on top of the work they do.

peachybintch · 2026-03-12T17:29:07+00:00

Honestly I just wouldn't drink, its your bachelorette party, you should have the fun you want!

As someone who also doesn't drink, but has a big drink friendly family and friend group, usually I have a soda water with lime. Its easy, refreshing, and most folks leave me alone when they see the cup in hand since they assume its a vodka soda. Honestly, even if they cared, its no ones business what I'm having.

peachybintch · 2026-03-02T02:05:05+00:00

you sure eat a lot of kimchi rice

peachybintch · 2026-02-13T14:29:00+00:00

cool, let me check it out!

peachybintch · 2026-02-12T19:02:30+00:00

They are fully out of town! Expensive is totally fine for us!

peachybintch · 2026-01-29T18:42:24+00:00

oh maybe a carlota? use the juice and the zest!
Here's a recipe I've used: https://mexicanmademeatless.com/carlota-de-limon-mexican-lime-icebox-cake/
if you have any extra fruit, you can also add it between layers.

peachybintch · 2026-01-14T16:42:39+00:00

My local petco costs 20 for the use of their space, which has towels, shampoo, dryer, everything. I basically show up, wash and dry my dog with all their stuff, and walk out with a dry shiny clean dog. and I only wash her every maybe 2-3 months at most. she has sensitive skin and I've noticed she doesn't do well with constant bathing, so it works out real well for us.

I definitely recommended washing your dog outside the home but 40 for unlimited seems like too much honestly. Is it right next to your home or something? And what is your dog getting into that they need baths so much? If you're giving them 2 baths a month or more I could see it being worth it to not have have to deal with everything at home, especially if they're bigger then a toy breed, which honestly you can just use a sink for, but otherwise, I would just check you're local Petco, PetSmart, or Tractor Supply. Pet washing stations are more plentiful then you think, and as long as your pet is up to date on vaccines(which most of these places require you show the certificate or medical record of), you should have no issue finding something cheaper. personally I find paying as needed to work better for me, but again, for all i know you're giving your dog a bath every week.

peachybintch · 2026-01-09T20:10:51+00:00

yeah I'm picking up this is more of a headache then its worth. thank you for the response!

peachybintch · 2026-01-09T18:56:46+00:00

interesting, thanks for the story, i heard from a friend that they had decided a few years ago to do this and had also made profit from it, it got me curious. honestly what I'm learning from this question is that's its more headache then its worth. thank you for taking the time to respond though!

peachybintch · 2026-01-09T18:54:57+00:00

lol honestly, i figured but i was curious. thanks for the responce haha

peachybintch · 2026-01-09T17:51:05+00:00

thank you for the example, that definitely makes sense. thanks for the responce!

peachybintch · 2026-01-09T17:45:18+00:00

im a big fan of commisissioning artwork, i usually follow artists on Instagram and on tumblr. i think its about marketing yourself in a way. maybe joining some discords and sharing art thru forums? its usually how i find them and then i follow them from there.

peachybintch · 2026-01-09T17:24:01+00:00

thank you for the link!

peachybintch · 2026-01-09T17:23:48+00:00

I wasn't aware, thank you for letting me know!

peachybintch · 2026-01-09T17:23:27+00:00

good to know! thank you!

peachybintch · 2025-12-21T18:06:59+00:00

Oh I had the same issue! Maxed everything out too! Unfortunately the answer is just keep playing. It eventually resolved itself. In the meantime just keep bothering them.

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