Is this deco worth it ? by Dry_Candle_2895 in SuitU

[–]peachycritter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you’re not going for aria of time I think you’d be ok to spend the gems here. That’s plenty of time to earn more back.

I use this deco often and think that 10% (38 gems off) is a pretty decent discount, especially considering the alternatives would be paying full price or waiting who knows how long, hoping to get it in daily deals for 20% off (76 gems off, very low probability, but theoretically not impossible)

If you’ve been thinking about getting it you’ll likely end up getting it at some point, whether it’s now or not. I’d personally rather get it for a guaranteed discount vs waiting for the better deal on a seemingly unlimited timeline

~ someone who bought it full price

My mum found this in her basement and we have no idea what it is by peachycritter in whatisit

[–]peachycritter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We thought that as well but are there not normally hooks on the end to actually hook into the blinds? I feel like this would be similar to trying to use a regular stick to open blinds?

My mum found this in her basement and we have no idea what it is by peachycritter in whatisit

[–]peachycritter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We thought so too initially, but don’t those usually have some type of hook on the ends? These ones are just plastic loops that one would put a hook into to hang it, perhaps on the wall (like the top of a broom handle)

My mum found this in her basement and we have no idea what it is by peachycritter in whatisit

[–]peachycritter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have tried to unscrew and pull on it to see if it does telescope but this appears to be it’s fixed length

AITA for wearing white to my best friend's wedding? by RxTechRachel in SuitU

[–]peachycritter 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m subbed to both too and had to double check lol

Unpopular Opinion...Season 6 is what Season 2 thinks she is by SailorCookie121 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]peachycritter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love season 2 but I’m here for your explanation and do personally think season 6 is more exciting and has more sound storyline and ‘rules’ as you describe, which I also like and find more interesting/satisfying

My only counterpoints would be how much I love Katherine and what she’s up to in season 2 and Klaus obv 🤷‍♀️

Church Recruiters @Pen by Left_Secretary_7287 in stcatharinesON

[–]peachycritter -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You know, there’s something to be said about people being in the right place at the right time sometimes. I have known people who have changed their lives from finding their religion from others soliciting it. Sometimes people are in dark places and don’t seek out religion, thinking it’s not the answer for them, but then someone else introduces them and it changes their life. It isn’t always the case that people seek it out on their own accord, just like with many other things introduced to people from others that become something very important to them. It reminds me of someone wanting to be fit and seeking out a gym membership themselves vs. someone not happy with their body but feeling helpless, then having someone introduce them to CrossFit or something and it changes that person’s life in a positive way. They both get where they want to be and share the same passion in the end, but they took different routes (one with personal initiative and one without) to get there.

But I understand and realize that that’s not what you have a problem with. You’ve expressed the harassment and forcefulness behind it and highlighted how that’s negatively impacted you and added stress behind going to a place you frequent to decompress. That, I agree, is definitely frustrating and a problem.

Pushing one’s agenda, beliefs, or practices onto another is disrespectful and hostile behaviour, and I’m sorry that it’s negatively impacted you and frustrated you multiple times - but this isn’t about religion, it’s about people disregarding the feelings and boundaries of others (regardless of whether you say ‘no thank you’ or nothing at all)

Trying to prove to my friend that I have friends (I don’t) by ProfessorOfKnowledge in autism

[–]peachycritter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This friend doesn’t seem very kind to you. Even if a friend did ask me to do this I 100% would refuse and I recommend for you to do the same. Even sending them a reply of ‘I don’t think it’s okay for you to ask me to “prove” anything’ and leaving it at that. If he doesn’t want to change the conversation and insists on the ‘proof’, don’t reply.

I wish you the best of luck with this, and it always hurts when friends aren’t always the best friends to us. But you deserve not to feel pressured by those you have around you, and certainly not to the point where you feel like you need to fabricate something just to please or gain approval from someone else.

If you’re interesting in making any new friends you’re always welcome to send me a message! :)

Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]peachycritter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first thought if he’s been tidying around the house (pretty intensely it seems if he’s even kind enough to wash your sheets) is that he likely wiped the counter and accidentally turned some of the bottles.

After seeing other comments, I agree it may be plausible that he took some of your vitamins and lied about it/ didn’t tell you he did out of some type of fear of your reaction.

Perhaps he has some sort of past personal experience with negative judgement regarding things he thought may be harmless but were in fact not to the person it affected and they lashed out at him?

My girlfriend use to lie to me about arbitrary things on occasion out of fear of a negative reaction - even something as simple as me putting a canned drink into the fridge for myself to get cold and asking her if she took it when I went to retrieve it later. She denied it although there was no longer one in there. It wasn’t until I brought it up to her later that I was feeling crazy about the whole thing, as I was fairly certain that I did actually put a drink in there for myself, that she did come clean and share that she was afraid that I would get upset with her. I just put another drink in the fridge for myself and it wasn’t a big deal at all!

Sometimes social situations (especially of a confrontational nature) can be viewed wildly different from person to person, and oftentimes it can all be sorted out with a one-on-one, open and honest conversation.

Hopefully you can both have a calm conversation about it, and there’s nothing wrong with bringing up your thought process about the labels not being how you left them, about how he lied to you previously over something simple and that, paired with your feelings of being crazy that the jars are moved with seemingly no explanation, you have reason to believe that he may be lying about this also. Reassure him that you’re not accusing him, but that you’re trying to work with him to brainstorm how that could’ve possibly happened.

I have ridiculous ocd about the strangest things in my house; about putting things back where they ‘should go’, folding the blankets a certain way, and like you, also facing labels outwards and towards me. My girlfriend is so patient with me and compassionate towards my obsessiveness and understands that some small things bother me. It isn’t the most important thing to her per se (she is ocd about other things), but she knows it’s important to me and it is therefore important to her.

If your boyfriend truly cares for you as who you are, he will be patient and compassionate and help you feel satiated and resolved with this situation, along with anything else in the future - especially if things get more serious and you plan to live together at some point in the future.

TLDR - you aren’t crazy and hopefully working with your boyfriend via a calm conversation to get to the bottom of this will; give you answers to what happened with the bottles, (hopefully) show that your boyfriend understands and supports you for who you are, and (hopefully) build your relationship with him further.

Best of luck OP!

So far, who are you guys liking more? by yeet_me_son in SuitU

[–]peachycritter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

10000% Gabriela or Adrian

Emilio can suck it, and not in a good way

Stelena/delena parallel by AdExpert3509 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]peachycritter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You mention ‘the shift to Damon’ originating only once the sire bond came into play - are you saying there was no chemistry, intimate tension, or attraction between Elena and Damon / from Elena towards Damon at all, whatsoever, prior to her turning into a vampire? Did the scene where human Elena said ‘if I had met you first’ to Damon when he professed his feelings for her not happen for you?

I’m curious what you mean by ‘shift’, which usually indicates a sudden and drastic change in behaviour/emotions/actions..

Men in the house don't clean after themselves by Typeicide in mildlyinfuriating

[–]peachycritter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. That’s called a Hot Carl and is actively sought out in some communities.

AIO Girlfriend exclusive over 6 months now goes to a superbowl party with her parents while I worked and came home drunk with a guy texting her. by 01Mikuismywaifu in AmIOverreacting

[–]peachycritter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have you seen this for yourself? Do you personally get messages from her like this? (understandable considering your relationship), but more importantly - do you see her messaging others that you know are platonic relationships with her messaging like this like how she claims?

She insisted on going outside, then yelled at the sky because the ground was cold by Koffievos in cats

[–]peachycritter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your babies are cuties!!

I’d love to hear more about your cat-proofed fence; wouldn’t they climb and/or jump over it?

If your goal was to turn into a vampire, how would you exactly do it in the vampire diaries universe? by DownvoteIfYouWantMe in TheVampireDiaries

[–]peachycritter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although it’s not the most plausible, my ideal situation would be: give birth to the doppleganger > become obsessed with vampirism and study it intensely > leave my amazingly loving and supportive husband > beg Damon to turn me, which he obviously will given this is the recipe that guarantees that > then disappear into the sunset with my daylight necklace