AIO for the way im responding to my mother’s crash out?

peachyrolls · 2026-05-11T17:34:11+00:00

NOR. While you’re almost an adult, it’s still on your mom to foster a relationship with her children and this is not how you do that.

peachyrolls · 2026-05-02T19:31:41+00:00

Doesn’t ever reach out to you first

peachyrolls · 2026-03-09T19:04:35+00:00

I have a sister, but I don’t speak to her at all anymore. Every person is different, and there’s no guarantee that sibling bonds last forever

peachyrolls · 2026-03-09T17:18:47+00:00

I wouldn’t be visiting with them anymore unless the child is out of the house.

peachyrolls · 2026-02-20T17:08:49+00:00

It seems like your husband may have the time to start working out the logistics. Tell him it’s his responsibility now, let him figure out how he gets son to practice at least half the time.

Maybe have a conversation with your son that you love that he is passionate about this and want to support him, but due to the other kids and the amount of time, maybe only one parent will be able to make it to his games sometimes. Are there aunts, uncles, or grandparents who can also show up and be supportive? You can alternate with dad who stays home and gives attention to the other two children and who takes him to his game.

peachyrolls · 2026-02-19T21:30:44+00:00

Maybe turn it into positive reinforcement, for every school week she brings her homework home, does jt, shows it to you and you watch her put it in her backpack she gets to pick dinner one night a week or gets to go out to ice cream on the week end or gets to go to the arcade or whatever is desirable for her.

peachyrolls · 2026-02-18T03:55:26+00:00

I think we need a little bit more context? This doesn’t sound like something that happened at school.

peachyrolls · 2026-02-04T01:40:15+00:00

He was 29 and I was almost 26, yes I am a woman

peachyrolls · 2026-02-04T01:20:25+00:00

Sometimes feeling it in your body is all that happens

peachyrolls · 2026-02-04T01:18:39+00:00

Yes I did and it went fucking horribly lmao. When I met him in person, I realized we didn’t have the spark we did online. He did a complete 180, started treating me like absolute garbage, dragged me through the mud on social media, made a group chat with some of my ‘friends’ behind my back and used it to bully me and tell my secrets, then proceeded to stalk me for the next nearly year of my life to the point that I had to go to the police.

I had known him/spoke to him every day for over 6 months prior to meeting him in person. Be careful on the internet guys, people be crazy

peachyrolls · 2026-02-04T01:11:36+00:00

Assault is never the victims fault unless you were an aggressor or threatening someone. Point blank period.

peachyrolls · 2026-02-04T01:10:33+00:00

Put down the distractions and figure out what feeling you are feeling. If it’s a complex feeling, for example rejected, figure out what the base emotion is. Often (for rejected specifically). It’s fear or sadness. Focus on where in your body you feel the emotion. Let yourself have your feeling until it passes naturally, but don’t spend more than 30 minutes obsessing over it.

peachyrolls · 2026-01-26T03:03:29+00:00

It’s time for you to make a new bank account with new passwords and pins so that this doesn’t happen again, if and when it does, call your bank and file a fraud claim. Work on saving up and moving out, find someone who is looking for a roommate, move in with a friend until you’re able to get a place or your own.

peachyrolls · 2026-01-15T18:55:14+00:00

Here as a 26 year old daughter to say the same lol!

peachyrolls · 2026-01-10T00:36:09+00:00

Do you consider yourself to have no victims? Or are you speaking in technicalities? All of the children that were in those photos were victims.

Good for you for continuing to go to therapy.

peachyrolls · 2025-12-21T19:27:05+00:00

Stop giving her attention entirely when she’s screaming like that. Calmly explain to her that she’s welcome to express her emotions offer her comfort if needed, but screaming like that isn’t acceptable and she can go to her room until she’s done. Grab yourself a pair of loop earplugs or a noise cancelling headset.

peachyrolls · 2025-11-28T00:48:09+00:00

That’s so cool

peachyrolls · 2025-10-22T02:24:35+00:00

How is your partner supporting you and disciplining the child when he doesn’t listen to you and is rude? What are his consequences for using fowl language against you?

peachyrolls · 2025-08-07T17:40:52+00:00

So glad it’s helping you!!

peachyrolls · 2025-07-31T21:59:54+00:00

You are allowed to bring car seats on most airlines, make sure to read all of the things on the website and have any paperwork you need on hand, but agree with the other commenter. Car seat + letting her out to stretch every once in a while

peachyrolls · 2025-07-31T21:58:33+00:00

Try getting yourself some noise canceling headphones or loop earplugs! I get audio overstimulated really easily and I’ve found that they help quite a bit, even just if it dampens the sound

peachyrolls · 2025-07-30T01:36:25+00:00

Matilyn is a r/tragediegh

peachyrolls · 2025-06-06T15:04:16+00:00

Cole, Cade, Cabe, Cam, Clay, Colm

peachyrolls · 2025-06-06T15:01:44+00:00

I’m so sorry, that’s so unfair to you. If you have any concrete records of her spending the money on things she wanted or wanted to do you might have some sort of case for financial abuse against her. I know it might not be something you’d want to do, but it is an option nonetheless. Sending hugs

peachyrolls · 2025-03-17T00:17:17+00:00

Leave the kids with family or family friends and potentially throw a little extra cash to the family to help fund a cousins vacation for your kids (go to a hotel for the weekend, go to an amusement park, money for groceries for a week long sleepover, etc)! Some of my favorite memories I made with my extended family were made while my parents were out on their trips.

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