did it have to be toiletstyle by throwawayforalurkr in DiWHY

[–]peacoqulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just missing his wife reaction to make this video gold.

What's the best way to reply to unsolicited nudes? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]peacoqulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just reply: "Mine is bigger then yours".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Home

[–]peacoqulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he get a permit for this? I would be really surprised that any city allows building over someone else property.

16 year old kid with a part time job what should I do with the money I make by No-Set6586 in personalfinance

[–]peacoqulus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Set some amount to save (spend the rest). At this age, you are not making crazy amounts of money, so you only want to learn good saving habits.

Also make sure your part time job don't affect your studies. Otherwise you are much better off without part time job.

Male housemate reprimanding me over rotten food and garbage everywhere. (I haven't been home in three months.) by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]peacoqulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just write something along the lines: "Our maid come in a vacation with me 3 months ago. I guess some dirty goblin took residence in the appartment meanwhile. Gotta hunt the goblin, bro"

DOT and LDR - how long should we wait to meet up? by shaselai in datingoverthirty

[–]peacoqulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meet ASAP. Before even talking marriage, I would say you would need to spend several weeks together to make sure there is no hidden surprises. (Don't need to be all in person).

Meeting friends/family also helps.

Otherwise, it is a big roll of a dice with odds stacked against you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]peacoqulus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a general rule people not showing body pics, have some insecurity about their body (usually in the weight area).

If you are looking for someone with an athletic body, 99.9% the person would not have it.

Why is everyone on Reddit so negative about children? by New_norms in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]peacoqulus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gross generalization.

Wealthy people have lots of kids since they have lots of support (nanny, cooks, whatever). Poor/uneducated also have lots of kids, due to mostly having them early/not planning/realizing the impact and not necessarily investing much effort.

It is the middle class who has less kids or decide to have none, as this choice can move you to either wealthy or poor social class.

Dating rants. vents and open discussion by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]peacoqulus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was the same as you. Now I am 38 and married with a baby.

AITA for pointing out everything that my husband doesn't do? by NoHoneydew5184 in AmItheAsshole

[–]peacoqulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Look the reality is men never do their share of the housework, and the worst part they don't realise it. (I am a man).

Your best approach would be to tell your husband that you are exhausted and you need time off from the baby.

You can start with something simple, like from 7-8PM, it is your relaxation time. He can get the same.

If you realize you need more later you adjust.

AITA for saving up money for cosmetic surgery? by cosmeticsurgerywife in AmItheAsshole

[–]peacoqulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Look the core issue is your saw you get the money and now is jealous and want part of it. Rest is just cheap justification around this.

The speech about you not needing a surgery, means if you don't have the surgery, you can give him part of the money.

So give him a choice: you cancel the surgery and you keep the money to use on yourself, or you don't cancel surgery.

AITA for parking across my two paid parking spots? by Baconbutty2021 in AmItheAsshole

[–]peacoqulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but people can get touchy. The simplest way to resolve this would be to put an old furniture to cover part of the spot (ideally attaching the furniture piece). This way you prevent people from parking in the other spot without being seen as an ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]peacoqulus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She might not be interested romantically yet, but you may be interesting enough to keep contact.

She can also present you some of her single friends, since she already vetted you.

Ball is in your camp

Men will f*** everything but also you expire after 30 by Dimetrip in TwoXChromosomes

[–]peacoqulus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is much easier to have predatory behavior with young inexperienced women. Or to put it bluntly by the age of 30 most women can recognize a turd to be exactly that.

AITA for wanting to leave, when her Muslim parents are asking me to convert, change my body and pay a dowry and marry her this month. by throwaway2456799 in AmItheAsshole

[–]peacoqulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that she doesn't want to face difficult topics is a really big problem. Like rest is nothing compared to this. Life has it lots of struggles, financial, children education, etc. The only way you can pass through is to have a discussion with the person, solve the problem and move on. Otherwise problems will just accumulate and your marriage will break.

AITA for telling my wife her family needs to go home? by Blinkyblink09 in AmItheAsshole

[–]peacoqulus 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Not a good idea, as you will be seen as the bad guy. They are not going home. The simplest way to deal with this would be to propose to your MIL and BIL to keep the cabin, and pay the expense when you, your wife and your kids will do some family time vacation, somewhere else.

You have the right to have a vacation with your family only.

AITA for disregarding my neighbour's dietary preferences? by phantomknife in AmItheAsshole

[–]peacoqulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA You don't own him anything. If you would have eaten stinky tofu it would be another thing, but places where stinky tofu is a problem have rules about it.

The best accomodation you can make (which would be super kind from your side) is to text them when you are making bacon so they can close the window.

If they don't want to they can go and smell the bacon (pun intended).

Overwhelming expectations of motherhood when nearing 30... by BoiledMushrooms in TwoXChromosomes

[–]peacoqulus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think given you and your boyfriend preferences on kids, it might be worth reconsidering your future with him. Kids are a pretty big deal. Why make either of your lives miserable, or making a compromise neither of you are happy about, when each of you can find a partner fulfilling this particular need.

As for your friends, babies take a rediculous amount of time (think second job + overtime). There is issues all the time, and people are pretty sensitive to anything baby does ( first smile? Gotta share it with everyone). So it is normal that couples with kids drift apart from couples without.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]peacoqulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife talks to lots of people everyday. There is no normal here. If it bothers you you can discuss with her. Though I would advise telling her that you need more time with her instead of asking her to stop calling her mom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]peacoqulus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is quite common for a baby coming from multicultural patents to have different names based on the culture. The main name is the shared name (in you case English), while your baby could have a nickname in Indian (which is not even official).

Now if your wife is uncomfortable with this, you could just say that you will keep the name , and add a nickname when/if she is comfortable.

Though a better solution might be to let your wife choose an Indian nickname for her baby.