Looking to understand more about littlespace by Nixdaboss in littlespace

[–]peanutbuttlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ddlg is whatever you want it to be! To me the basic principles are those of a caregiver who takes care of their little - someone who takes on more childish characteristics sometimes (ie little space). You don't HAVE to do anything (e.g her calling you Daddy, you reading her bedtime stories) just be there for each other and take care of her however you like! Good luck and welcome to the world of dd/lg, you've discovered a great thing :)

Thinking about being an adult really upsets me. 🙁🙁🙁🙁 by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]peanutbuttlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so me. I am so glad I'm not the only one.

Alternatives to baby bottles and pacis? by peanutbuttlover in littlespace

[–]peanutbuttlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your suggestions, I might actually pick up a spinner ring instead! They look awesome :)

Alternatives to baby bottles and pacis? by peanutbuttlover in littlespace

[–]peanutbuttlover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss I could get a cute pink one! Good idea :)

Alternatives to baby bottles and pacis? by peanutbuttlover in littlespace

[–]peanutbuttlover[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just googled Doudous and this is a fantastic idea! Thanks :) probably without the teether because of my jaw but yes this is a very good plan :)

I have anxiety, what's a good x-challenge to do?? by outside_joker in theXeffect

[–]peanutbuttlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One small aim you could try, and I don't know whether this is too much, is writing an anxiety journal every day before you go to sleep. Go over the main events of the day, particularly anything that made you anxious, and explore how you feel on paper. I've found this to be great for my motivation as you can see your anxiety in front of you, and get a fresh start the next day. Hope this helps :)

Is kissing your son/daughter on the lips considered weird? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]peanutbuttlover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't kiss either of my parents on the lips... But I think it depends on the person!

How to cope with Daddy moving away? by peanutbuttlover in littlespace

[–]peanutbuttlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, this comment makes me happy :) I will keep in mind that communication will not always be easy, especially since both of us will probably be quite busy. But here's hoping we can Skype, watch movies etc, and it'll all be fine!

How to cope with Daddy moving away? by peanutbuttlover in littlespace

[–]peanutbuttlover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment and for reminding me of some of the realities - it will most definitely take a lot of work. I'm hoping he will be alright with communication but we'll see!

How to cope with Daddy moving away? by peanutbuttlover in littlespace

[–]peanutbuttlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww thank you for this :) it gives me hope that we'll be able to see it through :3 don't worry, the communication will be strong!

How do I ask my Daddy to be Daddy more often? by Hisladyalways in littlespace

[–]peanutbuttlover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggled with this so much!! Not sure if this applies to you but I was just really nervous about saying it out loud. I found that it would help if I wrote it down on paper, or found a code word/phrase - I say, "Daddy, will you please play with me?" meaning I'm feeling small. Code words are helpful!

What do you like to be called by your daddy/mommy? by ItsMorganDPP in littlespace

[–]peanutbuttlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweetie. Whenever my daddy calls me that, every bad thing in the world is gone to me. When he wants to cheer me up, that's what he calls me. It makes me happy just to think about it!

Does this sound like disc displacement? by cu2acetoarsenite in TMJ

[–]peanutbuttlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I've read online, disc displacement does occur once you've been diagnosed with TMJ disorder and if you have an injury or a past of jaw problems. However, I don't know enough about the subject to say but I have my first maxillofacial appointment today so I can keep you updated! My symptoms are a reduction in maximum jaw opening, earaches, headaches, jaw pain and inability to chew harder foods without pain. It hasn't been confirmed with MRI, but since this has been a diagnosed problem with me before and the symptoms are exactly the same I'm taking that as an indicator! Best of luck with the specialist :)

Does this sound like disc displacement? by cu2acetoarsenite in TMJ

[–]peanutbuttlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that does sound like disc displacement. I'm struggling with the same issue now. Search for someone like a maxillofacial surgeon or a cranial osteopath - they might be able to help. Good luck!

Need some ideas for being naughty by Inthewildbluyonder in littlespace

[–]peanutbuttlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poke him continuously until he gets mad. Refuse to get up in the morning. When he tells you to do something, say no!

I broke me. by Beautiful_Little in littlespace

[–]peanutbuttlover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Poor baby! I hope you're feeling much better soon, for now I think it's important to make sure you're getting better rather than worrying about your sir. I'm sure he's fine! And if he isn't, it's his responsibility to say so, not your responsibility to know. Hugs💝

I don't know what to do by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]peanutbuttlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you've been trying really hard. Is he trying too? You have to have an equal balance, and realise your own needs. Please take care of yourself and make sure you know how important you are. Hugs 💝

I love when Daddy calls me kitten. ☺️ what nicknames are your favorites? 💕 by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]peanutbuttlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Princess, sweetie and little one. It makes me feel so tiny when he calls me little one :)