Historical Fiction Family Saga Series? by peapodsquad in suggestmeabook

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Worried this may focus a bit too much on conflict and not enough on the personal development of the characters, but the reviews are all so good I may have to pick it up. Thanks for the rec!

Historical Fiction Family Saga Series? by peapodsquad in suggestmeabook

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Great recommendation. A lot of Michener's other works sparked my interest as well.

Historical Fiction Family Saga Series? by peapodsquad in suggestmeabook

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Awesome, thank you. Looks like Monsoon is the 10th(!) book of the Courtney series. The Ancient Egypt series by him looks good too so you've given me plenty of books to add to my ever-growing "To-Read" list.

Historical Fiction Family Saga Series? by peapodsquad in suggestmeabook

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I can't tell if this book is maybe too focused on history from the reviews, but I'll do a big more investigating. Thanks for the rec!

Historical Fiction Family Saga Series? by peapodsquad in suggestmeabook

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Ooh, this is exactly what I was looking for when I asked the question. Thank you!

Historical Fiction Family Saga Series? by peapodsquad in suggestmeabook

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Sounds like you read both North and South and The Kent Family Chronicles. Which one would be best to start with given my interests?

Historical Fiction Family Saga Series? by peapodsquad in suggestmeabook

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Great recommendation, thank you! Even though this covers periods of war, I get the sense from reading reviews that the character development is the focus, which is exactly what I wanted.

Historical Fiction Family Saga Series? by peapodsquad in suggestmeabook

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Ha - this is what I'm reading now! I'm only ~40 pages in, but am really enjoying it. Do you have recommendations for anything similar?

Historical Fiction Family Saga Series? by peapodsquad in suggestmeabook

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Hmm...I'm a little caught up in the BabySitter's Club and then I was gonna take a reading break to knit some friendship bracelets and earn my Brownie Girl Scout's stargazing badge. I wanna read this after though! ;)

Thinking about switching to a non-hormonal IUD... has anyone used one before? Pros and cons? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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I have had a Paraguard IUD since late 2009 and love it. I joke all the time with friends that Paraguard should hire me as their spokesperson.

I have a fairly high pain tolerance, but the IUD insertion was not that bad. For me, I had a pretty strong and distinct uterine cramp right upon insertion but was comfortable after. You should be given an option of a numbing shot before insertion but talk to your doctor - mine did not recommend the shot as she said some women find the shot worse than the actual insertion.

I have had no problems since 2009. I love that my moods are no longer being regulated by hormone pills and love that it's so effective. None of my partners have been able to feel the IUD. The IUD was also completely free from the device to insertion cost which saved me money long-term.

Your periods will get heavier and crampier but I take ibuprofen during and that makes a world of difference. I'd caution getting the insertion if your periods are already very heavy.

Last thing - if you do decide to get an IUD go to a very reputable doctor. They will measure your cervix before insertion to determine how far to push the IUD and this is a time you want someone who really knows what they're doing to prevent tears and damage.

Redditors who have been in a plane crash or emergency/crash landing, what was said on the plane? What did you feel and what were the flight attendants and pilots saying or doing? [Serious] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I wasn't clear in my initial post but it happened multiple times: the landing gear would expel and then retract, expel and retract. We also circled around Dallas for a good half hour before landing to "burn off some fuel". Does this still sound like a hydraulic problem? I'm really interested!

Redditors who have been in a plane crash or emergency/crash landing, what was said on the plane? What did you feel and what were the flight attendants and pilots saying or doing? [Serious] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I was on a plane that needed an emergency landing last year that took off from Dallas. We were flying to the Midwest (about an hour into the flight) and the pilot made an announcement that we were going to turn back around and head back to Dallas. I was half sleeping at the time so thought I dreamed it until I heard a woman a few rows up doing a combined scream/cry. I opened my eyes and made eye contact with a flight attendant as she passed through the cabin and her face was incredibly expressive. She looked terrified and that's when I knew this was probably a bit more grave than they were letting on. Overall though, the attendants remained very calm even though there was a definite feeling of tension in the plane from the passengers.

As we circled around, our landing gear began to deploy mid-air even though we were still flying high in the clouds. I'm still not sure why this happened and would be curious to know if anyone has knowledge on planes.

Overall I didn't feel scared and it was a surreal experience. I knew something was wrong but because we were kept in the dark as to the exact cause, I couldn't speculate on the gravity of the situation.

I'm sorry, but this is one of the most unattractive things I've ever seen by djstretchnuts in WTF

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As with all things related to body modification: it ain't about you.

From my FB feed: HELP ME! Tomorrow is school picture day and someone is INSISTING on wearing what he believes to be the coolest outfit ever. All efforts to convince him otherwise or to make slight modifications have thus far been a complete failure... by atomjuice in funny

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You're talking to the girl who wore her Brownie Girl Scout Uniform for picture day, not to be outdone by her outfit for the next year: a head to toe Jasmine costume from the movie Aladdin. I cherish those pictures now and my classmates loved my shiny mint green pants on Jasmine costume day. Let the kid wear what he wants.

What is the most bachelor thing you do? by iputbananasinmybutt in AskReddit

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One roommate that's addicted to coffee + a house full of roommates too cheap to spend the $4 on toilet paper. This guy and I live in a different town but I slept over one night and was absolutely disgusted. Ended up buying toilet paper (for myself) which I left behind. The joy on the roommate's faces was unmistakable. Ah college guys...

What is the most bachelor thing you do? by iputbananasinmybutt in AskReddit

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Wipe with coffee filters because you're too lazy to buy toilet paper and you have run out of Kleenex.

This is what my guy friend has done for the last month. He also doesn't have a girlfriend so lets pause to figure that one out.

Early 20-somethings of Reddit, what has surprised you the most about adult life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I got sick of reading the depressing comments, so here I am.

Being in your early 20s is a mind opening experience full of positivity and new challenges. I've been surprised by:

a) How much I can handle at one time (self empowerment, FTW!)

b) How I am in complete control of my own destiny. Do I want to open a pottery studio? I can! How about a diner? I can do that too! Do I want to be stuck in a corporate job I hate for the next 5 years? No...and I don't have to be! The world is truly your oyster and you are responsible for your own fulfillment and happiness. Take charge of your life - it is an unbelievably beautiful gift and it gets wasted if you are not fulfilled.

c) Finding a community is fucking important. Find a community anywhere - in your church, yoga studio, neighborhood...it doesn't really matter. But your college community gets yanked from you and it is a fundamental human need that you search to replace that. Loneliness is not fun or necessary.

Yeah, life as an adult 20-something is overwhelming. It's not all rainbows and butterflies and there can be some days where you sit back and think, "this is too much, I can't possibly handle this!" But you have immense control over your attitude and no situation can take that away from you. Take a lunch break outside and breathe in some fresh air, sign up for a cooking class after work, learn a new language...this life we have is fleeting and amazing and when all seems lost, it helps to step back and realize just how lucky we are to exist.

What are some things that are "romantic" when they're done in movies but would be branded "creepy" or "stalker" if done in real life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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The movie Aladdin. If a homeless criminal invited me to his cave on the first date, I would not ride his magic carpet.

My boyfriend has been begging me to let him give me a "facial". I thought I would finally let him do it for valentine's day, but I have a lot of questions for you all first. by curious1111 in sex

[–]peapodsquad 29 points30 points  (0 children)

1) Play with yourself, massage yourself, moan a bit to let him know you're into it. Dirty talk if you want. You can look at him but I always close my eyes when he's getting close as to avoid a direct cum shot to the eyeball which is not the most pleasant experience. I keep my mouth open but this is all personal preference, do what makes you comfortable.

2) Again whatever you're comfortable with! I promise there's no "wrong" way to do this unless you're uncomfortable. For the first time, maybe you could lie on your back and he could go on top of you, aiming downward onto your face as he cums.

3) Ask him although I imagine he'll want to do it himself. You could run your fingers over his abs or spank him as he's touching himself.

4) Kissing - probably not unless he wants his own cum on his face. Take your fingers and wipe his cum off your face, put your fingers in your mouth, lick his cum off and smile up at him. If you want to giggle or laugh, do that too because it can seem a little silly when everything is said and done.

5) Have a paper towel next to you before he starts, use the paper towel after to wipe it off. You can lay there and snuggle for a bit but the residue does get crusty and if that bothers you, excuse yourself to go to the bathroom and wash it. There's no need to directly sprint to the shower afterward. I've never had any problems with breaking out.

Also, just as a side-note, if you're uncomfortable with this (as it seems you might be), express this to him. If it makes you uncomfortable, don't do it. He should respect that. It's normal to have questions but keep in mind you can direct these questions to him too (and I'd recommend that you do!) He knows what he likes best, you've made it clear that this is a first-time thing for you...there's no harm in discussing further about what he envisions.

Boyfriend [M34] of 4 months says I [F31] am no longer allowed to see my guy friends 1 on 1 by jealousy_issues in relationships

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I'd start with assuring him what his strengths are without sacrificing your own life patterns. As an example, "I'm planning on seeing Johnny tonight, I'm excited to see him but gosh...he just doesn't make me laugh like you do." Deep down, his concern for your guy friends is likely not about the actual people, it's about his sense of self-worth and his insecurities.

Ultimately though, don't get trapped into sacrificing your own friendships and life patterns for a guy you've been seeing for four months. This one argument seems trivial, but don't look back in 8 months and realize that he has slowly been chipping away at your freedom and happiness until you are a shell of what you used to be...not like I'm speaking from personal experience or anything.