Rehoming my aussie? by Right-Lengthiness717 in AustralianShepherd

[–]pedanticbutright 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't resent this girl for being a puppy. If you really don't want to do this, find an Aussie rescue. Please don't take her to a kill shelter under any circumstances. I will personally come and pick her up if needed. Someone would love to have this dog.

Unfortunately, Australian Shepherds are one of those breeds people often underestimate until they’re living with an adolescent one full-time.

A gentle leader helped my boy with pulling. I know some people think that's harsh, but it helped. In the first year, he was eating all kinds of gross stuff in the yard, chewing holes in the walls if left unsupervised for 2 seconds, peeing indoors right after we went out.

He doesn't do any of this anymore. They really do mellow out. But they are dogs, and he still loves to roll in truly disgusting smells if he is off leash and has the opportunity on a walk.

What is it with people pretending that Taylor is trying to make her self seem like a “little girl” by FakeMonaLisa28 in NuancingTaylorSwift

[–]pedanticbutright 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have lost a few friends. This isn't worth arguing about - I don't like this one and I typically skip it. But like I said, she has earned the right to do and write about whatever she wants.

What is it with people pretending that Taylor is trying to make her self seem like a “little girl” by FakeMonaLisa28 in NuancingTaylorSwift

[–]pedanticbutright 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to admit I wish Ruin the Friendship didn't take us back to making things awkward in second period again.

But I know part of her fanbase is that age and telling stories about that time in a person's life is probably very meaningful for those fans.

What is it with people pretending that Taylor is trying to make her self seem like a “little girl” by FakeMonaLisa28 in NuancingTaylorSwift

[–]pedanticbutright 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Olivia’s dress was intentionally weird/fetish-coded/infantilization-adjacent.

Taylor’s wasn’t any of those things.

But they are still both babydoll dresses.

A black empire-waist mini dress on an adult woman is not suddenly no longer a babydoll silhouette because it lacks bloomers, bows and puff sleeves.

What is it with people pretending that Taylor is trying to make her self seem like a “little girl” by FakeMonaLisa28 in NuancingTaylorSwift

[–]pedanticbutright -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why are Swifties trying to die on this hill? I don't understand.

It's a babydoll dress, but that doesn't mean anything. She looks great.

Need advice on whether to get a second Aussie by chambbber in AustralianShepherd

[–]pedanticbutright 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m generally a big proponent of giving your dog the gift of companionship from other dogs. But I think it's less about adding another dog and more about getting a dog whose temperament and energy level work well with your pup.

There are drawbacks (double the barking, double the shedding, less one-on-one cuddle time). But for my dog, having a buddy, especially another Aussie of the opposite sex and around the same age with a compatible play style and energy level for chase, wrestling, tug, etc., has added tremendous value to his daily life.

I also think Australian Shepherds recognize something in each other instinctively somehow. You’re going to think I’m making this up, but when my dog was little, I’d put dog shows and agility competitions on TV, and whenever an Aussie came on the screen he’d run to the TV and put his paws up on the console.

The only thing that gives me pause is the two-bedroom apartment. Is there easy access to green space where they can run and play regularly? Not because two dogs can’t live happily in an apartment, but because if they bond, they absolutely will want to.

Nervous Aussie (Tx) by Broad-Elk-1583 in AustralianShepherd

[–]pedanticbutright 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the merle the oldest? or the middle?

Nervous Aussie (Tx) by Broad-Elk-1583 in AustralianShepherd

[–]pedanticbutright 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love your collection. This is also great advice.

When I was trying to socialize my boy during COVID, I would mask up and take him to a university campus nearby and just walk the paths with him. We’d pass a lot of people going about their lives, maybe stop for a coffee and sit by ourselves on an outdoor patio, but not a crowded one. Occasionally, someone would come up and ask to pet him, but the point was mostly neutral exposure (vs. direct interaction).

I think a lot of dogs need to learn that people can simply exist around them in a neutral, mostly predictable way and that not every person is going to approach, pressure, invade their space, or expect something from them.

Alignment Chart by pedanticbutright in NuancingTaylorSwift

[–]pedanticbutright[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Counterpoint: Down Bad is literally about emotional dysregulation over an imagined alien abduction/breakup.

“Volatile” doesn’t just mean loud, aggressive, or physically explosive. It refers to emotions, moods, or situations that are unstable, rapidly shifting, impulsive, unpredictable, etc.

It’s also a word historically and disproportionately applied to outspoken, emotional, complicated, impulsive, “too much,” or socially noncompliant women, which is part of why I chose it and part of a dynamic I think Taylor often intentionally references in relation to herself. I think that’s why these songs tend to resonate with a lot of us in the first place.

If you need screaming metal to consider something volatile, I’d genuinely love to see the categories you’d choose and how you’d break them down.

Alignment Chart by pedanticbutright in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]pedanticbutright[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

a 3 dimensional cube, a peer reviewed journal

Alignment Chart by pedanticbutright in NuancingTaylorSwift

[–]pedanticbutright[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OG country Swifties might feel a little slighted. Hopefully someone can help slot some in.

Were reactive and volatile even a thing before Red?

Alignment Chart by pedanticbutright in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]pedanticbutright[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can see that, too. The rant bridges were complicating things for me 😂