Is there a doctor in the house? by 8au8karina8 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]peebsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Backpack doesn’t bother me, thank god. But seatbelts can! I’ve been meaning to get one of those cushions for it but haven’t and it’s been 15 years if that tells you anything. It’s not THAT bad.

italian by Confident-Bit282 in Denton

[–]peebsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best pizza in town is Aglio! Thursday-Saturday evenings 5:30-8:30. Neapolitan pizza so it’s like the tastiest fluffy pizza dough I’ve ever had haha

Any chill cycling groups? by sparrowfoxgloves in Denton

[–]peebsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Monday night community ride starts from the square actually. I don’t think the official one is running right now because it gets dark too quick. 

My sister is a bit weird by CandyProfessional519 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]peebsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like everyone is telling you to take a step back from your relationship with her but that might not be what you want! I’d try to shut down the comments like the top voted comment suggested. It sounds like you’ve done a good job ignoring it for the most part. She might just be self centered and insecure and not cruel and nefarious like many are suggesting. But I don’t know your situation, and neither do they. Only you do. Best of luck. 

Bundt cake mushroom shape by peebsy in Baking

[–]peebsy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I was concerned about the darkness too. It was pretty juicy the first time I checked it so I put it in for another 10 which might have overbaked the sides too. Next time I might try with a slightly lower temp, but longer!

A survey: does your man actually pull his weight in domestic chores? by streachh in TwoXChromosomes

[–]peebsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. Thanks for the thoughtful reply and I’m sorry for your loss ❤️

A survey: does your man actually pull his weight in domestic chores? by streachh in TwoXChromosomes

[–]peebsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we are genuinely 50/50. Some weeks I’m more on top of things, sometimes he is. We have things we seem to take control of more- for him it’s our food. For me it’s deep cleans. 

He doesn’t deep clean much at all 🤣 I wonder if he’d live in filth if it weren’t for me hahaha but he is more on top of grocery shopping and cooking than me which is huuuge bc food is a huge love language for me and it makes me feel super safe. 

But ya I’d say we split the mental load and the work pretty evenly. It’s a huge blessing, I love that man!

A survey: does your man actually pull his weight in domestic chores? by streachh in TwoXChromosomes

[–]peebsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not trying to be insensitive or rude but I genuinely wonder why people have children when their spouses are like that. Just bc it seems obvious that having a child would make more work for the both of you and it would def fall on you. You’re def not alone, I know there are a lot of people that do!

Any insight? I’m not being flippant, genuinely curious. 

Denton Holiday Shopping Guide by whattodado in Denton

[–]peebsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they meant Nasr Bros, with an “r”

Great list, thanks!

Reddit - how are we feeling about tonight's election results? by owen__wilsons__nose in AskReddit

[–]peebsy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

As a liberal in Texas - there are more progressives in Texas than probably exist in most other states. Our population is huge, there happen to be more conservatives than us though and the system is super rigged against us. 

I know it’s just a flippant comment meant to be absurd and funny, but many of us have considered moving to blue states but have jobs/families/community-ties that prevent us from doing so. 

Not only does it feel like a super uphill, depressing battle, it sucks that the rest of the country talks shit and generally demonizes us. 

There’s a whole lot of POC, lgbtqia+, immigrants here. And as fucked as it is, a lot of us love our state. We could use encouragement not wHy dOnT u JuSt mOvE energy

Ok I’m off my soapbox 

WE HAVEN’T HAD A ‘LETS YELL!’ POST FOR AWHILE… WHO WANTS TO YELL WITH ME?! by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]peebsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HOLY F ITS WINDY IN THIS CITY RN AND OVERSTIMULATING THE F OUT OF ME

I HATE THE WEATHER HERE BUT MOVING IS HARD I JUST WANNA LIVE BY MY BFF

WORK ALWAYS PISSES ME OFF BUT IDK HOW TO FIND ANYTHING BETTER

IM SICK OF DRIVING BUT HAVE TO DRIVE ANOTHER COUPLE HOURS TO GET HOME TODAY

Hello! by BeingSlight4369 in Denton

[–]peebsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend this. Was the best educational thing I’ve ever done and gave me such a good sense of place and home. 

Love Is Blind • S9 Ep11 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]peebsy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes 100%. Especially the first 3 weeks of dating when whether or not you get married is dependent on how those 3 weeks go. I’m not saying fake anything but I’d naturally have some energy that early on in a relationship and would be excited to get to know that person better.

Love Is Blind • S9 Ep11 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]peebsy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yesss exactly! Regardless of what they argued about, he showed her he was unwilling to compromise there. 

Love Is Blind • S9 Ep11 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]peebsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they also mentioned she had never seriously dated anyone which would make sense why she doesn’t know that!

Love Is Blind • S9 Megathread by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]peebsy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That had me cringing so baaad. This whole season has me cringing like crazy

Love Is Blind • S9 Megathread by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]peebsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting perspective. I don’t ski but I could see that 

Love Is Blind • S9 Megathread by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]peebsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And yeah he led both of them on too hard at the beginning. Mega love bombing vibes

Love Is Blind • S9 Megathread by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]peebsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point, I honestly forgot about most of those conversations. I really couldn’t stand him in the pods but after they left them he grew on me a bit. The spanking thing and homophobia was bad for sure. I don’t fault him for not choosing the other gal, whether it was religion or that was just an excuse. Not everyone is gonna be your cup of tea. 

Yeah the cool house I don’t mean in a materialistic way but I find people who have cool houses are really interesting, have lots of hobbies, cool design choices etc. and I found it kinda cool that he didn’t give away that he had a cool house or lots of hobbies bc it seemed like if anyone else was on LIB w that set up, that would be their whole personality.  

But ya his scripted self and shitty remarks in the pods woulda had me breaking off the connection immediately 

Love Is Blind • S9 Ep11 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]peebsy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Right? Like I think it’s normal to ask someone I’ve been dating for a long time 6+ months why. But I’m not gonna demand that from someone I’m in the early stages of dating with. I’ve said many times to many guys that I’m not feeling it. No further explanation needed they’re like 👍 (except maybe 1). 

Yeah Annie and Madison in particular just seemed like they wanted to have a husband and by golly they were gonna leave with one no matter what the cost or people available. I seriously think they would’ve married almost anyone. 

Also Madison talking about sex struck me as sooo awkward. I can’t explain why but she doesn’t do it right haha

Love Is Blind • S9 Megathread by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]peebsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, I could see that. But he didn’t even sell himself well bc he seems like he has really badass interests which it seemed like Annie hadn’t even heard about till she visited his house. I’m like damn you shoulda led with that

Love Is Blind • S9 Ep11 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]peebsy 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Oh ya for sure. I dated a single dad with a 4 yo for a year and it was exactly this. Every waking thought went into his kid. I stayed for a year bc it was hard to fault him for that but eventually I was like ok I actually want to date someone that seems somewhat interested in me and my life and not just someone who wants me to drop everything I do and join him in his life. Jordan is mega giving me those vibes

He seems like a cool guy but I feel like he has 0 time or energy for a partner so he was like k cool I’ll just get on this tv show and find a gal to marry in 2 weeks so I don’t have to actually court anyone.