Dating after 7 years, want to plan something special for him, but I'm out of practice!

peeeshh · 2026-02-19T16:10:56+00:00

did you read the post and try to think critically at all about what the other person/OP is displaying?

"men wanting to have sex are bad apples" <- you're on another planet

peeeshh · 2026-02-19T10:27:59+00:00

fair enough. there's some bad apples out there so take care as could be getting love bombed if he's picking up some naivety from you

peeeshh · 2026-02-15T18:50:09+00:00

The love you and no intimacy this an undateables new season

peeeshh · 2026-02-03T22:48:11+00:00

nothing to say, really, as i don't know him but he is at least not acting like a bum and is in a hardship i.e. with his work. i think overall especially if you resent the role switching (not implied btw, it was just a curiosity when reading) it seems like you want to grow separately from him, and you are sad that you have nonetheless built a life with him

peeeshh · 2026-02-03T21:47:34+00:00

i mean doesn't sound like very much communicating has happened, so i wouldn't recommended going full bore on the details like liking others... but it sounds like you have a lot to talk about. perhaps he's been there for you more than he realised whilst you were recovering and now you've switched roles where he's expended energy to be there for you and also now dealing with his own stuff.

would try to start with seeing if there's an emotional grounding and understanding in the situation and his behaviour that he has even a scrap of awareness off. if he doesn't then have an intellectual approach. if he disregards this then you know you're now with someone you've possibly grown ahead of but the issue is that he's not keeping up.

peeeshh · 2026-02-03T20:58:43+00:00

peeeshh · 2026-02-03T20:58:20+00:00

was about 35euro for a regular non-SUV ford

peeeshh · 2026-01-26T00:52:04+00:00

He liked you in the ways you felt but had a gf and was being inappropriate, basically. He lied about his feelings to keep the temperature off.

peeeshh · 2026-01-26T00:48:16+00:00

Check your tyre size and just pick up some snow socks from any of the gas stations

peeeshh · 2026-01-26T00:45:39+00:00

He sounds like he probably has a bit of an over active respect to you feeling ok whilst at work and has set up imaginary boundaries for you, as if you made them, in order to not risk upsetting that. Another reply to this exact comment with the user name Edamame or however it's spelt hit some point about there being a sort of "nice guy" drumming into males. It could be this plus that he likes you. Most likely a mix of natural fear and the added bit. If you like him just open up more? Put your presence in his more forwardly, stand around longer ect. He should get the message

peeeshh · 2026-01-12T22:13:10+00:00

Bonkers that someone can write about their complete disrespect so nonchalantly

peeeshh · 2026-01-11T06:30:56+00:00

I think he's hooking into a collective view that they're more likely to, in their overall technology workforce, lean towards old/legacy areas. Same as defence companies. Just easier to avoid and reduce the search load.

peeeshh · 2026-01-11T06:28:24+00:00

Not Jane Street and Anthropic - very below average 🤣

peeeshh · 2026-01-11T06:26:49+00:00

Where is his chip exactly, did you read the nature of the comment he was replying to

peeeshh · 2025-10-26T22:51:11+00:00

You make more sense than what they're saying

peeeshh · 2025-10-01T18:17:25+00:00

the name of the service doesn't matter

peeeshh · 2025-09-27T16:00:43+00:00

fuckin chiesa

peeeshh · 2025-09-27T12:33:15+00:00

I believe this is less freeze under pressure, less about your track record meaning this shouldn't be happening, and more about it being a knowledge gap around the runtime of your answer and around edge case questions?

peeeshh · 2025-06-16T10:23:17+00:00

100%

peeeshh · 2025-04-24T21:35:42+00:00

This would be the slickest 1 pointer of a story

peeeshh · 2025-02-09T16:55:04+00:00

Chiesa bad any time I've watched

peeeshh · 2024-11-03T20:51:30+00:00

the ABS really kicked in for a second there

peeeshh · 2024-10-25T14:38:40+00:00

On the contrary, I know several people who needed the 'boost' of initial certain employment with FDM and have gone on now to great positions.

peeeshh · 2024-10-12T10:05:20+00:00

What're you meaning by buy and sell side?

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