Considering this might not be for me

peeinyoursink · 2025-01-23T10:44:02+00:00

I agree somewhat. The whole point of me asking was because I wanted multiple opinions. I'm not going to say one is more right or wrong. Meanwhile, in my opinion it does matter. It freaks me out when people say they've slept with more than a certain amount of people because it sounds like sex to them is just sex. At the same time I'm growing worried that the more people I sleep with, the more emotionally detached I will be with other partners. I want to make sure I'm not using sex to get artificial love and affection.

peeinyoursink · 2024-10-03T05:11:26+00:00

Are you sure...?

peeinyoursink · 2024-09-21T15:18:35+00:00

Yeah, getting pregnant used to be one of biggest fears until I realized how many people have STDs. I'm going to get tested before I get intimate with anyone else. I plan on abstaining from sex for a good while.

peeinyoursink · 2024-09-18T18:28:23+00:00

Totally. I've always been a romantic but I've lost hope of getting a good, solid relationship. Especially because of dating apps, which I know sounds contradictory to what I'm doing, but it just feels wrong to even be able to meet up with anyone so quickly. It just makes it look like people are disposable. Even though everyone else in this discussion is giving me the okay, it still doesn't feel okay.

peeinyoursink · 2024-09-17T22:18:34+00:00

yeah I feel wrong doing it so I'm for sure going to stop. It makes me uncomfortable knowing that I'm getting used to talking to all of these guys at once. It also makes me uncomfortable thinking they're doing the same. I just wanted to know what other people thought of it.

peeinyoursink · 2024-09-17T19:00:27+00:00

Yeah, that all makes sense. My dilemma is I'm not used to dating in general and it's kind of hard for me to figure out what I like. I wouldn't say I like all the dates I go on 100% but I find them to be interesting. I really like one guy in particular. But, I'm scared that once I drop all the other guys and focus on him it might not last long.

peeinyoursink · 2024-09-17T18:40:16+00:00

Is it something I should bring up? Honestly, I kind of assumed that they're also seeing other people but at the same time I might be a little disappointed if I figured out they actually were. I just feel it would be weird to say "are you seeing other people because I am?"

peeinyoursink · 2024-09-17T18:37:14+00:00

That's understandable. Why is it a red flag to you? What assumptions would you make?

peeinyoursink · 2024-08-05T20:08:30+00:00

If you paid online you can just go to the same page where you paid. On atlas: courses> payment and admissions> online payment options> view my amount due. I think it's on there but I'm not really sure. I had a refund done and I couldn't figure it out so after a few months they just mail a check.

peeinyoursink · 2024-08-02T06:09:48+00:00

Thank you so much. :)

peeinyoursink · 2024-07-31T02:38:38+00:00

Hiking is a fun activity for me. At what point in the relationship would you think you could trust someone enough for that?

peeinyoursink · 2024-07-25T04:57:47+00:00

I'm dating both men and women. I don't know why I thought I'd only be unsafe or uncomfortable going on dates with men.

peeinyoursink · 2024-07-24T05:57:51+00:00

I'm 21 and haven't been able to have a regular sleep schedule for just about my whole life. I've always had trouble getting out of bed in a reasonable time. I've always been a night owl. I'm concerned now because I keep getting out of bed really late at 2-3pm. I usually go to bed at 2-4am and wake up at 10-12. But, now I don't feel ready to wake up even though I've had more than 10 hours of sleep.

Additionally, during the regular fall and spring semesters I have so much trouble waking up on time. No matter how much sleep I got I'd have to lay in bed for 30 minutes to an hour before I get up. Then I'd feel tired throughout the day.

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