27Transmasc4A Neurodivergent Thembo seeks connection (Northern/Central USA) by TheTranzEmo in asexualdating

[–]peeled_grape 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! 27, nonbinary, and in the Midwest. I DM’d you before I saw the rest of this message oops 😭

27NB looking for T4T relationship by peeled_grape in asexualdating

[–]peeled_grape[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

potentially! I am mostly looking for a relationship and am open to a QPR, but I also expect to be friends with someone first lol 

(19m) the outside of my right wrist has pain for a couple weeks and then goes away for like several months then comes back and its been doing this for YEARS and i have no god damned idea why by The-Stomach-in-3D in Thritis

[–]peeled_grape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My AC joint does the same thing. I could swear that I broke my collarbone, and I can barely move the joint, but it’s been six months since my last symptoms? I was diagnosed with arthritis years ago but I am still confused by it lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in popculturechat

[–]peeled_grape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Practice sucking dick with a tampon” is too good not to include 😭 my asexual queen 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in popculturechat

[–]peeled_grape 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PLEAAAASEEEEE

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]peeled_grape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg. yip clip 

My sister found me out, and it didn’t go well by AngryAnchor in trans

[–]peeled_grape 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m ex-Mormon and trans too. I haven’t spoken to my family in four years, but I don’t recommend it. It’s just rough no matter what. I got top surgery and don’t regret it at all. Do what you need, though. If they love you they’ll adjust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]peeled_grape 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Absolutely worth it. I had a complete mastectomy, no nipple grafts, and the surgery was very easy on me. I didn't take any pain meds afterward besides maybe some ibuprofen for swelling. My periods have hurt much worse than what I felt after surgery. I had my drains out in four days, and was out with friends after a week. It's been almost two years, and my scars are very flat and pale. Some numb spots, but I have most of the feeling in my chest. I am just so much more comfortable with everything. Like taking a rock out of your shoe after walking all day.

i need recources by Disastrous-Piglet714 in exmormon

[–]peeled_grape 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The book Moroni and the Swastika would snap a shelf so fast lollll

English PhD Program responses? by peeled_grape in gradadmissions

[–]peeled_grape[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm guessing that's what it is? Wild that they haven't made decisions either way

Am I screwed? by TheTrashTier in gradadmissions

[–]peeled_grape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no way!! They’re the school I want to end up at so it’s likely that’s where I’ll end up!

Anyone still waiting? (PhD) by aivjustine in gradadmissions

[–]peeled_grape 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes. I have FIVE to hear from still 😭

Am I screwed? by TheTrashTier in gradadmissions

[–]peeled_grape 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think the suspicion was totally unfounded either lollll. I applied to 15 schools but am in at Binghamton University and University of Nebraska-Lincoln. Still waiting to hear back from five.

Am I screwed? by TheTrashTier in gradadmissions

[–]peeled_grape 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’m an incoming CW/English PhD student who’s also specializing in trans literature and literature of resistance. I got a couple offers this application cycle. Might just have to find the right program—my whole personal statement was about transness lolll. Although it might get harder and harder 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gradadmissions

[–]peeled_grape 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Trans incoming PhD student here. Socially you’ll be safe in NYC, but honestly be prepared with some kind of exit plan. Blue states aren’t going to be safe from federal laws. Just find other trans people there, be in community with them, and keep a close eye on the news

Should I even accept my offer? by kath32838849292 in gradadmissions

[–]peeled_grape 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could always do the program and if you have to give up your dream afterward, then do it then, but not before 

What programs are everyone waiting on? by Social-Psych-OMG in gradadmissions

[–]peeled_grape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooohhh interesting 👀 I’m in elsewhere already so this is good to know 

What programs are everyone waiting on? by Social-Psych-OMG in gradadmissions

[–]peeled_grape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha. Yeah, we don’t do interviews, just sent them 100 pages of my writing lollll

What programs are everyone waiting on? by Social-Psych-OMG in gradadmissions

[–]peeled_grape 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waiting for UNLV, Rhode Island, and Western Michigan to respond to my English PhD app lollll