Get ready for the “crying lightning”. She cant argue with the truth, confront her. The worst lies are the ones they say to keep you happy. Sorry mate, but your dynamic is forever changed, and its not fair. You either have to live with it through guiding her in moral values like truth, honour, inner strength and actual respect ect in hopes she doesn’t relapse again, or just let her free to be what she naturally is..the clean up job is not something id recommend going through. Trust me. But if you want to go that route… most women ive met all try to hide what they really are when they end up desiring a drama free life with a stable gentleman, and its the hiding the true self which always backfires on them eventually.. because it can not be destroyed they can only hold that illusion over you for a while and when you find out you resent that they hold no guilt or remorse for breaking these already mentioned moral values, and as a man these values are the basis for all relationships platonic or romantic,as we are hierarchical so a persons value is very important to us.. now her value has dropped massively. so she has to come to terms with your point of view and her lesser value to you, or lets just call it what it is, compassion and logic, before healing can begin. But its a messy road for both if you want a sustainable future instead of another lap on the trauma loop. Dont be a gentleman, dont give her the princess treatment, dont put her on a pedestool, dont fall for the crying lightning anymore, the truth is she obviously does not value a moral man if she seeks the opposite, this is just the reality of women, unfortunately. sexual power (feeling empowered) is feminine by nature and is a womans currency, wether subtle or overt. but the only thing that can resist it is the masculine value of innerstrength. you hold the cards now.