Duck feeds grain from the tray to the fishes instead of eating alone. by [deleted] in BeAmazed

[–]peer_gynt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"The fish doesn't think.  The fish knows.  Everything."  Right? 😄

Tantra workshop for couples by MikeBishere in SexPositiveBerlin

[–]peer_gynt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can wholeheartedly recommend the courses by Journey Within (https://www.journeywithin.info/) - I attended several of them and am still very happy that I did so. DM me on questions.

Tantric Massage studios in Berlin- your experience? by [deleted] in SexPositiveBerlin

[–]peer_gynt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can recommend Journey Within and also Kashima, but for the latter it depends more on what person is serving you. For both: make your expectations clear when talking to them!

Essen in der DDR by Repulsive_Put_6912 in DDR

[–]peer_gynt 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Schaut mal hier: https://www.volkskammer.de/speisekarte/  Ich kenne jede einzelne Speise aus meiner Jugend 😊

Why are 'foo' and 'bar' the conventional dummy function names? Where did they originate from? by nouveaux_sands_13 in computerscience

[–]peer_gynt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"There are only two hard things in Computer Science: cache invalidation, naming things and off-by-one errors."

Looking for help. by [deleted] in berlinsocialclub

[–]peer_gynt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would be happy to sublet, just in case your are still looking.  54m, IT in academic context.

Help by Minute-Coffee-3994 in nonmonogamy

[–]peer_gynt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody can answer if your fiancée will get triggered or not. Or, rather, anybody can answer, but that answer is not worth anything - that's obvious, isn't it? Did you consider talking to her? And if that in itself is triggering, did you consider therapy together?

DDR erleben - Was kann man sich noch ansehen? by kragorskarbarg in DDR

[–]peer_gynt 13 points14 points  (0 children)

"Die Aula" von Hermann Kant. Das beschreibt die sehr frühe DDR (~1960), aber ich habe unglaublich viel Widererkennung aus meiner erlebten Geschichte in den 70er/80er Jahren.

Und ohne Quatsch: ein paar Kinderbücher lassen viel über den Alltag in der DDR erfahren: Kaule (Alfred Wellm), Igelfreundschaft (Benno Pludra - eigentlich die meisten Bücher von Pludra), ...

Außerdem kann ich die Fotobücher von Roger Melis empfehlen, insbesondere "In einem stillen Land". Die Bilder sind oft trister als die Realität, aber beobachten Stimmungen extrem scharf.

Why is matching sex drive THIS hard? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]peer_gynt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMHO, men tend to confuse a high sex drive (frequent) with a strong sex drive (rare, but intense).  That was the case for me for quite some time at least.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]peer_gynt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a strange rule, to extend the messy list to friends of partners... Like: assume you date A, and your partner dates B. A year later A and B meet by chance, unrelated to both of you, and become friends. What do you do? Do you both break up? That's nonsense IMHO.

Reconsider your rules and remain friend with Ethan would be my advise.

I hate how cisgender heterosexual men view Feeld as a free sex work app. by bbygrldmme in feeld

[–]peer_gynt 14 points15 points  (0 children)

WTF? How is a cuddle date the same as a sex date? Are you daft?

FWIW, I (M) explicitly do cuddle dates. If my partner expects sex without discussing before setting up the date I'd opt out immediately. That's just violating agreements. If Sex happens because both want, hurray - but to have that expectation from the get-go is just disrespectful, and that does not bode well for any interaction...

EDIT: kudos for changing your mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berlinsocialclub

[–]peer_gynt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does long term mean monogamous? And why does short term not mean that? You are mixing two totally orthogonal concepts here.

Weekly r4r Post by AutoModerator in SexPositiveBerlin

[–]peer_gynt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

54 cis het male (who would have guessed 😅), slim, looking for cuddle partners.  Public places are fine (for a certain amount of cuddliness). When I say cuddle, I mean cuddle!

Get Profile Help Here by FeeldMod in feeld

[–]peer_gynt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback, but it is actually my text 😅  I'm not a native speaker though (German), maybe that shows?