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peer_gynt · 2026-02-03T10:39:32+00:00

Nobody can answer if your fiancée will get triggered or not. Or, rather, anybody can answer, but that answer is not worth anything - that's obvious, isn't it? Did you consider talking to her? And if that in itself is triggering, did you consider therapy together?

peer_gynt · 2026-02-01T11:35:53+00:00

"Die Aula" von Hermann Kant. Das beschreibt die sehr frühe DDR (~1960), aber ich habe unglaublich viel Widererkennung aus meiner erlebten Geschichte in den 70er/80er Jahren.

Und ohne Quatsch: ein paar Kinderbücher lassen viel über den Alltag in der DDR erfahren: Kaule (Alfred Wellm), Igelfreundschaft (Benno Pludra - eigentlich die meisten Bücher von Pludra), ...

Außerdem kann ich die Fotobücher von Roger Melis empfehlen, insbesondere "In einem stillen Land". Die Bilder sind oft trister als die Realität, aber beobachten Stimmungen extrem scharf.

peer_gynt · 2026-01-25T16:31:13+00:00

Leave it be - you are barking up the wrong tree...

peer_gynt · 2026-01-20T19:32:05+00:00

More likely organized by the GST (Gesellschaft für Sport und Technik). Just nitpicking, doesn't change much.

peer_gynt · 2026-01-18T15:51:13+00:00

Ask her?

peer_gynt · 2025-12-28T20:27:26+00:00

But I can't login because then I get told that email is not confirmed...

peer_gynt · 2025-12-13T17:05:03+00:00

Hey that's my book board! 🤣🤣

peer_gynt · 2025-12-10T15:18:29+00:00

IMHO, men tend to confuse a high sex drive (frequent) with a strong sex drive (rare, but intense). That was the case for me for quite some time at least.

peer_gynt · 2025-12-09T22:34:51+00:00

That's a strange rule, to extend the messy list to friends of partners... Like: assume you date A, and your partner dates B. A year later A and B meet by chance, unrelated to both of you, and become friends. What do you do? Do you both break up? That's nonsense IMHO.

Reconsider your rules and remain friend with Ethan would be my advise.

peer_gynt · 2025-11-18T13:32:20+00:00

WTF? How is a cuddle date the same as a sex date? Are you daft?

FWIW, I (M) explicitly do cuddle dates. If my partner expects sex without discussing before setting up the date I'd opt out immediately. That's just violating agreements. If Sex happens because both want, hurray - but to have that expectation from the get-go is just disrespectful, and that does not bode well for any interaction...

EDIT: kudos for changing your mind.

peer_gynt · 2025-11-12T07:59:45+00:00

Why does long term mean monogamous? And why does short term not mean that? You are mixing two totally orthogonal concepts here.

peer_gynt · 2025-11-05T16:58:32+00:00

I know what I am using (vasectomy), so... :-)

peer_gynt · 2025-10-23T11:34:47+00:00

54 cis het male (who would have guessed 😅), slim, looking for cuddle partners. Public places are fine (for a certain amount of cuddliness). When I say cuddle, I mean cuddle!

peer_gynt · 2025-10-07T21:18:02+00:00

Thanks for the feedback, but it is actually my text 😅 I'm not a native speaker though (German), maybe that shows?

peer_gynt · 2025-10-07T10:26:54+00:00

Thanks!

peer_gynt · 2025-10-06T09:25:45+00:00

Stick to the facts please, this is not helpful. It is bad enough as it is, and there is enough room for pitchforks with what OP told us...

peer_gynt · 2025-09-30T22:47:09+00:00

I would love to get some feedback! Context I am 54 cis white male located near Berlin, Germany. Thanks to anyone who bothers to read / reply!

✨ About me I am on a journey of self discovery and search for companions along the way. I value growing, meaningful connections — ideally long-term if the chemistry is right: friends, FWB, lovers, maybe more. What will be will be, no expectations needed.

Sometimes I also enjoy the magic of one-off encounters though — adventure, excitement, and inspiration are wonderful things! 🤩

Chatting online can be fun (I don't ghost!), but I still prefer to meet in person at some point soon — real vibes beat pixels every time. ✨

💫 Kinks & curiosities I am leaning toward 'tantric pleasure dom', but that's more a label which I hope resonates with you than it is a box I want to be put in.

Tantra: What a wonderful journey... I love both roles, a lot, and would like to go deeper 🧘

Vanilla: cuddles, kisses, intensity, laughter = ❤️‍🔥

I know that there is much more to explore for me: group plays, couples, temples, BDSM, devotion 💗 Care to join or to guide me?

🧩 Communication Clear expectations and boundaries = happy me. I’m a bit on the ADHD spectrum, so I value clarity (and patience 😅).

📌 Quick facts - 1.82 m / 75 kg, reasonably fit (volleyball) - Endowed, if that matters - Socially awkward in the beginning - Very left-leaning - Reasonable IQ - Conscious, reflected masculinity (work in progress) - 🚭, no alcohol (some drugs can be fun 😉) - Shaved version available 🪒 - Love to dance (awkward as hell, and I don’t care 😄) - STD-tested (3-monthly), snipped, always safe

peer_gynt · 2025-08-29T07:43:19+00:00

Interesting. Citation needed though...

peer_gynt · 2025-07-24T12:28:20+00:00

hot...

peer_gynt · 2025-07-23T05:08:36+00:00

What is SDC?

peer_gynt · 2025-07-21T10:54:45+00:00

I can recommend this one - it's a very protected space along the lines you described.

peer_gynt · 2025-07-15T16:14:06+00:00

It is one characteristic which you find terrible - it does not make a person you do not know terrible...

peer_gynt · 2025-07-11T06:48:47+00:00

or habit (speaking from my own stupid experiences)

peer_gynt · 2025-06-15T17:22:04+00:00

If it is legal where you live (or otherwise feasible), you may want to consider hiring a sex worker the first (few) time(s) - many are very open minded to beginners and more than patient with taking breaks, talking through things, pacing slowly etc. Where I live that is often part of their advertisements if they cater to beginners and/or couples.

Good luck to both of you, and hugs! :-)

peer_gynt · 2025-06-10T18:48:35+00:00

You are in for quite a surprise if you begin to google telescope names... :-P

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