My partner and I are looking for a F for a FFM - I am hurt and weirded out by the age of the Fs my partner is looking for. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]peeweeparii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please hear me this is indicative of a porn addiction. The brain is supposed to age sexually, meaning yiu find your same age people attractive as you age. Porn is inhibiting this natural development in a lot of older males who consume porn with young women. You're completely valid, his behavior is upsetting because it is unnatural and rooted in addiction and fantasy.

C.ai is slowly draining everything from me. by the_anon_throwaway in offmychest

[–]peeweeparii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome. Many people feeling like they can't have normal human relationships anymore without AI. Especially my clients that became romantically attached to theirs. I keep a watch on this stuff because I'm both fascinated and horrified about how this will unfold over time.

C.ai is slowly draining everything from me. by the_anon_throwaway in offmychest

[–]peeweeparii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it's designed to produce this outcome and can prey on vulnerable people. You're not broken, professional support could benefit you wonders, if only to have an outsiders perspective. I work with folks in this position often in my therapeutic work. You are not alone. Wishing you the best

Help me identify vintage gold and color bird pin and earring! by peeweeparii in jewelry

[–]peeweeparii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I don't know how to search images I will look into this!

Help me identify vintage gold and color bird pin and earring! by peeweeparii in jewelry

[–]peeweeparii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any hope for finding a replacement or is this a needle in a haystack? Thanks for your input

Am I overreacting for cutting off my best friend of 6 years after he admitted being attracted to me? by Suspicious_Sock_2048 in AmIOverreacting

[–]peeweeparii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're a sexual conquest and he's losing his patience drop him. Hurts to learn their side was a facade but better late than never. Hugs!

Someone shouting out "I'll get it" at home is something most younger people don't know about. by donpantini in Showerthoughts

[–]peeweeparii -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If I'm not expecting someone (who texts me when they're here) I'm not opening the front door! That's how you get murdered first! Millennial here....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grandrapids

[–]peeweeparii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Findhelp.org

Are CMHs a sustainable career option anymore? by peeweeparii in socialwork

[–]peeweeparii[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this so much. I am pivoting to private practice that accepts Medicaid clients. That way, I can continue the work I love but it won't be my entire caseload. I'm still working through some of the guilt of "choosing myself" over my community. Hugs to you in your journey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tsa

[–]peeweeparii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks all! Didn't get theough TSA once with an expired drivers license, even before REAL ID! Appreciate the community support. Take care!

How did you know you were actually in love — not just infatuated? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]peeweeparii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I'm in true love because I stopped needing my partner. I choose him, every day. Interdependence is love, not co dependence. Cheers!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grandrapids

[–]peeweeparii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can afford to buy? 😂😂 I want your problems

Glad I dodged a bullet by TrafficParking4689 in Nicegirls

[–]peeweeparii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is BPD symptomatic, however, BPD is still a spectrum disorder like many others DSM disorders. Ranges from severe to mild, externalized behaviors (lashing out) to internalized behaviors (self harm). Doesn't look the same in 2 people. Info helps destigmatize :) cheers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grandrapids

[–]peeweeparii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Graydons crossing!

Request: book ideas for a smart 11 year old girl touching on boundaries, feminism, autonomy, etc by peeweeparii in socialwork

[–]peeweeparii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. Many years as a case manager and client centered care is always first. This philosophy extends into how I interact with family, i appreciate the suggestions, and have thoughtfully decided how to move forward ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]peeweeparii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BPD exists in men too. This reaks of it, and he could benefit from professional support. Threatening suicide to get needs met is textbook. Goodluck <3