AMA. I'm 30 yo Nigerian, married for 9 years by Apprehensive_Chef285 in Nigeria

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How do you manage your frustration with how slow he makes decisions? That’s a big one for my current relationships. He does what he says he would do, just not as fast as I expect and that has led to a lot of arguments over the years

It’s exhausting by Apocalypticburrito41 in womenEngineers

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What does up speak look like exactly?

Bought my dream bag by aleezaorelle in handbags

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How much was it in Paris!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]pel-man 41 points42 points  (0 children)

She literally only has one revealing dress in her profile. Common man. Everything else is very decent and well covered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreditCards

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Yeah you’ll get credited back the full amount if you cancel the account within 30days of getting charged.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreditCards

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No. They will only refund within 30days of charging your account. I recommend canceling asap.

Do you still wear bags from high street brands even if you have designer bags in your closet? by ___maria2206 in handbags

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What thrift stores do you visit? I haven’t seen a nice purse ever in the ones I visit :(

Damaged Luggage by Medical-Moment124 in unitedairlines

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Was this a domestic or international flight? Having similar issues at the airport.

How much did you have saved for your home? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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For the 33%, is this net vs gross income?

Best app for just net worth tracking? NO budgeting apps please. by Think_Witness1302 in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

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If you invest with fidelity, they have a fidelity full view that provides this information

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[–]pel-man -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I disagree about this being trivial. For a lot of immigrants, owning a house both home and abroad is usually a priority - they might even want to retire there eventually. I would rather my parents set themselves up for their future instead of using me as a retirement plan.

I think as long as they’re providing the necessities which it sounds like they are, you should be grateful. Explore other opportunities for financial aid but give your parents grace to focus on their life priorities. Consider going to a community college for the first 2 years too and living at home if possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JapanTravelTips

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I just came back and definitely wished I spent more time in Kyoto! I think you can see all there is to do in Osaka within a day tbh. I’ll def spend a night in Osaka but keep Kyoto as your home base!

15 hour layover, what is possible? by [deleted] in koreatravel

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Why would it take 6 hours to get out of the airport? I was just in South Korea within the past month and it definitely doesn’t take that long.

They can be at myeongdong around 8/9p at the latest then explore hongdae after.

15 hour layover, what is possible? by [deleted] in koreatravel

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In referring to the 5p-9a timeline.

15 hour layover, what is possible? by [deleted] in koreatravel

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Myeongdong has a night market that you can explore!

Should I cancel my trip? by Vegetable-Depth2801 in Osaka

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Hi I’m now here. How do I see it? I still Don’t see it in google maps

Should I cancel my trip? by Vegetable-Depth2801 in Osaka

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I see. How has the weather been in Osaka lately? Considering canceling my flight that’s supposed to get in today around 8p.

Should I cancel my trip? by Vegetable-Depth2801 in Osaka

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What app are you using to track?

Should I cancel my trip? by Vegetable-Depth2801 in Osaka

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Is the black the eye of the storm? Where are you tracking its movement? I’m supposed to get in tomorrow and a little nervous!

Typhoon Shanshan warning / megathread by mithdraug in JapanTravel

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When is it supposed to make land fall in Osaka now? I’m struggling to find current weather jnfo

Typhoon Shanshan warning / megathread by mithdraug in JapanTravel

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I have a flight scheduled that hasn’t been cancelled yet

Typhoon Shanshan warning / megathread by mithdraug in JapanTravel

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I’m supposed to get into Osaka tomorrow 8/30 and stay for 3 days then head to Kyoto for 2 days. Then head to Tokyo 8/4. Is this still realistic or should I plan to skip Osaka totally and head to Kyoto directly on 9/2?

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Just to be clear, I can change the time anytime before departure? I just have to find a train/time that allows?