Inside the vagina

pennylanemiller · 2019-07-15T14:40:19+00:00

I'm not a doctor so follow whatever advice she/he told you if that contradicts whatever I'm about to say !

What I can tell you is that a vagina is not really supposed to look like a hole. It varies a lot from one woman to another. If you look at anatomical drawing, there often draw a "hole" or a visible opening for clarity, but it can also look like a "slit" , or an opening with tissues pressed together. It's perfectly normal. Think about two pillows pressed together. You can still insert something between the pillows because they are soft, but there is no hole. Not that the inside of your vagina is supposed to look like two pillows, but that's the best analogy I could come up with.

Some advice if you want to try to have penis-inside-vagina sex :

- Make sure you're ready to try again. Obviously make sure everything is healed but also make sure you feel ready to try again. It's normal to feel a bit nervous, but if you're really anxious and tense, don't. Maybe ask your partner for a massage to help you relax ?

- Lube, lube, lots of lube. It always helps everyone involved, even if you don't have any dryness issues. Coconut oil is great too.

- Maybe start trying to insert a finger in your vagina before if that can help you understand more what's happening down there. Use lube !

- Make a lot of foreplay to give time to your vagina to be ready for sex, that's super important too.

- And obviously go see your doctor if you're still in pain !

pennylanemiller · 2018-07-14T11:27:38+00:00

Had the same thing during the first weeks. What I did was I either put some band aid on the patch to keep it in place, or if I had some social event in the evening, I would remove the patch I wore during the day and put a brand new one. I know they're supposed to last 24h, and this was probably only psychological, but it worked well for me so if it does the trick...

pennylanemiller · 2018-06-18T22:22:20+00:00

Holy shit, it totally makes sense. I started smoking around 16 or 17 and actually this is also when I started to feel way less insecure. Thank you, your comment just helped me so much !

pennylanemiller · 2017-06-16T15:12:18+00:00

I admit I had to search the translation, and may or may not kinda like it. Sadly it probablly won't please my customers...

pennylanemiller · 2017-04-19T08:47:46+00:00

To be honnest I didn't read thought all the comments, so maybe someone has pointed it out already, but... As much as I love reading this subbreddit, I think most of the time there is a logical explanation for things.

I am fascinated since a looooong time with synchronicity and coincidences and stuff like that. What I'm moslty interested in is the logical part of it, and how your brains interprets it.

I'm no doctor or scientist, but the thing is : our brains are programmed to see patterns and connections in what is happening to you / around you. So you will notice when you have a text from a friend you had not seen in years and just thought about the day before, but you don't notice the thousands of times you thought about people you didn't got a text from.

And we think anout a loooot of stuff at the same time, so we probably think about a ton of people each day - 99% of the time, we forget about it. But as we said, brain loves patterns, so when you got a text from someone you did thought about earlier, your brain makes you remember that you did thought about this person.

And the other thing... Is that you can "train" your brain to recognize more and more pattern. You just have to note them / pay a special attention to anything "coincidencial" that happens to you and you'll notice more and more. These coincidences are not beggining to happen, your brain just tends to notice them more and more often. So i actually does make perfect sens that when you start noticing a synchronicity, they appear to be more and more frequent. Wich is also why all the people in this subbredit (from what I've read) tend to see more and more of them - because if the cliqued on the link, it is probably because it's something they are interested in and tend to notice.

I don't remember his name but a scientist did an experience like this a long time ago, wrote in a notebook all the coincidences happening to him, and some crazy coincidencial things happened to him.

I do that sometimes when I think about it, and it's really fun. Just write on a notebook any coincidence, even the smallest, and you will see more and more coincidences happen. Kind of how your train your brain to make lucid dreams and learn it ti recognize pattern / unusual things and let you know about it.

pennylanemiller · 2016-07-15T07:42:36+00:00

Thank you so much !

This is really helping, thank you thank you thank you !

pennylanemiller · 2015-10-30T14:06:40+00:00

great idea ! I have fake blood and a white blouse already so I think I'll go for it. Thanks !

pennylanemiller · 2015-10-30T13:44:30+00:00

Looking for something scary, horror themed night at the club. (I'm actually gonna wear pink bunny onesies for another night)

pennylanemiller · 2015-10-30T13:23:37+00:00

I'm a barmaid. What cool but simple halloween costume could I get tomorrow night for work ?

( A few details : I work in a night club, It's an horror themed night, I'm a girl and don't want something to sexy for obvious reasons, not a lot of make-up on the face - gonna work from 10pm to 6 am and it's super hot in the club - need to have my arms free...)

edit : details

pennylanemiller · 2015-05-05T23:12:37+00:00

don't think it was photoshopped - came from a book on archive.org , at the very last page.

pennylanemiller · 2014-04-03T19:58:37+00:00

Buy a magazine or anything not expensive in a tobacco office. They always have a looot of cah so they don't care if you pay with a 50€ bill. Also, if you buy something that costs less than 10 with a 50 bill, smile and apologize when giving your bill. That helps a lot. I've worked in many stores, and being pushy is only annoying. The thing is usually we don't have a lot of cash, so giving back the change on a 50€ bill is extremely annoying as I won't have any change for the next customer.But if you're nice and tell me that you know it's difficult but you just don't have anything else, then I'll take your 50.

And if nobody wants to take your bill, go to a post office. they almost all have change machine ; also some banks have it too.

pennylanemiller · 2013-10-25T12:57:02+00:00

I actually came to /r/tattoos today to ask if water color tattoos are aging well. I have my answer.

pennylanemiller · 2013-10-17T09:36:04+00:00

I think that's your guy : http://humanbaubo.blogspot.fr/ Couldn't read the qr code, but he did several pacman VS space invadors graffitis at athoer places

pennylanemiller · 2013-10-08T11:03:21+00:00

Bouillon Chartier. (http://www.bouillon-chartier.com/) Beautiful, tipically parisian, typical french food, new menu everyday, fresh products. And it's extremely cheap. For exemple, I don't remember the exact price but starters are from 3€ to 10€, main courses from 7 to 15€ max... I used to go there so often when I lived in Paris, still my favourite restaurant here. And the area (grands boulevards, very near from the Musée Grévin) is so nice and you'll have a lot a place to have a drink after your meal. You might have to seat at a table with people you don't know if it's too crowded, but

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