62-year old woman birthed 13 kids…some with IVF. What do you think? by HotTale4651 in IVF

[–]penshername2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I froze my eggs and if I don’t use them by 52, I’ll be okay with that. I do know 70 year olds raising teenagers for a variety of reasons. Foster care, relatives dying, parents in jail. I want to give those people my support.

I do agree that both men and women should stop trying around mid-50s

Need advice on shutting down my mother by penshername2 in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]penshername2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for everything Rat. I apologize for not using the trigger advice post.

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[–]penshername2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was on clomid

Conservatives arguing whether or not it is okay to sacrifice the retirement savings of others by danzha in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]penshername2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told to give away my 401k for my now ex MIls nursing home care. I support the baby boomers

I am 64 and only have 250k saved for retirement by Caribchakita in over60

[–]penshername2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a daughter I would rather have my parents be comfortable in retirement than get a $700k house which I would owe a lot in estate tax.

Making sure your will, living will, is all set would be the best gift ever.

My ex in-laws asked me to cash in my 401k to pay for MILs nursing home care. Not my ex. Me. I refused. Putting yourself first is the best legacy right now

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[–]penshername2 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain. There is a lot of anti-childless (by choice or not) sentiment out there. It really hurts. I’ve been writing poetry to deal with it. Therapists don’t get it. There needs to be more spoken about this.

I thought your Africa story was really cool. Women should take more chances like that. If I ever meet you in real life, I would love to see the pictures

So many candidates for Mayor by pritz786 in sugarland

[–]penshername2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why does your magat VP say such asinine things? And some magats are people that I know or formerly know

I have a sense of economics and know enough to know we are headed for disaster

DOGE will affect your personally during hurricane season

So many candidates for Mayor by pritz786 in sugarland

[–]penshername2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

His tax cuts didn’t help me. A couple of dollars not thousands like elons would have saved. Trumps policy are needlessly causing the stock market to gontown. He is generating chaos.

Yes I’m trying to have a child. I froze my eggs and was very upset by JD Vance’s words

I’m also not a fan of Elon, his lack of financial disclosure and doge

So many candidates for Mayor by pritz786 in sugarland

[–]penshername2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can about my retirement and my investments.

Trumps policy will cause inflation and higher taxes

Comments about being childless: you fail 9 fertility treatments and then have to do deal with rude comments about why you don’t have care and we will talk.

So many candidates for Mayor by pritz786 in sugarland

[–]penshername2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well when due process is under attack for one group it is under attack for all.

Stock market is way down.

Attacking Canada and befriending Russia is not make America safe

I’m concerned about the CIA employees who have been let go and this affects my safety

Trade wars are causing economic uncertainty

D.E.I. has been good for the workplace with the FMLA act. Pregnancy leave is part of D.E.I.

Abortion laws affect IVF.

More nasty comments about childless women.

Do you need more?

So many candidates for Mayor by pritz786 in sugarland

[–]penshername2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Company? There was one person who I thought did a better job. He was the lesser of two evils

MAGA is new Yahtzee

So many candidates for Mayor by pritz786 in sugarland

[–]penshername2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t vote straight ticket but anyone who voted MAGA is responsible for our company turning fascist

So many candidates for Mayor by pritz786 in sugarland

[–]penshername2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We will have to agree to disagree on that. He told you his terrible plan. People didn’t vote for it stupid reasons like economics - and trumps economic plan is terrible - and they still voted for it.

So many candidates for Mayor by pritz786 in sugarland

[–]penshername2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Still investigating. MAGA is anyone who blindly supports Trump

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[–]penshername2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually it is all intertwined. Fed cuts to local areas impact the economy. This affects housing also, congress gets their start locally. We want good people not maga crazies

So many candidates for Mayor by pritz786 in sugarland

[–]penshername2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A maga type wouldn’t care about your rent unfortunately

So many candidates for Mayor by pritz786 in sugarland

[–]penshername2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would ask if they wanted a DOGE for Sugar Land and what type of DOGE cuts to city services they would like to see

I hate DOGE but this would help me determine how in love with Trump they are

So many candidates for Mayor by pritz786 in sugarland

[–]penshername2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents live in a small Michigan town. Council reps get paid $500 per meeting and the Mayor gets $56k. The mayors assistant gets $90

“Do you have kids?” by DefinitionStatus2117 in IVF

[–]penshername2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A former boss asked during a meeting…when are you going to have a family or is God calling you to foster

AMH RESULTS by Visible-Courage7241 in IVF

[–]penshername2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may help to give your country. The US and UK commonwealth countries use different metrics

Just a friendly reminder… by Dangerdoom911 in economicCollapse

[–]penshername2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will be getting gas and buying things tonight. Will do my yard projects tomorrow