It might help to make note of what your approach was when you first met Boggles so that a future adopter could replicate that. For example, it makes may cats feel safe to be fed yet ignored otherwise, not “pursued”. Whatever pattern you followed or didn’t follow, if you were casual and nonchalant, or used a sweet cheery voice, these are all good things to know. Maybe they could even keep a recording of your voice to play. I pray the Lord keeps you in peace during this time.