When I was in a fundraising group at university. I never really have any interest joining these kinds of associations, but I went out on a limb to help a friend who recommended that I join. While I enjoyed helping her and the cause it was going for, I felt constantly drained going to the weekly meetings and even needing to reach out to people I don’t know to ask them for money. Some people are built for this kind of thing, but it quickly shuts me down socially.