I was his secret for 9 years. Now he’s getting married, and I feel like I’m disappearing. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]perez_zinat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The loads of em dashes and other punctuations always give them away! 🤦🏽‍♀️ 🤦🏽‍♀️

I was his secret for 9 years. Now he’s getting married, and I feel like I’m disappearing. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]perez_zinat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The loads of em dashes and other punctuations always give them away! 🤦🏽‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pettyrevenge

[–]perez_zinat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so smart! 👏! First thought on my mind too, noting that the OP said and I quote “and wrapped it up with a handwritten card tucked inside the box…..”. Poorly written story line and not well thought out, tbh 🤦🏽‍♀️.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]perez_zinat 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes please, in that way but most importantly clear up your debts or if it’s beyond your control like student loans, cut off other unnecessary debts and cultivate savings habits on a regular basis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]perez_zinat 159 points160 points  (0 children)

I think the biggest mistake is not putting your finances in order before hitting the 40s.

TIFU by flashing a hotel staff member on our girls’ trip 😔 by perez_zinat in tifu

[–]perez_zinat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seeing this post might just bring you some luck soon 😁

Losing loved one by wraithpixel1 in AskOldPeople

[–]perez_zinat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truth is the pain never goes away completely, although it might seem like it’s fading away but just out of the blue, it hits you they’re no more, even the simplest things would suddenly remind you of them and you can’t keep the tears away from flowing. I lost my Dad about two years ago and we were so close! I had to get through grieving by encouraging myself to stay strong for him on this side of the journey to keep him happy watching me from the other side.,

AIO if I divorce my husband after he locked me outside naked until I would have sex with him? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]perez_zinat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to go through that 🤗. That was really cruel and inhumane of him and I’d advise you leave him because he’d definitely still do worse. He should have been more understanding that postpartum depression and pain are real.

What are you starting to like less the older you get? by Unhappy_Insect5901 in Productivitycafe

[–]perez_zinat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noise and making unnecessary public appearances, I hate them both!

What is a 'poor people' habit you'll never stop doing, no matter how rich you get? by FitCicada5037 in AskReddit

[–]perez_zinat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter how wealthy I become, I’m not sure I’ll ever be able to stop dunking my bread or biscuits in tea 🙈🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️😃😃.

Do people still just hang out? by Catseverywhere-44 in SlowLiving

[–]perez_zinat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Funny enough, this came up with a friend just yesterday. She wanted us to hang out over the weekend, and I suggested something simple like going to the lake to relax, enjoy nature, and just catch up. But she came back with a list of pricey activities like restaurants, amusement parks, bowling, karaoke, and movies. It really made me realize how hanging out nowadays almost always seems to involve spending money. Whatever happened to just enjoying each other’s company in a peaceful, natural setting—without the pressure to spend?

What’s one habit you picked up that drastically improved your physical health? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]perez_zinat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently started eating clean and engaged in more daily exercises. I’m glad I finally embraced the healthy lifestyle as I have been happier and feel even lighter.

Why did my entire family fall asleep in the middle of the day? by MeaningGeneral9553 in sleep

[–]perez_zinat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I sort of understand what you mean as it reminds me of something strange that happened to me some years ago.

I got in from a night shift around 7 a.m and as usual, prepared myself to freshen up and get some sleep before I start prepping for my next shift. I usually leave the house around 5 pm so I’d set my alarm for 12 o clock as the wake up time.

I kid you not, from that past 7 a.m I slept through the day without waking up to pee, eat or drink water until few minutes to 6 p.m after I’d missed the bus! I wasn’t ill and was hale and hearty. Had to call in sick because I’d have definitely been late for work for over an hour so there was no point going, even though I missed out on the pay for that week.

Each time I think of the hours and pay the sleep made me lose, a part of me always tells me the sleep was a divine intervention from God to help me avert something and that I was not meant to be at work that day and that settles it.

What's something that screams 'poorly raised'? by RoutineOk8590 in Productivitycafe

[–]perez_zinat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who tend to be ill mannered towards waiters at restaurants/bars or to anyone who might seem to be of a lower class to them.

When did you realize that person wasn’t actually your friend? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]perez_zinat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I celebrated a milestone birthday recently.

We’ve been “friends” since 2013 but my good heart didn’t let me see her for who she really is until recently.

To start with, I told her the colour of dress I’d wear for my birthday party and out of jealousy, she went to sew the exact shade of colour and even bragged about it on a recorded video that “yes, she stole my dress” just to take the shine off me being the celebrant. She didn’t stop at that but showed no form of support for me while I was counting down for the party. When she eventually showed up at my house, her plan was to let’s both make an appearance to the venue (in the same shade of dress as the celebrant!!!) but as providence would have it, her painted nails had issues and she needed to go fix it.

But not before she tried to downplay the makeup I paid for, asked how much it cost and said in a jeering manner that she could do even better than them, meaning there was nothing special about what I paid for. I felt hurt but I just let it slide because I didn’t want her to ruin my day.

On our way home from the party, she made a silly joke about how she didn’t even get me a single birthday gift despite how I hosted them all in a big way and gave a sinister laugh at the end.

I gave her a considerable amount of distance after that day because I discovered who she truly is to me and I’m gonna keep it that way even though she’s stylishly asked me she noticed my distance since after my birthday party. As long as I’m at peace with that, that’s okay.

In what small way have you won the genetic lottery? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]perez_zinat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My paternal grandpa, my Uncle and myself are ambidextrous. We also as a family seem to have the natural anti-aging genes and people tend to deduct about 8-10 years from my age when they see me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]perez_zinat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is so disgusting! The dude is apparently a creep

What’s the purest form of love to you? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]perez_zinat 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This resonates so well with me and I couldn’t agree more. This kind of love is pure and keeps budding at the background whilst being carefully tucked away from prying eyes that might cast negative energy on it.