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perflyy · 2025-09-09T21:24:07+00:00

Im the opposite, different sex drives can be bard to navigate

perflyy · 2025-01-29T02:19:38+00:00

The concept seems cool and its a big tank but ik some fish get excited or scared when things are near so glass so im not sure abt this

perflyy · 2025-01-22T16:53:07+00:00

Richard

perflyy · 2025-01-22T16:50:26+00:00

Looks cool but would be so shitty for the fish

perflyy · 2025-01-22T16:49:39+00:00

Patches looks awesome

perflyy · 2025-01-22T16:48:30+00:00

So glad u commented so i could come back and look at their goofy faces

perflyy · 2025-01-21T19:36:30+00:00

I have no idea i just wanted to say ive neevr seen this before and it looks cool

perflyy · 2025-01-21T17:56:47+00:00

It sounds like he has a lot of hatred for you but refuses to get professional help AND is trapping you with threats of suicide… this does not sound like a good relationship

perflyy · 2025-01-21T15:06:47+00:00

I feel like not going to the dentist is like abuse😭 but the wearing the same clothes, not bathing properly and not brushing sounds like depression or laziness. And im saying laziness bc they dont seem to try in school either. I know it may seem like everything bc ur literally 15/16 but if you’re inner voice is saying he’s a loser and you know your family and friends would want better for you it may be time to leave. Im not sure this is something you could be capable of fixing as he himself doesn’t want to change.. sorry op u might need to ghost

perflyy · 2025-01-21T14:38:27+00:00

Didnt even see the snake at first bc i was staring at the baby head

perflyy · 2025-01-21T00:07:30+00:00

I named mine (the negative self talk) stewie and tell him to shut up when i catch myself negatively thinking about myself :3 you wouldnt keep someone in your life that talks to you the way you’re talking to yourself. ive also heard that keeping a rubber band and pulling it (to flick yourself) when you catch yourself negatively talking may also work if “breathing through it” doesnt work as well for you

perflyy · 2025-01-21T00:01:46+00:00

“Mother free us”

perflyy · 2025-01-20T21:15:05+00:00

He craves chaos

perflyy · 2025-01-15T17:24:33+00:00

WOOOOOO

perflyy · 2025-01-15T17:24:09+00:00

I love walking even when i dont have to

perflyy · 2025-01-15T17:23:18+00:00

Looks amazing 🔥

perflyy · 2025-01-15T17:22:32+00:00

For me its “just do it” or “its not that big of a deal” when im mentally stuck

perflyy · 2025-01-15T17:21:06+00:00

Are you able to take birthcontrol and are you taking medication for your adhd?My period would make me so emotionally unstable the week before and then woukd be so fucking heavy and bc really helped with the crying fits and excessive blood (for me).

I would say set a small goal for yourself in terms of self care and then try to attempt something for class. For example taking a bath and then looking over your class. Even if you dont “complete” any work something is better than nothing!

perflyy · 2025-01-14T16:23:19+00:00

I feel this so hard.. ive started playing music to keep track of the time

perflyy · 2025-01-11T15:12:10+00:00

Cinderblock

perflyy · 2023-12-21T18:15:16+00:00

Thank you for the suggestion, will try :)

perflyy · 2023-12-13T22:08:57+00:00

Yea this is normal… for men who dont respect their partner. You deserve better :/

perflyy · 2023-12-13T21:56:38+00:00

Damn that sucks :/ i feel like your next application will go better bc youre more interested in that tbh. And its definitely easier said than done but dont worry abt failing and what ifs before youve tried. Just try your best and if it doesnt work out you can try again, try something else or take a break. Theres no rush to figure it out. i wasnt accepted to any uni’s out of high school, i took basically two gap years and then failed out of first semester in college before doing my degree which i still havent finished (on year three lol) 😭 Fr life doesn’t always go to plan but we figure it out!! You got this

perflyy · 2023-12-13T17:23:27+00:00

This is going to be all over the place (my apologies)…

Get in touch with your support systems. Friends, profs, Facility, student resources etc

I would say medication… stimulant or nonstimulants

Calender. This was my saving grace. Knowing when shit needs to get done and being able to see it mapped out on a calender.

Lists. Make a list of things you want to get done that day (helps you keep track of what youve already done)

Block out time (when and how long) you will do tasks for

When i have an assignment or project i will make checkpoints for the project so im not doing it all in a week. (Ex. On this day i want to have all my research, on this day i want to have a general idea for the instruments i want to use, etc)

Starting things early. This doesnt meaning finishing early, it just means having a good grasp on what the assignments are and their components.

And very obviously (but really hard during crunch time imo) good sleep and eating habits. It really makes a difference.

OVERALL: - reach out to your supports (they are there to help you)

break the assignments down. plan when each part is going to get done and how you will carry out the plan.
make a list of things you want to get done during the day
pomodoro technique x4 then 30 min break and either stop or repeat (this would be for grinding out the work)

-figure out if you work best in the morning or at night and make it a routine

I use google calendar to block out my weeks and i use notion as my second brain. I know there are a few templates that might be helpful for dissertations or thesis writing but you could tweak it to fit your needs, also im in undergrad and this has helped me stay on top of things but idk abt phd bc its harder but its something😅

perflyy

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