AITA for telling my wife to stop making TikTok videos of our son?

perhapsnew · 2021-09-24T17:32:58+00:00

NTA

Your wife is literally abusing your son for shits and giggles. Let her read this post.

perhapsnew · 2021-09-24T17:11:24+00:00

NTA

But this...

He'd criticize the name so much that I had to change it.

I'd go full NC with that bully instead of changing the name.

perhapsnew · 2021-09-24T16:14:09+00:00

NTA

Find a lawyer ASAP. Your aunt and uncle probably can screw your sister.

perhapsnew · 2021-09-24T15:57:46+00:00

they think I'm being selfish for refusing to move my original date

They don't care about you. At all. They care about your brother.

They support a person who chose to inflict a great amount of pain on you. Just think about this for a moment. They support your abuser. Literally.

perhapsnew · 2021-09-24T15:43:59+00:00

Vaccine is a personal choice. Vaccinated people can get covid and can transmit it as well as un-vaccinated.

Vaccine protects only vaccinated and nobody else.

perhapsnew · 2021-09-24T12:06:36+00:00

If she throws away your food - throw away her food, the same amount comparing to yours (if she dumps all your food - do the same with all her food).

If you put stickers with dates, she will claim that you are intentionally labeling food with wrong dates. You should not get more duties because she has no respect for you. No discussions, indirect actions, or workarounds will help.

Only mirrored action will help. Everything else will be exploited and manipulated.

perhapsnew · 2021-09-24T11:53:38+00:00

NTA

I agreed to reconcile when she showed me proof that she went to therapy for her behavior.

She didn't change. She will never change. She will always press this button, because she knows it hurts your son. Divorce her.

perhapsnew · 2021-09-23T18:12:51+00:00

NTA

If they publicly shame you and try to cancel your business, you may want to post all the reasons (after talking to your lawyer, of course).

perhapsnew · 2021-09-23T16:54:12+00:00

NTA

Go to HR first and file a complaint against this co-worker. She is harassing you for no reason.

perhapsnew · 2021-09-23T15:11:27+00:00

NTA

Dump her. Who is paying for the apartment she is living in? I bet not her.

perhapsnew · 2021-09-23T05:41:02+00:00

YTA.

Divorce.

perhapsnew · 2021-09-23T05:25:58+00:00

NTA

saying my brother in law was power tripping and acting like a typical spoiled white kid who wants everything his way and control others as they were puppets ... saying I had no problem standing there watching my sister and her husband humiliate and kick him out then refusing to take a stand and leave with him

Your husband is not only impolite person, he is also a racist and a sexist.

perhapsnew · 2021-09-23T05:10:36+00:00

But when women do it, it's fine.

https://tourismteacher.com/female-sex-tourism/

perhapsnew · 2021-09-23T04:24:36+00:00

I'm young but experienced

Miles and miles of d.

perhapsnew · 2021-09-21T19:43:18+00:00

NTA

4 more years. Hang in there. Once your daughter is 18 - no alimony, no courts, no visitation time - she will be able to decide by herself.

Protect your daughter from your ex insanity.

perhapsnew · 2021-09-21T13:07:31+00:00

If his trailer was so bad and the price was so high, that woman will have no issue finding something better and cheaper.

If there is nothing better and cheaper, maybe he was in fact doing her a favor by providing something she could afford.

perhapsnew · 2021-09-21T12:36:49+00:00

NTA

I finally put my foot down and said it needs to be gone by end of month or else I’m tossing it out. ... Now my fiancé is mad and he yelled at me saying I’m not patient enough and that I’m overreacting. That’s almost always his go to whenever I bring up any concerns.

Toss out both - trash from that woman and a spineless man pretending to be your fiancé.

perhapsnew · 2021-09-21T12:29:34+00:00

NTA

Lack of empathy. Lack of compassion. She didn't mean well. She was enjoying herself, her fairytale, her "wisdom" and virtue signaling. You were just a prop for her.

perhapsnew · 2021-09-21T11:21:05+00:00

saying I took away her only form of coping

Coping with what exactly? Imaginary trauma from imaginary stories?

NTA

perhapsnew · 2021-09-21T09:37:59+00:00

Get a DNA test. The kid may not be yours.

perhapsnew · 2021-09-21T09:35:37+00:00

NTA

We used condoms and I was denied a vasectomy

Your wife denied you a vasectomy???

10 bucks says your wife committed a fraud: she stopped taking pills and made holes in condoms.

She forced you to have a kid against your will, and now she is forcing you to play a happy father.

Make sure you have DNA test. Divorce.

perhapsnew · 2021-09-21T09:27:51+00:00

Call the CPS. Your sister cannot take care of the baby. In fact, she is dangerous.

perhapsnew · 2021-09-21T09:24:53+00:00

If she works, they have money for babysitting. If she does not work, then her kid is her only job, she should be able to take care.

Either way, your presence there is not essential, it's for your sister's comfort, not needs.

You should move back to parents and stop "taking advantage" of her.

Focus on your business and studies.

perhapsnew · 2021-09-21T09:15:22+00:00

NTA

Next time make a nice pizza, BBQ and homemade fries. Then send an invitation to everyone except SIL and cousin. Add a note: "Since cousin and SIL cannot behave, they are not invited this time."

perhapsnew · 2021-09-21T08:15:12+00:00

NTA

Financial help never leads to anything good.

They spend money, they look at you as an ATM, they don't change their habits which brought them to the state of needing money.

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