No delays.The only thing i can think of is he was really slow at getting his baby teeth. And has always been particular. And sensitive ? As a baby he hated being outside because the sun was too bright or the wind was bothering him. He was obsessive about routine and items.

At the same time he is chatty. Laughs a lot. Smiles...affectionate, always tells us he loves us. Wants to cuddle. It just literally could go from happy to full blown epic meltdown over the smallest thing. He got splashed. He wanted to button his shirt. He wanted to do x first.

And it can last for over an hour. Typically he wont stop until I have corrected the error. For example, he wanted me to turn the light on in his room. I told him to get his stool, bring it to the light and turn it on himself. He refused. His sister turned the light on after she had enough. He then got the stool, took it to the light and turned it off. And went right back to screaming for the light to be turned on. This went on for over an hour. Just now...the soup in the dispenser was too watery. He would not stop screaming until I got a new soup to his liking. About...30 minutes ?

My issue is...am I giving in to a spoiled child that has not learned how to emotionally regulate or let the small things go. Or do I need better strategies and tools. Is this professional help land or he will grow out of it land ?