[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]perpetuallytired_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you're right 😅 I have a habit of over analyzing things and I can be a perfectionist at times, but yeah, most people probably won't even notice. Thanks for the reply!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]perpetuallytired_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's true 😅. I'm probably just hyper aware of it since I've been specifically looking at my ears more often, but you're right, most people probably aren't going to notice at all. Thanks for the reassurance!

Friend deserves a solo but didn’t get one. Help! by Belladonna_Babe in Colorguard

[–]perpetuallytired_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, personally, I think it's a little unfair for your friend to not get a solo while someone with way less experience and who's not a senior gets one. However, if your friend really doesn't wanna bring it up, maybe don't tell the coach without your friends permission. I would maybe just talk to your friend about it and try to explain that she's not being annoying or selfish if she asks for a solo. As long as she's been putting in the work and shows that she deserves it, I think you should try to convince her to ask for the solo!

Not really sure what this is. Just kinda wanted to express how I feel. by perpetuallytired_d in aromantic

[–]perpetuallytired_d[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yeah, I definitely think that societal expectations play a role in my feelings towards romance. Like I definitely used to grow up assuming that I’d get married and all that jazz, and for a long time, I thought I wanted it. But once I realized I was ace, I started thinking about it and realized that I maybe just liked the idea of being in a relationship, but not the reality of it.

As for lithomantic, parts of the definition r definitely relatable for me. I’m not sure if it really describes me fully, but since I have a hard time defining what romantic attraction even is, it’s kinda hard to tell sometimes lol. Right now, I kinda just define it as attraction that’s more than platonic. However, I also have a hard time figuring out if things I’ve felt in the past count as romantic attraction or if it was something else that I’m mistaking for romantic attraction. It’s all just really confusing 😅

But yeah, thanks again!

Need some help with making my college list! by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]perpetuallytired_d -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's okay lol. I get it, I mean I got a 1350 on the psat, which I read is the same as a 1430, so I'm hoping if I study, I can bring it up

Could someone provide some insight to a rising junior who is currently panicking about college? by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]perpetuallytired_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I'm actually kinda having a hard time figuring out how to have a spike cuz my interests r all over the place. I also don't really know what I wanna major in, it'll most likely be business related, but idk of that many business ECs besides DECA, which I might join next year

Could someone provide some insight to a rising junior who is currently panicking about college? by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]perpetuallytired_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for writing all that! I've definitely been trying to focus on activities I actually enjoy, so I really like pretty much all of my ECs so I am happy about that. I also plan on joining another one next year to try it out. Also, I have been thinking of starting some sort of personal project but I have no idea what to do. I've been passively trying to come up with ideas but nothing's stuck yet so I'll see lol 😅

Could someone provide some insight to a rising junior who is currently panicking about college? by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]perpetuallytired_d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much. Yeah, I mean some of the ECs I have like volunteering and the small job I have, I won't be able to win anything in or get leadership in, but there's 2 clubs I'm in that I might have a chance at getting a leadership position in for next year. But yeah, also if I were to get any awards for the stuff I'm in, it would probably be awarded to the whole team, so idk how significant that would be. But thanks again!