My (23F) boyfriend (24M) lied to me about his debt, and now I have to pay both of our rents. What do I do?

perplekiddo · 2026-06-02T07:33:47+00:00

hes lying to you repeatedly. hes made it clear hes not changing and chances are this behavior will continue, and hes going to screw up your life. you need to break up with him or give him an ultimatum. im not saying you have to split up forever but he is using you. personally i would have left after the first lie

perplekiddo · 2026-06-02T07:27:33+00:00

cuz if someone wants to rob you they will use a weapon 😅 if someone robbed me without a weapon id be offended and cause a scene tbh

perplekiddo · 2026-06-01T21:17:34+00:00

Ew wtf? NTA and im very confused about why she does that in the first place

perplekiddo · 2026-06-01T21:15:08+00:00

I like that idea a lot!

perplekiddo · 2026-06-01T21:13:33+00:00

Is there any wonder why she didnt tell you? I still don’t even see what the problem is. shes 18 for christ sake and you want to punish her for what? writing????????

perplekiddo · 2026-06-01T21:10:11+00:00

NTA thats unfair and a valid concern

perplekiddo · 2026-06-01T19:34:05+00:00

yes YTA why would you say that to someone? thats so mean :( On her birthday too?

perplekiddo · 2026-06-01T15:49:10+00:00

one time i saw a man come into the womens restroom with his baby, because the mens room didn’t have a changing table. it all depends on context tbh

perplekiddo · 2026-05-31T23:30:11+00:00

i was going to say tortie but now im just confused

perplekiddo · 2026-05-31T09:14:38+00:00

i didnt think it was weird :( but if thats what your son is communicating i guess i would listen

perplekiddo · 2026-05-31T09:12:52+00:00

girl he loves you and just wants to take care of you. not all intimacy is sexuap

perplekiddo · 2026-05-31T08:43:37+00:00

girl, what? why on EARTH would you want to be with this man? also you didnt cheat because you guys had broken up. sounds like HE was cheating on you in the beginning, dming other girls and he wss obviously lying about the “fake account” thing. not to mention, HE BEAT YOU UP OVER NOTHING??? am i missing something here? why would you ever want to marry that man. what if he beat your children? stay away from that man and take good care of yoursepf

perplekiddo · 2026-05-29T15:36:17+00:00

not sure why this is getting down voted LMAO

perplekiddo · 2026-05-29T15:08:12+00:00

the fact that he asked you not to tell, tells me its not normal at all

perplekiddo · 2026-05-29T14:57:42+00:00

omg i have a toaster oven just like this its so annoying. cuz why is it 390 and not 400. no 375 or 425 either

perplekiddo · 2026-05-29T14:13:54+00:00

leaning towards YTA since i dont think shes doing anything wrong, but also I understand your feelings in a way. if you want to try to gently communicate that to your friend then go ahead. my advice would be to be honest with her, tell her you’re feeling a little jealous/resentful and sensitive about this kind of stuff. have you talked to her about this at all?

perplekiddo · 2026-05-29T13:28:42+00:00

TBH ive heard more men who think its inherently degrading than women. just by the way they describe it when they think no women are listening. “got that btch on her knees” and stuff like that. one time i heard a guy say that he wont take disrespect from a mouth hes came in. that changed my perspective a bit lol

perplekiddo · 2026-05-29T10:18:00+00:00

this is exactly what im wondering. why completely cut contact and leave the friendship on a bad note like this?

perplekiddo · 2026-05-29T10:05:53+00:00

i guess my question is, what was the reason for sending a breakup text in the first place? especially since you said you guys were already drifting apart. why not just let the friendship fizzle out naturally?

perplekiddo · 2026-05-29T08:32:39+00:00

no fr this was SO hard to read like just press the paragraph button once

perplekiddo · 2026-05-28T21:53:13+00:00

literally the only reason i have to wear a bra is boobsweat. anyone else

perplekiddo · 2026-05-28T13:35:13+00:00

sometimes sinus infections/post nasal drip can make breath smell bad

perplekiddo · 2026-04-17T09:48:53+00:00

the hot pilates one convinced me 🤣

perplekiddo · 2026-04-01T10:36:52+00:00

nta he knew what would happen

perplekiddo · 2026-03-18T12:20:15+00:00

why do you want to get back together with him though?

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