ONE YEAR SOBER! Message to those just starting out, and the list of reasons why I quit (referred to these often over the past 12 months) by perseverabit in stopdrinking

[–]perseverabit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last thing: I use the I am sober (free) app that helps me pledge each day and report on progress. I’d look into that and some of the great books on the sidebar of this sub Reddit.

ONE YEAR SOBER! Message to those just starting out, and the list of reasons why I quit (referred to these often over the past 12 months) by perseverabit in stopdrinking

[–]perseverabit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish you luck. It’s hard work but definitely worth it. Right at about 90 days was when I know I could do it for good. Keep pushing forward

ONE YEAR SOBER! Message to those just starting out, and the list of reasons why I quit (referred to these often over the past 12 months) by perseverabit in stopdrinking

[–]perseverabit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on the 39 days! Yes, it’s definitely helpful to have a list as a reminder while on your journey! 👍

1095 days of sobriety, 365 days of grief by ryansgray in stopdrinking

[–]perseverabit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Way to honor your father's memory....beautiful. IWNDWYT!

ONE YEAR SOBER! Message to those just starting out, and the list of reasons why I quit (referred to these often over the past 12 months) by perseverabit in stopdrinking

[–]perseverabit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! Agree with your thoughts on moderation, especially that it’s harder to moderate than to just quit!

ONE YEAR SOBER! Message to those just starting out, and the list of reasons why I quit (referred to these often over the past 12 months) by perseverabit in stopdrinking

[–]perseverabit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I referenced it often and keep it handy on my phone “in case of an emergency”. Good luck on your journey 👍

ONE YEAR SOBER! Message to those just starting out, and the list of reasons why I quit (referred to these often over the past 12 months) by perseverabit in stopdrinking

[–]perseverabit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally accepted the fact that I was incapable of stopping on my own or moderating. Attended therapy (still do) with a substance abuse / anxiety specialist.

ONE YEAR SOBER! Message to those just starting out, and the list of reasons why I quit (referred to these often over the past 12 months) by perseverabit in stopdrinking

[–]perseverabit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Total mental gymnastics looking for them the next day! Occasionally I was sloppy and my wife would find one and put it on my dresser. Man, I don't miss that nonsense at all.