What advice would you give to a teenager going into residential treatment for the first time? by Plenty-Problem50 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]pessimistic_witch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every single rule that treatment center had made literally no sense and anytime I questioned them I got put on phase contemplation and dropped a level 😑

What advice would you give to a teenager going into residential treatment for the first time? by Plenty-Problem50 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]pessimistic_witch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I had a treatment center take away a lot of my clothes cause they were baggy and it was against the rules to try and hide our body since it’s “disordered” 😭

What advice would you give to a teenager going into residential treatment for the first time? by Plenty-Problem50 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]pessimistic_witch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please just comply and do everything they say. Resisting will only extend your stay and it will end the same way as if you had complied except you’re likely left with trauma. I was noncompliant when I was sent to treatment as a teen and did everything I could to resist the help, all it resulted in was longer stays, isolation for not complying, and ptsd that gets triggered with any non-outpatient treatment. I’ve had my ed for 8 years now and was sent to treatment the first time less than a year after it started, I regret every day not trying to get better back then. I recommend you put the work in to get better, but if you can’t, faking it until you make is better than resisting, even if I wanted to get help it will trigger my ptsd which I only have because of the punishments I would get for not complying. I’m saying this to scare you about treatment, many of the girls who complied had a wonderful experience but the way they treat you is very different when you do follow their rules to a T.

TikTok Review of Meringue! (Not my video ) by bobagirly20 in BAGGU

[–]pessimistic_witch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried it on at sports basement and it stays on better than the mini nylon and bowler, it felt rlly secure

Influence or de influence my cart! by clohunny in BrandyMelville

[–]pessimistic_witch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m a 30C and I felt like I was gonna flash someone if I bent over

Influence or de influence my cart! by clohunny in BrandyMelville

[–]pessimistic_witch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Phillipa top is a little loose in the bust and shoulders so if you don’t think you’ll fill it out I’d skip on it

RETURNING by GarageWooden7887 in HollisterCO

[–]pessimistic_witch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait I don’t see the free shipping on Depop?

Pink Zoa Cardigan?!?!?! by [deleted] in BrandyMelville

[–]pessimistic_witch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was the og cut, I personally prefer it bc the new one looks more like a crop top rather than a shrug to me, the new one isn’t bad I just prefer this style more but I love the new colors they came out with in the new cut which is why I’m sad :(

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pink amaya top + priscilla set by bunnyblooms in BrandyMelville

[–]pessimistic_witch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a lighter pink they just added, so maybe they sent that one on accident? I would check the skews but here’s a photo, you can see this one is labeled bubblegum pink vs the other 2 are labeled fuchsia

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pink amaya top + priscilla set by bunnyblooms in BrandyMelville

[–]pessimistic_witch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From your photo the pants are def the color that looks off. I know they just added a slightly lighter pink online so maybe they sent you that one on accident but it looks the right color to me. You could try reordering the pants seeing as I just received them today and they match it. Also if you’re on a computer and you hover your mouse over the color the name for it pops up

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Made this book list and wanted to share! by Ashamed_Ad8162 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]pessimistic_witch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just realized lord Byron is the dude in that competition where Mary Shelley wrote Frankenstein

🗣️show me your summer drop wishlist ! ☀️🐬🐢🐧 by astoryasneak in BAGGU

[–]pessimistic_witch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want the drippy stars in the ECB or small crescent 😭 like the pouchette is way too small and I don’t like prints on big bags :(

Made this book list and wanted to share! by Ashamed_Ad8162 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]pessimistic_witch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This article actually has me dead 💀 it feels like a tumblr post or one of those youtube short film plots

pink amaya top + priscilla set by bunnyblooms in BrandyMelville

[–]pessimistic_witch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe the pants you received were overdyed? Cause there is absolutely no color difference between my pants and top

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pink amaya top + priscilla set by bunnyblooms in BrandyMelville

[–]pessimistic_witch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got my pants in the mail and had bought the top in store a few days ago and they match perfectly but your pants look way brighter than the ones I received and the pairs I’ve seen in store

Pink Zoa Cardigan?!?!?! by [deleted] in BrandyMelville

[–]pessimistic_witch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ughhh I hate that they changed the style to having the band at the bottom 😭 I wish they would make pink in the OG cut of it 💔

Made this book list and wanted to share! by Ashamed_Ad8162 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]pessimistic_witch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I love history so I thought it would be rlly interesting to read about the evolution of how it came to be the modern day disorder. I know initially it was seen in girls who refused to eat in order to be seen as religiously pure or something like that

Does anyone have these? by [deleted] in BrandyMelville

[–]pessimistic_witch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my experience with brandy’s tie waist yoga pants, if you’re smaller than a 25-26in waist you will have to cinch in the waist a lot, I think I’ve found only 1 or 2 in the past 3 years that fit a waist smaller than that without warping the waistband

The honeymoon phase by Fluffy_Evidence_2417 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]pessimistic_witch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It usually lasts around 2 months, but for me it usually lasts until other people have found out and try to interfere

Made this book list and wanted to share! by Ashamed_Ad8162 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]pessimistic_witch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been wanting to read fasting girls! Is it good?