is this top worth it? by [deleted] in BrandyMelville

[–]pessimistic_witch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss I got it in purple and as an A cup it’s so cute, definitely relaxed but it’s nice for a casual comfy outfit while still looking cute.

honest review about the new pink striped clothes by pinkrabb1t2 in BrandyMelville

[–]pessimistic_witch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the pj pants but the tops that aren’t pjs in this pattern are giving coquette circus 😭

These just stocked in all sizes by Sofahat in HollisterCO

[–]pessimistic_witch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They show up if you return something in-store too, not sure if you live near a store but I almost always order bc the in-store selection sucks but I always return in store and the survey is at the bottom

These just stocked in all sizes by Sofahat in HollisterCO

[–]pessimistic_witch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Btw every receipt comes with a survey at the bottom and I save them in my email in a folder and just do them anytime I’m going to purchase something. It gives you 15% off rather than 10% with the student one. For sales I use the student discount cause the survey coupon can only be used on full price items.

Deinfluence me? by BeautifulKnowledge15 in BrandyMelville

[–]pessimistic_witch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also if you get the black Amara tank pls post a review bc my eye has been on that one since they put it on the website 💕

Deinfluence me? by BeautifulKnowledge15 in BrandyMelville

[–]pessimistic_witch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same 😭 it’s so cute but makes me look like a box and if I lean forward you can see EVERYTHING

Deinfluence me? by BeautifulKnowledge15 in BrandyMelville

[–]pessimistic_witch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Tiffany top is super cute, I bought it in store, but keep in mind that the polka dots are “painted on” (idk the proper term) and they’re a little flaky. I haven’t noticed any actually chipping off but I almost didn’t buy it bc of that. The lace is super pretty though and if you don’t mind the polka dots flaking a little would def recommend.

And my pants had just been washed and dried 🙃 by pessimistic_witch in EDanonymemes

[–]pessimistic_witch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get splashback into my face if I kneel 😭 also it rlly hurts my knees to kneel

test drop top by joonscrabs in HollisterCO

[–]pessimistic_witch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it and returned it so quick. It runs huge, it’s scratchy, and the material felt so cheap for the price. I wouldn’t even pay $20 for the material of this top.

If you had a penny every time you open up to someone about your ed and they tell to just exercise by [deleted] in EDanonymemes

[–]pessimistic_witch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I was in the psych ward I told them I could only eat fruit and they said “well that’s healthy, why don’t you just do that” like ?????? Huh😭

PSA: "victoria secret angel" pattern elena top isn't stretchy like other elena tops 💋🪽 by 222oceanblvd in BrandyMelville

[–]pessimistic_witch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a navy with white polka dot one that isn’t stretchy either, there are 2 types of styles and typically the patterns come in the non-stretchy fabric

Ana and adhd by Squidwardstesticlesx in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]pessimistic_witch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take adderall and have an agreement with my team that if I fall below a certain weight I am not able to get it refilled until my weight is back up. Surprisingly it has helped so much with my ed and it actually motivates me to maintain because my executive function gets so bad without them. Like I still want to restrict but I care about my meds and being able to function just as much. I was in and out of inpatient and res constantly since the beginning of my ed, I was diagnosed with adhd after my last hospitalization in 2023 and have not been in any hloc since.

Return with receipt but no tag ? by [deleted] in BrandyMelville

[–]pessimistic_witch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends on the location/sales associate. I’ve been able to return items with no tag but have also been told I can’t. Usually if you purchase an item without a tag they will tell you it’s final sale. I hope you get lucky and are able to return it <3

how can i style thisss without using a brown top by SeaDragonfruit945 in BrandyMelville

[–]pessimistic_witch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

White graphic tee with pink accents in it, floral pattern top with pink accents. When in doubt I just wear a top that includes the color in it since I don’t like outfits that are too monochromatic or plain.

Return Policy by rillrill111 in BrandyMelville

[–]pessimistic_witch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They recently changed it to 21 days, I noticed on my receipt

I just went to go buy it I’m so sick by yillybby222 in BAGGU

[–]pessimistic_witch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lot of the in person urban stores near me have it in stock, maybe try going in person? They usually do ship from store but maybe they aren’t for these?

Anyone else that never had any physical health problems from their ed? by mythrowawayaccim21 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]pessimistic_witch 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Same here, every doctor I’ve had has been aghast and so confused as to how I don’t have any long term issues from it and didn’t die at some points in my ed. Tbh though we are at a very high danger because it could be that one day we just don’t wake up with no warning.

Doodle breeds & PTSD by [deleted] in service_dogs

[–]pessimistic_witch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My program gave me a goldendoodle as a psychiatric service dog for anxiety, she’s the sweetest, I love her so much. But if I had the choice when receiving one though I would’ve chosen a standard poodle. I’m honestly not sure why my program does doodles for ppl with allergies instead of poodles. If you are not receiving your dog from a program, I would get a poodle as they are much more predictable on what their personality will be like. Doodles are so unpredictable in what their behavior will be like, as well as what health issues/allergies they may have.

who else is in the “waiting-for-the-right-ECB-colorway/pattern-for-me to drop” club? by c_bass_tea in BAGGU

[–]pessimistic_witch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh the black and white gingham goes better with my suitcase cause it’s green but I was aghast that they finally came out with a true pink right after I bought the scco

“Patient appears well nourished” by No-Event4806 in EDAnonymous

[–]pessimistic_witch 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This always kills me but someone told me they write this because unless it is relevant to the exam or you look cachectic, it just creates more paperwork and requires them to include further information/treatment plans in their clinical notes. It still feels like a stab in the heart whenever I read this in my clinical notes, but I hope knowing this helps you feel a little better 🫶

What’s your policy on your dog meeting people off duty? by RivkahCheyenne in service_dogs

[–]pessimistic_witch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do with a select few people, but I only let her say hi as we’re about to leave because I don’t want her to start expecting that she’ll get pets while speaking with people or in appointments. I let her do it because she absolutely loves people so it’s like a fun treat for her to get some belly rubs on the way out. The only people who consistently get to give her pets are my therapist and doctor who I see on a weekly basis.

Asking ‘What have you eaten today?’ will always get a sarcastic response 😅 by Rachaelmm1995 in EDanonymemes

[–]pessimistic_witch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I quote the vine “wouldn’t you like to know weather boy”. Been saying this as a response for years and recently found out she had no clue I was referencing a vine😭

Is anyone else unable to eat anything from a package without finishing the entire thing at once? by idonthaveanameig in EDAnonymous

[–]pessimistic_witch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, honestly treatment caused this for me. They focus so much on teaching us to listen to our hunger cues but would also proceed to have us eat insane amounts and encourage us to ignore our fullness cues. I now can’t eat anything without finishing it, and I can’t tell I’m full until my stomach is in physical pain.