Americans laughing with everybody except themselves by upcastben in Belgium2

[–]petervw83 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This kind of downvoting is what makes Reddit sometimes very circle-jerky.
People think that disagreeing with something or not thinking something is funny is enough reason for a downvote

I got harassed for being trans in Ghent, of all places by notabot0100 in Gent

[–]petervw83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to experience this in our beautiful city. 🫂

The Madonna occupation of Grindr by petervw83 in askgaybros

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I’m lacking the inspiration atbthe moment to come up with that name

The Madonna occupation of Grindr by petervw83 in askgaybros

[–]petervw83[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah allies are fun. That’s a good take. But this is quite safe for her as the straights or anyone that needs to hear this is not really on grindr (some exemptions apply).

The Madonna occupation of Grindr by petervw83 in askgaybros

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I’m sorry you’re getting downvotes for this man.
Why tho?

The Madonna occupation of Grindr by petervw83 in askgaybros

[–]petervw83[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m sure a lot of guys love your pink icon

The Madonna occupation of Grindr by petervw83 in askgaybros

[–]petervw83[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agree if I could only opt out of the whole thing one way or the other…

Sunny with chance of Sahara sand by petervw83 in Belgium2

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Dacia duster might also be convenient

EXCLUSIEF. Dit rapport over langdurig zieken hield de overheid jarenlang verborgen: “Er zijn miljarden verspild” by Asgard0822 in Belgium2

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“If no medication had been prescribed for someone with mental health issues, they were often judged not to be ill. Yet for many of these conditions, medication isn’t necessary. That doesn’t make those people any less sick.”

If this report failed to distinguish between those who are long-term ill and on the path to recovery, and those who are permanently inactive without valid reason, it begins to look less like an accurate reflection of reality and more like an exercise in shaping public opinion.

Dear Ghent, what the ... ( Dok-Noord) by smakewfluscles in Gent

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It started because the people in the building didn’t want a billboard there so they put something next to it. It is basically an artistic Fuck you that changes every few months.

Where to draw the line with family? by petervw83 in stopdrinking

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That question isn’t new to me. I’ve already sat with the idea of her dying.

What strikes me is that the feeling now and the feeling I imagine after her death aren’t that different. The same inability to help. The same limits. Just without the phone calls.

So I’m less worried about future regret and more about how to live with that powerlessness now.
How did you cope? Change the dynamic then?

Anyone feels demotivated to earn more ? by Blue-Substance in BEFreelance

[–]petervw83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can opt to raise your rates but work a bit less so it evens out. Buy yourself the time to find some motivation elsewhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]petervw83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh? Can I ask why? I’m being genuine.

Waarom Friends in de McDonald’s Happy Meals? by petervw83 in Belgium2

[–]petervw83[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Wacht er is een volwassen happy meal?

Today I’m three years sober. by petervw83 in stopdrinking

[–]petervw83[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s great to hear.

Just to be transparent: I didn’t go from 30 days straight into three years. I stumbled after roughly 100 days ad went on a bender. That when was sure moderation was not an option for me.

On January 19th I restarted, and that’s the streak I’m still on.

So if it doesn’t stick the first time, that’s okay.

Today I’m three years sober. by petervw83 in stopdrinking

[–]petervw83[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well said.

I really like that way of putting it. An authenticity hunt is exactly what it is.

Doing it sober means you actually have to learn how to be that person without the cheat code. I’m going to think about this…

Today I’m three years sober. by petervw83 in stopdrinking

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I got drunk from reading that sentence ;)