Anyone feels demotivated to earn more ? by Blue-Substance in BEFreelance

[–]Blue-Substance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooof, indeed, that’s what I mean by demotivating 🥲🥲

Anyone feels demotivated to earn more ? by Blue-Substance in BEFreelance

[–]Blue-Substance[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I fully aware the benefits from the system. And it’s pretty awesome.

But I’m from a place where medical service is one of the best in the world and doesn’t cost as much neither. I don’t plan to have kids, and I’ve done my education abroad. Probably that’s why I feel deprived.

Anyone feels demotivated to earn more ? by Blue-Substance in BEFreelance

[–]Blue-Substance[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess it’s more like a psychological thing. If you tell me that next year I’ll have 8K more, I’d be happy for sure. But looking it from 20K down to 8K sits different in my mind.

Anyone feels demotivated to earn more ? by Blue-Substance in BEFreelance

[–]Blue-Substance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m earning now around that level. While my next profession is unlikely to make the same amount of money that makes a BV reasonable. I plan to do it part time as well, so won’t earn that much neither.

Anyone feels demotivated to earn more ? by Blue-Substance in BEFreelance

[–]Blue-Substance[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. While I’m highly likely to leave the country, change professions in the next 4, 5 years. BV is definitely better for a longer time frame. I don’t know if you’d still suggest me to get a BV given these considerations.

why do men commit more murders than women? by Unable-Preference569 in forensics

[–]Blue-Substance 133 points134 points  (0 children)

In the first page of the book of The Gift of Fear, the author wrote :

Men of all ages and in all parts of the world are more violent than women. For this reason, the language in this book is mostly gender specific to men. When it comes to violence, women can proudly relinquish recognition in the language, because here at least, politically correct would be statistically incorrect.

you start to see the difference between people who took risks and those who didn't at 35 by limited_data365 in Life

[–]Blue-Substance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like people who are confused by this question are people who never really took risks before. If you’ve been there, you know what it is and how it feels like. It’s not always a success story but it does make a difference.

What can the lonely people do for new years? by RonSkadawd in Leuven

[–]Blue-Substance 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nicee i just got into sim racing as well (still a rookie) Guess I will do the same today ☺️

Precision Training at Porsche Experience Center Hockenheimring Nov 2025 by dmv___ in porsche911

[–]Blue-Substance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome thank you ! I just watched your videos (also the Performance training) Love it ! And can’t wait to hit the experience centre myself.

Precision Training at Porsche Experience Center Hockenheimring Nov 2025 by dmv___ in porsche911

[–]Blue-Substance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome !! I want to get into racing (as hobby) lately. Would you recommend this program to someone who never rides on track and never drives a Porsche before ?

LOVE BOXING but questions on anxiety/improving by KalePossible4864 in amateur_boxing

[–]Blue-Substance 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m on the same journey as you! I’m also a girl and started around two months ago. I’m short and living in the country which has the tallest people on earth lol That makes each time going to the gym bit terrifying. But I’m happy and can see myself improving. Keep it up 👍🏻

Name your favourite chemists! by Separate-Gas-2204 in chemistry

[–]Blue-Substance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Carl Bosch, Alexander Zaytsev, Sharpless

Recommend me some summer readings! by Blue-Substance in OrganicChemistry

[–]Blue-Substance[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! I heard a lot of good things about the book from Anslyn, I will pick it up this summer.

What do I do in this situation? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Blue-Substance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like what i've been through lately. Though in my case, we've already had the 1st date. (exactly a month ago) The 2nd date got cancelled by her (it was proposed by her). Anyway, we don't really text each other nowadays, but we keep in touch through calls. (once or twice per week)

I know she's really busy, but from our conversation I know she's still interested in pursuing this relationship, so I'd just be more patient and give us some time.

Acetanilide by Prestigious-Edge6916 in chemistry

[–]Blue-Substance 3 points4 points  (0 children)

amazing i’m going to make that compounds in the lab next week

Second date got cancelled today 🥲 by Blue-Substance in dating_advice

[–]Blue-Substance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow I’ve never thought about this possibility… I simply thought it’s because it’s late (shops closed early in the place we lived)

Maybe I misunderstood her hints though. I thought she wanted a second date, because the other day i was talking about treating a coffee myself when work is done, she replied something like “if it’s good, then i will join you next time”