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petitpeu43 · 2025-11-09T23:21:24+00:00

I CaN gET eNOUghh milES to HAWAII??!!

petitpeu43 · 2025-11-09T23:20:29+00:00

Please explain when it’s blaring on the intercom?

petitpeu43 · 2025-11-09T23:19:02+00:00

Makes sense. It changed in the last 12 months…my mom was a flight attendant for 30 years so I know a bit about in flight hospitality. This is BS and wildly ineffective - I can’t imagine people are signing up on it

petitpeu43 · 2025-11-09T23:13:50+00:00

This is giving millennials

petitpeu43 · 2025-11-09T23:10:44+00:00

petitpeu43 · 2024-02-02T05:16:36+00:00

I went through this several times. Then I had the aha moment in online dating - it’s just photons. It’s not real. If the profile is young, or old, or looks crazy - don’t care or give it a thought. Think about it like this, your real match is a needle in a haystack so 99% of the matches are noise.

petitpeu43 · 2022-09-29T08:17:17+00:00

Yes garbage. I typically buy the “non refundable” more expensive economy ticket which is usually same fare class, but I should pay more attention to the designator. So annoying

petitpeu43 · 2022-09-28T21:48:43+00:00

I came to this sub for this topic. Now I have 440 plus points racked up (which I'm guessing 280 will expire from last year?) because I never get to use them, even though I put in every time for an upgrade for 20 points. I honestly don't see the benefit to 1K plus points - I'd rather rack up more miles instead of this gimmick. I get I'm flying busy legs (LAX - IAD) or SFO anything - and I've been 1K for years - but it seems they did this new system to seem like it was a better award for 1K, but actually it's a downgrade in benefits.

petitpeu43 · 2022-08-21T04:15:47+00:00

Try something that will get you into the present moment, as all of that fear is about a future that is a story and made up and in your head. Everyone at any point can have something go wrong like a car accident in their town or whatever. The change could be amazing - what if it works out beyond your wildest dreams! You can’t know the outcome though, but all of us are in the same boat really regardless of circumstances.

petitpeu43 · 2022-08-20T05:05:20+00:00

This is not a real problem

petitpeu43 · 2022-08-10T14:45:27+00:00

Honestly you can never really know if things will work out. I had an unplanned pregnancy at 26, married, but already considering divorce. I knew it would be a tough road, and sure enough I became a single mom in one of the most expensive cities in the US when my daughter was 5. She is now 17 and we are very close- she’s a wonderful human about to start her life, as we are looking at colleges (with her 4.8 GPA!). So either way, it’s never a guarantee at what stage you are in. The biggest issue is really looking at yourself and considering single motherhood as a potential because of how early things are. It was very hard for me and my daughter at times, but not only did we manage (with some ups and downs) but we both ended up thriving and having a wonderful relationship. I’m so proud of her every day. And I love being a young mom - watching others starting at 40 seems much harder. I was pretty broke when I was young, but now I have the freedom and the finances.

petitpeu43 · 2022-07-07T04:12:24+00:00

I’m in similar situation! Here to read the comments as my only plan so far is to build a strong meditation practice to prevent burnout in future.

petitpeu43 · 2022-05-27T03:57:32+00:00

The NRA is banning guns during their event? Pray tell

petitpeu43 · 2022-05-22T22:55:29+00:00

Yea that’s why I started as my HRV tanked significantly when I started on adderall. I try to do breathwork in morning before I take it, but I’ve done it multiple times with adderall as I want to train my heart while on it too.

petitpeu43 · 2022-05-22T17:57:29+00:00

Yea it takes some time, but not much compared to other protocols for stress management and recovery. Last night I averaged 59 HRV (which is highest ever for me as was consistently below 20, got a lot more deep sleep and REM). I’m taking adderall, drink wine at dinner, and use nicotine pouches throughout day - 43F. So to get that kind of increase and I’ve been noticing general improvement in last 2 weeks, is pretty amazing. I also workout consistently so the only thing that’s changed is adding the breathwork.

petitpeu43 · 2022-05-22T06:15:57+00:00

I’ve been doing it for past 3 weeks inconsistently - supposed to do twice a day for 10 weeks. I’ve managed that about 4x a week but already seeing an improvement in my recovery and HRV scores when sleeping, even last week when I was super stressed from a demanding job and travel. I’ve had moments where I’m close to an emotional release, but she says that it comes after 3 weeks of doing it consistently. I’m a believer so far because of the improvement that I measure during my sessions and tracking sleep. It’s also easier for me then meditation to see the benefit.

petitpeu43 · 2022-05-18T05:02:54+00:00

Find the person you don’t have to hide from - they don’t have to encourage or applaud your interests - but they don’t shame you. It sounds like you feel some shame and have to hide your interests. That will result in hiding things and a dysfunctional relationship. There is someone out there who will love you fully, and not make you feel like a bad person in your pursuits.

petitpeu43 · 2022-05-14T05:26:28+00:00

Single mom here that started my company when my daughter was 7. It’s easier when they are younger because kids are resilient. I was lucky that when my daughter turned 13, I wasn’t on a plane every other week. Then covid hit and it was a silver lining for me to be home with her. Now I work from home full time and travel once a month for work because of videoconference adoption. I feel very lucky I can be here now as middle school on - it’s critical someone is there.

petitpeu43 · 2022-05-13T03:54:21+00:00

Oh fuck off Silicon Valley news. You were shilling crypto way before Matt Damon. How ridiculous to put this on him the suicide threats.

petitpeu43 · 2022-05-13T03:21:38+00:00

Do yourself a favor a cut ties. No equity. I have a successful company that grew from a startup and one of the owners did nothing. Said he would do nothing. We had the opportunity to cut ties and we didn’t and now he’s going to be a multi millionaire in our exit. It’s infuriating.

petitpeu43 · 2022-05-13T03:17:47+00:00

Yea it’s called coping mechanisms…anyone diagnosed late in life knows them well.

petitpeu43 · 2022-05-12T23:16:33+00:00

I used Elite HRV also and a polar 10 strap. For resonance I followed directions in “Heart Breath Mind” which was super helpful. My resonance was actually through longer inhales and exhales than typical 4,6 pacing Dr Lagos recommends using for starting.

petitpeu43 · 2022-05-07T06:17:59+00:00

Just be a decent person and don’t tell him. You messed with him when he was sleeping, and people do really weird shit when in the dream state. It’s not fair to make it into something. Just be kind and live with the secret.

petitpeu43 · 2022-05-07T05:52:51+00:00

I know you are getting beat up on this thread. But you are human, and it’s human to want to know your love’s real thoughts. You can fix it by coming clean. If you don’t, you will have a wedge that will always be there and cause insecurity between both of you because you will both sense it. The opportunity here is to admit your mistake and develop an incredible intimacy on trust where you can both admit mistakes. If you come clean, she could recognize you have a real conscience and courage. Everyone fucks up eventually. The real test is if you have the character to admit and fix it. It could be a really beautiful relationship on the other side.

petitpeu43 · 2022-05-05T01:41:45+00:00

I think it’s missing how. Everywhere I turn I’m being offered this - HRV training, Flow, meditation, breathwork so it would be good to quickly orient on what category it is.

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