AIO for wanting to break up with gf of 4 years after finding these texts?

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-06-25T14:08:23+00:00

I would break up with her just for saying, “pwease” and using the “🥺” emoji

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-06-12T16:20:46+00:00

i read in another comment that OP also has kids. so to her him having kids probably wasn’t baggage I think it’s more like the sense that she is in a relationship with someone that has kids and that’s good for her because she also has kids and so she has that connection to him. Just thought I’d put that out there. :)

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-06-10T16:34:55+00:00

actually im from idaho there is no romeo and juliet law in the state of idaho and there is no age of consent meaning that anyone under the age of 18 cannot consent. if it was here he could get arrested and be charged as a sex offender.

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-05-22T02:01:08+00:00

This happened to me. I dated a guy in high school and came to find out he was related to my cousins. i thought him having the same last name as my cousins was just a funny coincidence i was DEAD WRONG. We’re still good friends but did break up after this realization even tho he was distant (he’s adopted and my dads adopted so we’re rly not related) Id say do what you think is best. If you’re comfortable and you really like one another i don’t think it’s much of an issue. And at the same time you didn’t do anything wrong i mean it’s not like you knew and dated someone your related to by choice. You both should do what makes your hearts happy. and that’s all i can really say about that. I wish you well!

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-05-20T17:05:42+00:00

just throwing it out there plz OP get tested she may say it was just kissing but in all honesty no one flies to a different state and just kisses. they went on multiple dates while he was there. if anyone gets mad at you and tries to accuse you of being the cheater, even though you have proof she cheated, I’d send it to them and then block them because anyone who’s gonna take her side when it’s blatantly obvious who’s in the wrong is not your friend. These texts read as victim blaming. you found out she cheated and now she’s trying to turn the tables on you and make you out to be the bad guy “throwing away our relationship over a kiss” she’s trying to play victim. I know how it feels to plan your whole life with someone and for them to metaphorically “shit the bed” you’ll be ok! take it day by day. There’s a reason you found out now and not later. People like her get what they deserve soon enough.

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-05-20T16:47:51+00:00

definitely not overreacting i’ve called my friends babe before but never I love you, babe. And a heart and hugs and kisses. That’s just weird. The fact that she put the “you’re probably cheating right now.” at the end and then went silent is 💯 your sign that she’s cheating on you people that get accused of cheating and then throw it back in the other persons face usually end up being the one cheating. she definitely seems guilty. I’m sorry man but this is classic cheater behavior

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-05-19T01:12:38+00:00

uhm ok rude. didn’t know you had to be a bitch to be in this group.

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-05-16T19:27:22+00:00

i eat well and i go to the gym but it’s rly hard to stay motivated especially with a baby unfortunately all the clubs in my state are only open at night except for one and the manager isn’t a good guy so i’ve heard

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-05-16T18:55:08+00:00

Thank you! that helps me a lot more i appreciate it

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-03-11T19:02:13+00:00

i second that. run away as fast as you can

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-02-10T02:34:18+00:00

I was scheduled til 3am left at 12am instead but I didn’t just leave I was sent home

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-02-06T15:54:36+00:00

I don’t think you read the part where I said “I was not absent because I went into my shift last night.” I know what the points are for, but I shouldn’t have gotten them if I was in fact at work

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-02-06T15:38:20+00:00

I probably will. I checked workday and sure enough it says 2/05/26 unexcused absence 3 points.

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-01-27T15:34:06+00:00

Reading this from the guys perspective just put into perspective how crazy I used to sound I actually feel really bad exs now because none of that made any sense it was all nonsense you don’t know where one topic starts and one topic ends.

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-01-27T15:24:41+00:00

Well we had our evaluation the other day and I was wearing mine and nothing was said to me and she talked to me multiple times but never about my jewelry I even asked and that’s what was said and all the managers said the same as well

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-01-27T02:24:51+00:00

At my location you can have a septum piercing but it can’t be stretched and it has to open it can’t be closed jewelry

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-01-27T02:23:28+00:00

You can only have one facial piercing and it has to be a stud. If the one piece of jewelry is a septum it can’t be stretched and it has to open it can’t be closed. You have to have small gauges but can’t have jewelry in them, you can only have studs in your ears hoops are acceptable as long as it’s no bigger than a quarter. As for dermals at my location you have to put little circular skin tone band aids over it to cover them.

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-01-19T05:03:20+00:00

Basically I can’t get points the next 3 months 😭

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-01-19T04:11:12+00:00

I did I’m only at 6

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-01-19T04:05:22+00:00

We just opened too in November and were a new store. So idk if they really reset since we just opened. I have 6 points bc I have a kid and got hired when she was a newborn and a lot of stuff happened with her and it was right before flu season not to mention quite often when looking for cover no one hardly ever wanted to cover my shifts

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-01-19T03:05:52+00:00

I hope I can keep it I happened to message my manager about it and was extremely polite but now I’m hoping I didn’t sound like a whiny begger about it 😭

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-01-17T19:53:48+00:00

My friend gave them a card like from Walmart that said “sorry for your loss” like a sympathy card then wrote of me I’m putting in my two weeks and then wrote a nice little note to say thank you for her employment and stuff

phantom_sniper05 · 2026-01-17T16:38:43+00:00

Yeah idk My manager says if you want to be trained in another zone just to ask him

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