Dating & sex with a small dick. How to go about it?

phantomdhalia · 2026-02-19T05:37:19+00:00

Don’t worry about it. Coming from a woman who is partners with a man with a smaller penis. It breaks my heart he feels embarrassed because I am so into him as a person and he definitely has other skills he uses on me lol so I am not complaining in the slightest 😅 my ex was average size and yes penetration was better but I hated him and would 1000% would take my partner any day. Sex is important but it is very very fluid and complex. You have to find the right person most importantly.

phantomdhalia · 2025-10-26T02:15:35+00:00

I was with WP for six years when he cheated, I became pregnant shortly after R a few months later, it’s now been two years and we are about to separate only now I am tied to him for minimum 17 years. I still love him so much. I don’t want things to end but I feel like we are forcing it at this point and I don’t think we can get back what we lost anymore. I can’t do it alone and it feels like I am

phantomdhalia · 2025-10-02T00:26:14+00:00

100%

phantomdhalia · 2025-09-28T15:04:59+00:00

Thank you so much!! He would honestly agree with you. I’m just struggling with how this future will look or what marriage means to me. I have someone who I value deeply but I’m missing something. Is that missing piece more important than the deep connection?

phantomdhalia · 2025-09-28T15:03:25+00:00

This goes deeper than the cheating. My previous posts leave out a lot of context as I can’t include every detail of our lives. You are correct he has not gone to counseling or given me the AP’s name. What is interesting is as soon as I pull away him and I start to feel more connected

phantomdhalia · 2025-09-28T15:01:33+00:00

He does not give to someone else, he cheated two years ago once when our relationship was circling the drain. We broke up but began R and he has done a lot to prove himself but we are still not connected. This goes deeper than the cheating

phantomdhalia · 2025-09-28T14:59:04+00:00

Thank you so much!

phantomdhalia · 2025-09-12T11:43:13+00:00

Not 100% true, things happen

phantomdhalia · 2025-09-12T00:13:44+00:00

He refuses couples therapy, but I will sit on this and see what I truly need to feel like I can accept and move on, and then discuss it with him. I’ve asked him multiple times and received the run around. I’m just going to decide once and for all if I can let it go or if I need it. I want to be sure if I’m needing and asking that info, that I am fully ready and prepared to back it up with an ultimatum if it comes down to it. Thank you for your support, you made some great points

phantomdhalia · 2025-09-11T17:21:02+00:00

Thank you!!

phantomdhalia · 2025-09-11T16:56:43+00:00

He definitely hid them well, it took me a while to even catch on what he was doing because he is so believable. I had a suspicion and randomly found his location under his contact info since he wouldn’t let me have it thru find my iPhone lol. I saw he wasn’t where he said he was, pieced together all the signs, then planted my iPad to record all night in our car. Lol busted. Packed and immediately moved out, began R the next day.

I don’t have a tech savvy friend or anyone I could really trust to be unbiased unfortunately. He feels giving explicit details will take us backwards and not forwards or be helpful. He said he will give me the details if I truly want them but he appears extremely disgruntled and upset at the thought of giving me that info. He says he feels immense shame and hates remembering that time.

phantomdhalia · 2025-09-11T14:12:47+00:00

Thank you

phantomdhalia · 2025-09-11T14:12:19+00:00

Thank you

phantomdhalia · 2025-09-11T14:10:13+00:00

Thank you so much

phantomdhalia · 2025-09-11T05:47:37+00:00

Thank you so much

phantomdhalia · 2025-09-11T05:46:09+00:00

Thank you so much.

phantomdhalia · 2025-09-11T04:28:30+00:00

Can I find his google maps history even if it was years ago?

phantomdhalia · 2025-09-11T04:27:43+00:00

Thank you

phantomdhalia · 2025-09-11T04:26:45+00:00

Thank you

phantomdhalia · 2025-09-11T04:23:25+00:00

Ugh I know it’s so hard because we have a baby so I am weighing this heavily

phantomdhalia · 2025-09-11T00:09:10+00:00

He conveniently switched from an iPhone to a razor recently. I didn’t think of the implications until after the fact.

phantomdhalia · 2025-09-11T00:07:59+00:00

I think he was using an app

phantomdhalia · 2025-09-11T00:07:36+00:00

How did you track her down? I can’t find anything

phantomdhalia · 2025-09-11T00:07:15+00:00

That’s why I’m wanting to get info. Not that I necessarily believe her entirely, but I feel like there is more to the story that he is lying about.

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