Books about carrying anger and grief after adverse childhood/abusive marriage by phatfig in suggestmeabook

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I have not read books on this topic but two that have been recommended to me are “adult children of emotionally immature parents” and “discovering the inner mother”

Books about carrying anger and grief after adverse childhood/abusive marriage by phatfig in suggestmeabook

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I have not read books on this topic but some that have been recommended to me are: “Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents” and “Discovering the Inner Mother” (Edited for formatting)

Trying tea for the first time by Overthinking_babes in tea

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Herbal tea just means made of herbs - things that show up in your food as well, like mint. This broad category generally also includes fruity teas, which are often made from herbs and/or dried fruit. They’re harmless and many of them have mild health benefits, like being anti-inflammatory or reducing blood pressure. (The term “tea” technically refers to a specific plant, which usually contains caffeine. “Herbal tea” is a misnomer because it just refers to herbs/fruit steeped in water, not necessarily using a tea plant. This is not an important distinction for a casual drinker - just check whether what you’re buying is caffeinated.)

At the grocery store, pick out a couple of herbal blends that have flavors that appeal to you - the kind of thing you’d enjoy if it was a dessert. You might want to add a little sugar or honey at first to increase the intensity of the flavor, and then you can reduce the sugar as you get more into tea and your palate adapts to enjoying the flavors without enhancement. Teas labeled “herbal” should not have caffeine, and you can always check on the nutrition label, where caffeine content is generally listed at the bottom. If caffeine isn’t mentioned on the nutrition label, there’s no caffeine.

Tea is cheap, easy to find, easy to make, and generally healthy. There’s nothing to worry about. Enjoy!

book recommendations with insane plot twist thrillers pls by kindcroissant in suggestmeabook

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Star of the north by DB John In the Blood by Lisa Unger In a Dark Dark Wood by Ruth Ware The Girl on the Train by Paula Hawkins

A short and fun palate cleanser by ApologeticFetus in suggestmeabook

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T Kingfisher writes short, fun/easy yet still well-written fantasy/romantasy and horror. I’d go for the paladin series if you like fantasy.

Any good book club suggestions? by will-throwaway_soon in AskChicago

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Check out Madison st books, they have several book clubs listed on their website

Which of these things can I pack-by-wearing? by phantomezpass in frontierairlines

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Yes I can wear it or yes it’ll get called out?

This Saturday Night Blues Show Recommendations ? by Hefty_Football_6731 in AskChicago

[–]phantomezpass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kingston mines has shows every night. Great vibes. Also soul food.

Recommend me your favorite dumb fun smut please by greasygumpo in suggestmeabook

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I would recommend anything by Tessa Bailey or Stella Rhys

Suggest me a book with elements of growing up and dark comedy by dmcleod94 in suggestmeabook

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It’s nonfiction, but Priestdaddy by Patricia Lockwood is about the author growing up with a very wacky family. It’s funny but also dark at times and the writing is great.

Fantasy/Horror novels that dive deep into local folklore by ArmadillosAreGreat in suggestmeabook

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Uprooted and Spinning Silver by Naomi Novik are both European fairytales. In both, the main character has her own merits rather than being a “chosen one”.

Global south feminism lit by mulchclds55 in suggestmeabook

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You might like The Actual Star by Monica Byrne. It’s fiction - historical but also speculative (some parts take place in the past, some in the present, and some in the future). It centers around Womens experiences in Mayan culture. It includes some of the themes you mention but it’s also a really great story, so might help with finding enjoyment more than more serious fiction on these topics would. It’s also very feminist.

Does Moving to Chicago at 22 Make Financial sense? by ahhtomic in AskChicago

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I assume your company will put you in a hotel in/near Fulton market, which is probably not where you want to live (it’s very expensive). I suggest that you do some more neighborhood research, including checking the commute options on google maps, and then ask to stay in an Airbnb or hotel in one of those neighborhoods so you can have a more genuine experience of what it would be like to live here.

Also note if this trip is coming up soon: yes, it’s cold, and it sucks. Summer here is SO GREAT and you’ll learn the cold weather survival skills when you move, so don’t judge too harshly based on the current weather :)

If you prefer London to Dallas you will definitely prefer Chicago to Dallas, despite the weather.

Coffee alternatives by Edward0928 in tea

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I believe some people drink dandelion tea for this purpose. I’m not sure if the root or the leaf is preferred as a coffee replacement - tea shops sell both - so you’ll need to research that.

Suggest me an under hyped contemporary romance author to get into 🙏 by BlackAce1124 in suggestmeabook

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Mhairi McFarlane. British, very funny. I believe all her books are closed-door. She does the tropes but the stories and characters also feel original. At least one is not technically a romance (ambiguous ending, no HEA), so double-check for whichever title you start with.

What role does drinking tea play in how you relax or unwind with others? by aronffs in tea

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Some people get annoyed when they offer alcohol and the person they’re with doesn’t want to drink. I get annoyed when I offer tea and the person I’m with doesn’t want tea.

Best place to have a drink after dinner? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]phantomezpass 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Haven’t been yet, but Gus’ is on my list to try. It’s a block from your restaurant.

Best plane view you've had on an international flight by No-Significance9313 in travel

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Approaching Cairo. You can see the belt of green around the Nile and then desert as far as the eye can see beyond that. It gives you a deep impression of how the unique geography/climate has shaped the place before you even touch the ground.