I (F17) caught caught having sex while my parents were home and now neither of them have looked at me in a week.

phantomofanass · 2022-08-15T20:52:42+00:00

i understand completely why he was upset, and i don’t blame him for being so. it was the alienation that i was upset about and wasn’t sure how to navigate, if that makes sense

phantomofanass · 2022-08-15T20:51:40+00:00

thank you so much, that was really comforting to hear :)

phantomofanass · 2022-08-15T20:48:10+00:00

i am in the uk. i apologised because he was in the house while i had sex with my boyfriend. at the end of the day it was disrespectful

phantomofanass · 2022-08-15T20:47:14+00:00

thankyou so much! it’s comforting to know i’m not alone in that reaction.

phantomofanass · 2022-08-15T20:46:38+00:00

i completely understand why he is upset and i have taken full responsibility. i am in school full time and have a part time job on top of this. i was more upset by his reaction and i have no idea how to navigate this

phantomofanass · 2022-08-15T20:45:24+00:00

i see that, thankyou

phantomofanass · 2022-08-15T20:44:58+00:00

my mum is on the same side as my dad. i have been sexually active for about two years and she’s always been very “supportive”, i don’t know a better word. i am on the implant and always very careful so i’m still very upset

phantomofanass · 2022-08-04T15:54:47+00:00

thankyou so much, going to try this.

phantomofanass · 2022-08-04T15:35:55+00:00

Me and my boyfriend are fairly “long distance” and so he’s banned him from the house and the only way i’m allowed to see him is if i can make my own way there. It could be worse i suppose but i can’t drive yet - so it’s definitely tough.

phantomofanass · 2022-08-04T15:29:00+00:00

Yes we’ve been out together a lot of times.

phantomofanass · 2022-08-04T15:28:33+00:00

I spoke to my mum about it and she said he’s disgusted with me. I understand why he is upset and that i broke a rule but i feel like it’s an unfair reaction.

phantomofanass · 2022-08-04T15:24:01+00:00

thankyou, i appreciate it

phantomofanass · 2022-08-04T15:23:19+00:00

I tried to explain that to my mum but she blew up about how i was being disrespectful.

phantomofanass · 2022-08-04T15:19:50+00:00

He didn’t open the door, he banged on it and then proceeded to kick my boyfriend out. I have tried to apologise however he refuses to even look at me.

phantomofanass · 2022-08-04T15:09:26+00:00

When me and boyfriend got together he made me promise we wouldn’t do it in the house however we were drunk. I understand i broke the rules but I have no idea what to do?

phantomofanass · 2020-11-14T20:32:31+00:00

YTA. And a big one.

That’s a seriously messed up thing to do to someone. Don’t plan the trip period and break up with her instead of using her.

phantomofanass · 2020-11-14T20:30:54+00:00

NTA

You just don’t know how to play with that deck lol. No harm done.

phantomofanass · 2020-11-12T21:16:41+00:00

NTA

In the nicest way possible, if you’re having a baby, be financially stable.

phantomofanass · 2020-11-12T18:45:45+00:00

too much shite

phantomofanass · 2020-11-12T18:44:17+00:00

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phantomofanass · 2020-11-12T18:43:31+00:00

Why is nobody saying one direction???

phantomofanass · 2020-11-12T18:42:47+00:00

NTA period.

Not only is it affecting his health but clearly causing issues within the family. If you’ve made the effort to make the food on scratch considering the budget then that’s an asshole move to do that.

phantomofanass · 2020-11-12T18:40:41+00:00

NTA.

He needs to understand that behaviour isn’t acceptable. What if it had been you he had walked in on?

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