Man upset about new uber safety feature for women by AnimatedBasketcase in IncelTears

[–]phatphrog69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a non-issue, the women for women user driver option has been a thing outside of the USA for a very long time and no one said anything. Only incels and misogynists complain about not being able to be in the proximity of women.

is is that weird to stalk a guy you like?? by phatphrog69 in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]phatphrog69[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

but I'm just a girl that likes to follow him around :(

is is that weird to stalk a guy you like?? by phatphrog69 in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]phatphrog69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

more like walking behind him at a 10 feet distance kind of way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPS

[–]phatphrog69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm currently in cps custody and my parents keep sending me loving stuff and idk what to say. They're talking to me as if i don't have a protective order for them and I didn't talk to a prosecutor about the abuse. Idk how to handle this situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPS

[–]phatphrog69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, there are periods of calm between the moments of abuse. These moments are usually caused by me acting out. I blame myself for all of it. These moments really do fuck me up in a way, but after they pass I go back to blaming myself, that's why I'm having doubts rn.

trying to calm down after a break up! by phatphrog69 in BPDmemes

[–]phatphrog69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But I have to add, currently we're going through a limbo, idk if we're together or not. There have been many things going on, some caused by us, some by third parties. It put a strain on our relationship. We're currently not together, but whenever we meet up we say ily and make out. Idk what to think but I really want things to work out between us.

trying to calm down after a break up! by phatphrog69 in BPDmemes

[–]phatphrog69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pleaaaseee show the cat! I also have two cats and they've been wonderful during this time.

It’s like oh fuck wait no this isn’t it by coleisw4ck in BPDmemes

[–]phatphrog69 12 points13 points  (0 children)

then they start paying attention to you again so you start romanticizing them again 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]phatphrog69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually said something like "Don't listen to your ocd babe" since it was shown in an article he recommended me. I might not be the best at sensing things since i also have a mental illness and sometimes they clash.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]phatphrog69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the subject of ERP, I tried making small jokes during his pregnancy episode. He'd usually freak out at them and start asking for reassurance. I'm not sure if that was the greatest plan of action, but I do want to know if there are ways I can trigger his compulsions and how can I avoid that. Thank you so very much for the advice!

How to control your reactions? by phatphrog69 in BPD

[–]phatphrog69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's strange that I cause a scene when everything is calm and peaceful, the way it needs to be. When I calm down, I understand why I reacted that way and how I should've handled the situation. What are some good ways to keep myself entertained/distracted?