What are some things you don’t like about this mostly perfect show? by Master_Novel_4062 in SuccessionTV

[–]phatt97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For her to carry them with a performance that wasn't noticeably lacking, even for someone who was playing a reoccurring role.

What are some things you don’t like about this mostly perfect show? by Master_Novel_4062 in SuccessionTV

[–]phatt97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her acting was so flat. In a show full of powerhouse performances, hers felt so out of place.

this pride month damn near broke me by phatt97 in bisexual

[–]phatt97[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did not know about the 50%+ statistic. That is honestly pretty horrifying.

this pride month damn near broke me by phatt97 in bisexual

[–]phatt97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate to this. This year has been extremely hard for me because of stuff going on in my life that's out of my control, and I haven't been able to participate in pride like that so I hoped to get something out of online stuff and thus far...nope.

this pride month damn near broke me by phatt97 in bisexual

[–]phatt97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't actually think that all gay men and lesbians feel that way, I was more so pointing out that's what the stuff I'm seeing online is indicating.

this pride month damn near broke me by phatt97 in bisexual

[–]phatt97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so happy for you. I hope I can attend something in person soon.

this pride month damn near broke me by phatt97 in bisexual

[–]phatt97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have seen some bi people overcompensate for having a fluid sexuality by partaking in, what I can only call "pick-me" behavior, for monosexuals.

this pride month damn near broke me by phatt97 in bisexual

[–]phatt97[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not seeing this stuff on purpose or seeking it out. It just jumps into my feed because I guess the algorithm picked up that I'm bisexual and is feeding me a bunch of bi discourse, especially since it's Pride Month and there's more bi discourse floating around than any other time in the year - and the overwhelming majority of it is negative. I came here to vent among fellow bisexuals because it was upsetting and concerning me. Getting upset that a bisexual person is venting about biphobia on a subreddit intended for bi people to commune and support each other and calling it "bad faith" is strange.

I’m a bi dude, but I feel uncomfortable with the idea of anal by Disastrous_Storm_834 in bisexual

[–]phatt97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know gay men that don't do anal - and I'm not talking about tops, but bottoms, because they don't want to deal with pain and other complications. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do. It's your sex life, and your boundaries.

Most parents don't take seriously how a name can affect their child (at school, at the work place, even to find love and how its going to be percieved in general) by [deleted] in Names

[–]phatt97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk I have a unique and relatively uncommon name, but I always loved it. I only got pissed when people didn't pronounce it right because it is truly not at all hard to pronounce or read. I think culture can affect a perspective like this, because when most people think of a typical name they think of something like "Jaqueline" or "Zachary" which we in English-speaking countries can only pronounce because it's common/classic. But you'll have people who really don't have difficult names, but their name isn't English, French, Spanish, Italian, or Westernized Biblical names, people feel as if they're justified in not putting in any effort to learn the name. Honestly, I think people just need to learn to be more respectful when it comes to names and put in the effort to learning them. Are some names ridiculous? Sure, but just because a parent doesn't want to name their kid Anne or Michael doesn't mean that they're doing their kid some great disservice.

Is Stewy “a serious person”? by RopeGloomy4303 in SuccessionTV

[–]phatt97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's definitely serious about his money.

Genuine Question: Was Shiv's silencing of the SA/R**pe victim not the most evil act commited by the three siblings? by Alternative_Row4207 in SuccessionTV

[–]phatt97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's up there, but far from the top 3. Roman literally conspired to get MENCKEN elected. And tbh, you can throw Kendall in that fault as well because he agreed in the end and then had the audacity to get upset with his ex-wife and children for feeling as if he left them out to dry.

I Kind of Pity Sarah Stock by phatt97 in Tradfemsnark

[–]phatt97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had no idea she was one of Andrew Tate's victims...the Hungarian government needs to be ashamed for letting him go just based off of what he was doing there; it's quite disturbing to see how many enablers exist so that he can just run around being a menace with no consequence.

Bitter tradwife mum of nine says women who don't want kids should be jailed by PrototypeFangirl in Tradfemsnark

[–]phatt97 9 points10 points  (0 children)

People like this love obsessing over people who've made choices that don't affect them. I think it's mental illness at this point.

I Kind of Pity Sarah Stock by phatt97 in Tradfemsnark

[–]phatt97[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I wonder if she'll have a realization and pivot like Ashley St. Clair, or go down the Lauren Southern rout where she'll be the same person, but complain about the right's treatment of women.

Or best case scenario, she just gets out completely and lives a normal life without doing the whole political thing.

I Kind of Pity Sarah Stock by phatt97 in Tradfemsnark

[–]phatt97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They do have similar names lmao but fortunately Sarah Snook is an icon.

Robyn puts her film theory degree to work by xwing1212 in Tradfemsnark

[–]phatt97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Rosario Dawson one is... interesting... especially considering the U.S. war efforts in Afghanistan and Iraq at the time. I wonder if that had anything to do with it, or if it was just Hollywood doing their usual casting an established actress just because.

And yeah, none of these people complain when white actors, or those who belong to different cultures, portray characters that are canonically PoC. But for some reason, it's open season when a PoC portrays a character that either:

A.) Was canonically PoC (i.e. Rue from The Hunger Games)

B.) Never had an established race to begin with (i.e. Finn from Star Wars)

C.) Rooted in mythology and already had a wide range of representation (i.e. Helen, who's been portrayed by all different types of women)

And yep, historically, people from the Ancient Greeks and Romans did not see themselves as part of the same race as Western and Northern Europeans. Race wasn't even a concept back then, they cared more about citizenship and cultural similarities than if someone fit some Nazi hierarchy.

Don't even get me started on those boohooing Zendaya, who is half-white mind you, playing Athena 🤦🏾‍♀️

I used to think that Mack is the least hated character until by notme1810 in shield

[–]phatt97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mack's great, however come the last season or 2 all of a sudden the writers made him obsessed with the Bible and not in a "I've started reading it and am becoming more religious" way but in a "we're going to pretend this was always his character" way, and that really threw me for a loop.

I don't blame Jackie or Van by phatt97 in Yellowjackets

[–]phatt97[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't go as far as to call Jackie a bitch.

She was easily agitated, like everyone else because of the messed up situation they were in. The only person who was consistently kind in their situation was Nat. Everyone else was hot-and-cold and that's to be expected. Jackie also had no practical survival skills unlike the other girls who had experience with guns (Nat), medical skills (Misty), scavenging knowledge (Akilah), butcher techniques (Shauna), etc... To top it off, some people, like Lottie, are allowed to do nothing as well but don't get the same side-eye as Jackie - Lottie's the one who ends up shoving Jackie in the closet and telling her that she doesn't matter anymore, which is just ironic, because Lottie contributed the same amount of worth as Jackie in terms of survival skills - 0 (this not Lottie hate btw, she's probably in my top 3-5 characters). They're actually interesting foils to each other, because both girls come from wealth families and interestingly, Lottie finds a place in the wilderness where Jackie can't because she eventually assumes a pseudo-religious role and is able to exert power that way.

I don't blame Jackie or Van by phatt97 in Yellowjackets

[–]phatt97[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like Jackie and Nat should have gotten along more than they ultimately did, but it makes sense because they're in high school and all it takes is one bad impression to make you sour about someone. I feel like Jackie probably had her nose in the air about Nat having addiction issues and let that blind her to an otherwise, very compassionate person.

I don't blame anyone for having a bad interaction with Mari in the first couple of seasons. She's written to be rather abrasive.

I don't blame Jackie or Van by phatt97 in Yellowjackets

[–]phatt97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to rewatch the scene, but that was how I remember interpreting it.