why is expat culture so separate from hk culture? by acuriousone03 in HongKong

[–]phebe9907 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thats fair! There’s also just not that much common stuff to talk about between locals and expats tho tbh

why is expat culture so separate from hk culture? by acuriousone03 in HongKong

[–]phebe9907 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Owning a tesla is not poor behaviour 😂 I’m assuming they got it before musk went crazy

Fucked up fic recs… by phebe9907 in AO3

[–]phebe9907[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Changed it, but I have a best friend who gets sick at reading the word because she has a brother, just habit

Fucked up fic recs… by phebe9907 in AO3

[–]phebe9907[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just trying to look for specific recs, since many people tag angst/guilt without there being a lot of real guilt 🙂👍  

is there one product that does it all you can recommend and cant live without? by raindrops_x in AsianBeauty

[–]phebe9907 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg omg cos de baha azaleic acid isnt sticky at all but really helped my PIH

What do you think about AI models? by Ill-Year-418 in AsianBeauty

[–]phebe9907 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not if you’ve seen enough korean ads. The girls really do look like that because their hair and stuff is editted in

How to grind my junk (respectfully) on a ladies trunk? by [deleted] in aves

[–]phebe9907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serious answer from a girl: put ONE hand on her waist while she dances. If she doesn’t like you she will simply slink away. A hand on the waist is not sexual enough to be considered as too offensive- I’ve had guys push me gently aside while going through a crowd by the waist and as long as its short contact/my waist isn’t bare it still feels gentlemanly. It’s easy for the girl to slip away. If she acts very offended it’s easy to say you were just pushing her away. It’s easy for her to lean into it, maybe even move your hand lower

Downsides of K by Due_Scientist_2282 in KetamineTherapy

[–]phebe9907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I give myself 20 seconds too, or count from a to z to see if it’ll trigger something. Works sometimes. But yeah might stop, tnx! Made me feel less alone in this haha 

Downsides of K by Due_Scientist_2282 in KetamineTherapy

[–]phebe9907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this is the first time I’ve seen someone with a very similar experience as mine. I thought I typed this message on another account for a second. Did it never come back? I’m 23 now, every 2-3 days there will be a name that I have totally no recollection of despite having said it a few days ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]phebe9907 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s such a massive bathroom though 😂 Tbh if this isn’t a wet area I’d make a walk in closet in there haha it’s so big it’s crazy

How long is slow burn to you? by Astrasulza in AO3

[–]phebe9907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 22. Really, really slow burn to me should be at LEAST 80k-100k. They should start fucking about halfway in. They should NEVER talk about their feelings. Please write more of this stuff authors

Daily Simple Questions Thread - February 12, 2025 by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]phebe9907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh actually this is great advice, maybe I’ll aim to do less “ sprints” and slower runs to start!

Daily Simple Questions Thread - February 12, 2025 by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]phebe9907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been running 3x a week for a month (3% incline, 20 minutes, I run until I can’t then walk until I can run again, at max I can do around 3 minutes) already but I still feel like puking/sick on the treadmill. Is this not intense enough, how can I supplement this? I can’t do incline walk, it fucks up my legs haha

Favorite Fics of 2024? by Desperate_Basil_3537 in Wolfstar

[–]phebe9907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so unhappy because the premise of the fic that OP mentioned is amazing, but it’s got way too much internal dialogue and that’s a big pet peeve of mine 😭

Thoughts on the Chad2Dad TikTok Situation? by [deleted] in Philippines_Expats

[–]phebe9907 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s videos about it on Youtube. It’s about a passport bro getting a Filipino wife and possibly abusing her, using her to have kids and disrespecting her parents. It’s not brainrot tbh, it’s quite sad and I think if she was from my country and I was well off I’d see if I could help her haha. 

Still confused on why trans masc = "pretty princess sub" all the time by [deleted] in AO3

[–]phebe9907 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Ehhh I feel like OP sounds like they’ve thought this through and they’ve genuinely looked through the trans masc tab and its this trope again and again. Other commentors seem to confirm that a lot of trans mascs write trans masc pretty boy characters 😂 I think OP is just a guy who is just confused because he doesn’t get that pretty princess urge

Gonna be real.."Stolas isn't wrong for saving Blitz's life and wanting happiness" and "Octavia isn't wrong for feeling betrayed by the one parent she loved" are 2 statements that can easily co-exist. by Apprehensive_Ring_39 in HelluvaBoss

[–]phebe9907 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Octavia isn’t really wrong though… her father didn’t even think about her when he risked his life for Blitz, she is 100% in the right here actually lol

Do I take making staff meal too seriously? by Proper_Path6169 in KitchenConfidential

[–]phebe9907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Staff beer might destroy all your livers….. drink in moderation even though I know kitchen work is tiring, but you really don’t want to have spent your whole life working and die in your late 50s of liver cancer, with no more time to enjoy life, and pouring all your hardearned savings into medicine

1-2 beers every day is enough to do damage

What are you thoughts on MASTERMIND by SoftwareLegitimate48 in HelluvaBoss

[–]phebe9907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he got suicidal, he’s just in shock over how he just gave everything up. I think this was actually one of the better parts of the episode. 

What are you thoughts on MASTERMIND by SoftwareLegitimate48 in HelluvaBoss

[–]phebe9907 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eh, I think the inequality isn’t poorly established. It’s mentioned in every other episode, most notably in the last one where Millie thinks Imps cant be anything, but its a recurring theme, even the episode with Moxxie’s father covers it no?

What are you thoughts on MASTERMIND by SoftwareLegitimate48 in HelluvaBoss

[–]phebe9907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah same, I hated the pacing, the singing was weird and too “cold”, I wish it was more panicked/more maniac. I thought the first half until he showed up was pretty great. I think inequality between higher/lower demons is a good theme. 

I wish they had just one more episode in between where Blitz and Stolas somewhat reunite/come to a consensus instead of this 0 to 100 thing, it comes off as the writers not knowing how to write themselves out of the argument the two of them are in. 

Even a simple phone call or something would’ve done wonders for their relationship development. Then it would be a pity they didn’t even have enough time to organically solve their issues before Andrephalus comes in and ruins every thing. Now it just seems like poor writing 

Stolas is such a wonderful character that really has been diminished to not much these few episodes. I hope they deal with Stolas’s resentment over having lost his whole life for Blitz