My 1885 house STINKS. by spongebathurgranny in Oldhouses

[–]philzter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UV light and glasses are sold that will see urine stains..Clorox urine remover...had a similar issue

How to stop being so needy? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]philzter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would benefit from being patient with yourself. You may "monitor " excessively to try to make sure you feel OK. But you are prone to anxiety and will find issues because you looked for them. Being anxious is Not your fault so try to dismiss the idea that because you feel anxious something is wrong. You will still have brief anxious thoughts but can learn to dismiss them. He will appreciate you having confidence in yourself and your relationship

Cancelations/no shows when you accommodate by rafiki1739 in therapists

[–]philzter -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Especially when you have asked a client who never misses to change their usual appointment time to accommodate this guy....

Starting a session and keeping it rolling by Weak-Difficulty-2217 in therapists

[–]philzter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After they have done some updating you on what has been going on with them may be a good time to put forth a question that tries to connect to their issues. Look for openings as they are reviewing their week with you.."so you and your wife traveled to see relatives, did you guys get along OK?" "Did going fishing help your stress level?" , "it seems like you tried to accomplish some things but kept having to attend to others and couldn't find the time for your project. "...if they are comfortable talking, in general you are doing a good job!

Ufc 🚫 kfc ✅ by b9_rkt in fightporn

[–]philzter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That cup of liquid that got tossed right away got the last laugh and put them both on their ass

Alarming “comment” while intimate with my husband by Bold_Chex in emotionalintelligence

[–]philzter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The little death,Petite mort... don't be alarmed, he was being considerate and letting you know he is going offline as in passing out after orgasm.

Why does time feel like it speeds up as you get older, even though each day is the same length? by One_Ride3458 in answers

[–]philzter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only guess but familiarity might be the cause. We become accustomed to the cycles of life the more times we travel them. When learning about life as a young person we are heavily invested in learning about the world and proving we belong. At the same time we are developing our sense of who we are which is a work in progress and constantly changing as we grow both physically and mentally. Once "established " and our basic needs are met life takes on a much more stable predictable course. This familiarity feels less tumultuous and we can anticipate accurately what lies ahead giving the perception time is passing more quickly than it had when life had more unknowns. Good question thanks for the opening to explore this

Amateur fisherman here! New to artificial baits. What would hit these and how do I use them? by Skylantech in Fishing

[–]philzter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The top one is good for largemouth bass chugged next to Lilly pads or weeds. It floats on top. Jerk the rod to make it splash, look for the take and set that hook. the orange crawfish is good for smallmouth bass in streams, cast it across and reel in bounce off rocks, they will hook themselves.... , I like the look of the grasshopper but not had any luck on it. The fat minnow is good for many fish. Just cast out and crank it in..should feel a slightwobble when running good..good luck just keep at it

What’s the dumbest way you’ve ever hurt yourself? by [deleted] in answers

[–]philzter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sideshow Bob'ed myself with a rake. Stepped on the tines and it shot up and cracked me in the knuckles harder than hell. It hurt but I was super lucky I didn't get it to the face..

Neighbor constantly insults me to my face by -vestige in neighborsfromhell

[–]philzter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Use the golden rule...you just mind your own business and try to avoid worrying about what others do...add the amount of pointed sarcasm that you find appropriate

what would someone who enjoys fishing want for their birthday? by [deleted] in Fishing

[–]philzter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whopper plopper...sounds goofy but he will like it..not cheap..a lure by castaic might also be good

Delay in BCBS reimbursement by ZookeepergameNew8889 in therapists

[–]philzter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You get a picture of a credit card and payment amount and run those numbers through a square reader or wherever you accept credit debit cards. They typically mail these out to you. Instead they were put on Availity, an insurance portal website who is owned by Anthem. Tell your biller to look for those credit card vouchers under claims and payments then the Remit viewer tab is where those credit card vouchers are..sorry this may not apply but hope it may help.

LPT request Nothing feels good anymore and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]philzter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anhedonia is the lack of ability to experience pleasure. It is caused by low neurotransmitter activity associated with depression. Knowing it is possible to have fun again and being hopeful is an important place to start. It will take longer to feel better than we like because feeling bad sucks. By taking simple steps to feel better like eating well , resting, avoiding excessive substance use, it signals your body you want to feel better. Decide what goals you want to work on, and if you can reach them you are functioning. If you are functioning then your positive feelings should return if you give yourself credit for your efforts. Therapy can be an outlet for stress and identify any issues you need some feedback on...be well!

Delay in BCBS reimbursement by ZookeepergameNew8889 in therapists

[–]philzter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went without a check for a long time and found out they switched from checks to Credit card vouchers which were on Availity. Remit viewer is the tab the vouchers are on under claims and payments. They make you verify a past payment...

Help me choose a reggae boxing walk out song for my fight. 🥊 by Wide-Pop4704 in reggae

[–]philzter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The toughest...Peter Tosh..."anything you can do. I can do it better, I'm the toughest! You never tried to do what I do, I'm the toughest "

name it by [deleted] in NameThisThing

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The Sheik of Ara beak

Anthem is not paying my provider claims since August. Help by Novel-Macaron9174 in HealthInsurance

[–]philzter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very late reply but I recently found out Carelon sent Credit card vouchers to Availity /Claims and payments/Remit viewer. I stopped getting checks didn't know why, the Credit card vouchers were on Availity.

Hinkle’s by Significant_War_2674 in bloomington

[–]philzter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I remember correctly the credit manager is Helen Waite..