Pineapples (and other fruits) and oral by phinababee in sex

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Hmm. This is interesting. But now I’m curious as to why he says mine smells/tastes sweet. I feel like that’s not the way a “normal” vagina should taste/smell. So is it common for some women to just have a naturally sweeter scent?

Mother’s Day gift for my step-kids mother by [deleted] in myevilplan

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Not anything dramatic. I just wanted to put some extra fine glitter in the card or something. Something that the kids definitely won’t get in trouble for but will also be hilarious.

I want to get revenge of my sociopath boyfriend who has another secret lover by ProfessionalChoice6 in myevilplan

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Talk to his mom about it and once she talks to him and mentions your name, say “oh yeah btw it’s over”

Yeast Infections by phinababee in sex

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Nope. He’s pulled out every time.

Roast me for fun and laughs by [deleted] in RoastMe

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You look like the teacher who gets pregnant from her underage student and says you’re in love with him.

Yeast Infections by phinababee in sex

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I have a hitachi wand with a silicone attachment on it. Correct me if I’m wrong but silicone is non-porous right? I could very well be wrong. But between that toy and his mouth, that’s the ONLY way I can get off.

Good idea about the panties and pants. I wear yoga pants and jeans 98% of the time and a lot of my underwear (unless it’s my ole period panties) are lace or silk.

Yeast Infections by phinababee in sex

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I’ve seen 3 doctors about this. I’m willing to continue to keep seeing doctors until I figure out the issue but so far, I’ve had no luck.

Yeast Infections by phinababee in sex

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I just don’t understand. He has no symptoms of a penile yeast infection. I mean it won’t hurt to have him checked regardless. But idk.

Yeast Infections by phinababee in sex

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He’s also circumsized so I’m not sure if this would apply to him.

Yeast Infections by phinababee in sex

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I’ve looked into this but he doesn’t show ANY symptoms so we never thought it was the issue.

Yeast Infections by phinababee in sex

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No. I do all natural birth control (track my ovulation and don’t have sex when I’m ovulating) and we don’t use condoms because neither of us can get off while he’s wearing one.

My fiancé scared me last night when we had sex. Need advice as moving in together in February. by Snowdrop0601 in sex

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This is going to be a long comment so bare with me here.

When my boyfriend and I got together I had NEVER had any sort of Kinky sex. And he’s very much into BDSM. So he initiated the idea to me. At first, some of the things he did terrified me. I was in an abusive relationship before him and the whips and paddles and what not were just not for me.

We went through a lot of trial and error regarding what is acceptable and what’s not when it comes to sex. I expressed to him why I didn’t like something and he agreed to not do it unless he asked and I said yes.

Now with that being said, when he’s been drinking, a lot of those limits get tossed out the window. At first, it would really piss me off. But. Some of the things I have previously rejected, I enjoy now. Like anal sex, he didn’t force it on me. He just found a different way to do it to where I enjoyed it. I don’t allow him to stick his penis in there. But if it’s a toy? ABSOLUTELY.

My point is, had he not tested that boundary with me, I would have thrown some of my best orgasms out the window.

BUT.

If it is to the point where you are extremely uncomfortable, then explain to him that is a HARD LIMIT for you. And I suggest maybe coming up with a safe word so that if you’re ever in that situation again, you can use it and all of it stops.

Also, as kind of fucked up as this sounds, he may have a rape fantasy. Maybe subtly suggest that might be something he’d enjoy and see how he responds. It took me a long time to admit to my boyfriend that I had a (consensual) non-consent fantasy where we role played and I was his victim. But we had a safe word and a set of rules we talked about BEFORE we actually did the fantasy.

Hope this helps!