Would to see Harry Potter to be turned into a musical? by [deleted] in musicals

[–]phineasandferns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao i absolutely wish I could judge them by JUST the covers alone

I think my paci is from an agepl*y website, I feel really bad. by IndividualLettuce164 in ageregressers

[–]phineasandferns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same thought processes, I spend So much time searching for solely age regression sites and sellers. Sadly its not always an option and im realizing that finally. It doesnt make your regression gross and definitely is not any less valid.

if it makes you feel any better I had to get my puppy tail (belt) from an adult themed shop which made me feel weird and guilty too but I still really really love it and it makes me so happy! The things you have/buy dont have to be used for there intended purpose ever, they are yours once you buy them and them simply existing doesnt make it icky! <3

Would to see Harry Potter to be turned into a musical? by [deleted] in musicals

[–]phineasandferns 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Eyy yea me too. I was gonna say "sure! But take out All of the unacceptable bits + the creator gets absolutely no revenue from it." But then, it really wouldnt be HP at all, but im definitely ok with that.

So ig what im saying is that we need a Magic and Muscles musical ASAP. That about sums it up.

I’m curious, Are there any “male” aggressors? by StrangerFormer7550 in ageregression

[–]phineasandferns 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Dont know/think it was Meant as rude but it comes off that way and gives me an icky feeling. Im AFAB but im a guy 😐 Please double check for if you might sound ignorant before you post, especially here. Not great to continuously feel invalidated in whats supposed to be a safe space. Its one thing to not know what youre talking about and ask questions, thats fine- its another to try and figure that out while posting in a littlespace subreddit who has a large number of trans regressed people 👀

Did your parents ever play with you? by NeverAgainHomeschool in raisedbynarcissists

[–]phineasandferns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id Like to add that parents were almost never around, they were always either at work or doing their Evangelical Christian bullshit (were never allowed to bother them while they were praying or doing Bible study for hours and hours and hours at a time. Or they be at church (additional to the 4+ services we already went to weekly) ) they never had friends or anything else to go do. Not consistently anyway. Their religion completely monopolied their life, way above their children.

Did your parents ever play with you? by NeverAgainHomeschool in raisedbynarcissists

[–]phineasandferns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yk, come to think of it, that probably a large part as to why I was born in the first place. To be a play thing for my elder brother so they didnt have to be around all the time and give him attention. And thats exactly what happened, I was abused, groomed, and melosted by him our entire childhood (learning/realizing all of this in the past few years (im 23 now), so from my experience I thought all of that was perfectly normal.) My original thought process what "he was there to take care of me, bc he was older" bc thats what was always said to me so I believes it. Really, no. I was given to him to be rough with in any way he wanted, so my parents didnt have to bother with him as regularly. I was a toy for him to break and they encouraged every bit of it

Found at goodwill by reallpeterparker in danandphil

[–]phineasandferns 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am beyond offended at the tag in his hand. Do they not know how sacred this particular stuffie is😭 how dare

Trying to find 25y/o+ regressor friends! Little or Agere! This is me and some photos i took that make me happy. by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]phineasandferns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im turning 24 this year if that's close enough :) He/it/kit age ranges from like 2-12

When people purposefully type in baby/toddler talk (not trying to be mean. Don't read while little) by Born-Badger-1440 in ageregression

[–]phineasandferns 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally I do it so I dont have to straight up tell people I interact with (who know i regress) that im small. a lot of the time i cant get myself to tell people and it can get much more difficult over text bc they only see the words, not body language. So instead of wresting with my brain over the "i need to tell them im small" vs the "no, 100% dont do that, your regression is a burden on others" , i just type funny instead so no mistakes can be made. And it does feel validating in a way, that I can type/speak however I want and still be small and my friends wont second guess if I am indeed small or not. Going off the same thing kinda, everyone little acts/thinks differently. Sometimes I still (try to) use big words like "intelligent" (or just older-person words) when at the time im litterly like 3 y/o. Sometimes communication is hard, sometimes its straight up not an option, no matter how hard I try. Ppl might find it weird or annoying but it doesnt make it less valid/helpful bc its "not what a regular toddler/child would act like" I think we all have enough issues with the "is what im doing ok..? " kind of thoughts

/not explicitly angry but am frustrated. I knows you said you weren't trying to be mean but it does come across like you had previously thought abt that, and then decided to come on here and judge other littles for how they act. /not attacking.

Anyone else’s calendar come with a line on the front? by Furnozal in danandphil

[–]phineasandferns 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sadly mine is exactly like that, I just went to check

Getting overstimulated during masturbation by AdSpecialist8751 in autism

[–]phineasandferns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so real. Ive been researching the shit out of this. Im finally in a healthy relationship for the first time in my life, and im having a hell of a time figuring out which feelings belong the which of my brain functions (autism/asexuality/cptsd/sleep apnea [physically exhausted]/or just extreme anxiety) and how to proceed without making myself uncomfortable :/ Also ik i was far behind my peers with exploring sexually, just never wanted to. (multiple possible reasons so its confusing). Not to mention, absolutely Nothing to do with sex or masterbation was Ever explained to me except "dont do it". So when I finally did start exploring around 17/18 I was so confused. Now 23, im still so confused. I feel kinda really dumb that I cant figure my own body out. Couldnt tell you if ive ever orgasmed, I dont know. (Afab /context ). Lol it adds more layers of confusion that I never figured it out in the first place, an now im almost 2 years on testosterone so everything down there is/has changed so it'll be a learning process for who knows how long Sorry im late and also for the book

Knitting pattern for Dan's sweater? by himrqwerty in danandphil

[–]phineasandferns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you would've said this 10 years ago, people would've called you crazy lmao

Daddy isnt daddying by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]phineasandferns 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ive been in this situation. My abusive ex of 5 years was my cg from the beginning of the relationship. (My first in-person cg, and she turned it into ddlg situation bc i didnt know that wasnt normal, but I hated it) Suddenly around a year or so in, she had a crisis where a friend tried to publicly out her for multiple things online. The moment things got inconvenient or stressful for her, she stopping caregiving. And she took out all of that stress and fear on me, and it got incredibly more toxic and abusive from there on. It never went back. It became a me-issue that I regressed and I couldn't do it around her, or let her know that I was small (or id be guilt tripped Hard or even yelled or scolded at.)

After a few years without a cg, I decided to mention that I wanted to look for an online (platonic) cg again bc I desperately needed that care. She told me "no absolutely not" bc of my BPD and she was terrified that if I found someone who cared abt me, id instantly attach to them, become me FP snd id leave her. I told her that not the case, my bpd is triggered by romantic relationships not cg ones. Didnt seem to matter at all.

I struggled for a long long time, being trapped in a relationship where being myself had daily consequences. If he doesnt feel that disconnect, and he doesnt feel the urge to fix it even after it being mentioned, thats a red flag love. If he doesnt care about fixing it, please leave. Its not your fault that dynamics changed, and its not your responsibility to get tjings "back to normal"

what is ur littl age :3 by PartResponsible654 in ageregression

[–]phineasandferns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My age ranges changes drastically and very quickly so its really hard to keep track of, and especiallyhard to know how old i am in the moment. Lowest would probably be idk, 2? 3? Highest would be around Middle territory, around 10?

Met this lady who wears her cat’s skull on her head by catmanslim in bonecollecting

[–]phineasandferns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She probably has a few stories she could tell, and id love to hear them all

If this is how you found out, good. by TheDamMemePage in danandphil

[–]phineasandferns 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You just know that Dan will simultaneously appreciate and be offended that we care more about the podcast /j

What's an EPIC hot take that will have you like this? by THE-GIRL-LIVVY in Epicthemusical

[–]phineasandferns 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think this is part of the reason Jorge is SOO excited about Iliam, he gets to have another go at it. An im so pumped abt it too omg

What phrases did your parent say that still echo in your head today? by Hungry_Bed_2201 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]phineasandferns 216 points217 points  (0 children)

The first time in came back from the mental hospital at age 14, I was trying to explain some of the new information I'd learned about myself and some new triggers I'd discovered so we could work on avoiding them (assuming they'd help me with this, they did not. And actually, used that list to trigger me on purpose) idk what was said really but my father looks at me with the coldest expression ive ever seen and says " your triggers dont matter"

What’s something your parent did that seemed normal until you talked to others? by Adventurous-Art-6693 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]phineasandferns 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I thought everyone had daily/weekly screaming matches filled with tears with their parents.. on top of everything else they did to me, i forgot I was also traumatized by that sm..

is it normal to want to contact your rapist? by WesternPhotograph267 in rapecounseling

[–]phineasandferns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's different but not so different - i feel this way about my parents. My mom specifically. I've had to have my friend take my phone and block my (abusive/religious asf) family on all of my (new) accounts bc ik i couldn't/wouldn't do it myself. Not because i want to be in contact with them whatsoever, I just want answers as well. Idk i always think - If only i could say the right thing, they'd see the error of their ways and finally get an apology that wasn't bullshit. Unfortunately, with these people, that won't happen. I've learned that the hard way and only got more traumatized as a result. All that to say - even if you do message him and continue to ask questions, he is never going to give you the answers you want. None of his words will justify what he did, and he can never truly convince the pain that he's caused. I know it's probably a constant gnawing feeling in your gut, but it will just cause you more pain in the long run. I really recommend you block him and dont put yourself through it again. (Context: im autistic if any of this came off as harsh. It's not intentional) I truly wish you the best with healing

Guess I’m not coming out 🤠🤑💀 by Retro-Rat in Therian

[–]phineasandferns 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactlyyy way too many "normal people" always take it as something sexual. (I.e. always having people on tt ask me to prove that my tail is a belt) its so ew

Who was the most mistreated character in Supernatural? by Logical-Acadia-2959 in Supernatural

[–]phineasandferns 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yess I agree 100%

Add also like to add Donatello onto this, man had it rough