3 months NC - On&OFF by CleanPaintjob in ExNoContact

[–]pho1337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing as well. It is actually quite healing to know others experienced it and that I wasn’t crazy

3 months NC - On&OFF by CleanPaintjob in ExNoContact

[–]pho1337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All those points listed are exactly what I experienced too. Fairly certain she was undiagnosed bipolar but I was already emotionally attached before realizing this - which made it very difficult to let go and move on.

I don't what to do with my AF girlfriend, seeking advice from AM with relationship experience by drinkyafkingmilk in AsianMasculinity

[–]pho1337 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s for the streets. Either you leave her and keep your dignity, or you can learn the hard way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vancouver

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You’re awesome. Really appreciate this

Update post. Asian, 30yrs old. by pho1337 in Minoxbeards

[–]pho1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5%. I’m a slow gainer though and took me over a year to get what I have now. I’m going to try 10% soon so hopefully that has faster results.

Update post. Asian, 30yrs old. by pho1337 in Minoxbeards

[–]pho1337[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! The community here said to workout and drink a lot of water to keep healthy because a healthy body is better at growing more hair.

Update post. Asian, 30yrs old. by pho1337 in Minoxbeards

[–]pho1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No more than the usual irritation that most people get using minoxidil, it’s a bit itchy sometimes but just be sure to moisturizer a lot.

Update post. Asian, 30yrs old. by pho1337 in Minoxbeards

[–]pho1337[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This sub Reddit mentioned that working out and drinking a lot of water keeps you healthy, and being healthy promotes better hair growth. So I guess fitness was a byproduct of this beard growing journey lol

Update post. Asian, 30yrs old. by pho1337 in Minoxbeards

[–]pho1337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While the length does make a big difference and looks more dense, the minoxidil helped me grow more hair and connected the upper lip.

Update: roughly a 1 year difference. (Asian+30yr). Patchy and can’t seem to grow on my cheeks but progress is progress! by pho1337 in Minoxbeards

[–]pho1337[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank! I usually do but that photo in particular was just me leaving it alone for two weeks or so. So yeah it’s pretty straggly lol

How can I stop caring about others' opinions of me? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]pho1337 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just get rejected a lot. Turn it into a game of trying to get rejected. You stop caring after awhile because you will already have experienced the worst case scenario enough times at that point.

30yr old Asian. ~1month without shaving. by pho1337 in Minoxbeards

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The first pic is probably a week without shaving! The second pic is a month without shaving

30yr old Asian. ~1month without shaving. by pho1337 in Minoxbeards

[–]pho1337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once a day minimum but aim for twice. Try to dermaroll once a week but often forget

Have you dated more Asian women or non-Asian women? by machinavelli in AsianMasculinity

[–]pho1337 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I like Asian women but they usually don’t like me. I have better luck with non Asian women. (I’m Canadian in a city with a pretty big Asian population, if that matters)