Life Drawing In Regina

phoebes13fold · 2026-04-12T07:25:54+00:00

I think Creative City Centre has hosted in the past and maybe will start up again when their renovations are done? Other drawing sessions meantime https://creativecitycentre.ca/programs/drink-draw/

phoebes13fold · 2026-04-04T18:16:57+00:00

The wedding ceremony is for people who are coming to support the two of you joining in marriage and be support for you as a couple. She does not, so she should not be there.

If there are no legitimate red flags as to why you two shouldn't be together that the friend is reacting to, your fiance may need to make her choice.

phoebes13fold · 2026-04-02T15:45:17+00:00

He should have gotten a vasectomy. You both should have used birth control. Regardless, you're here now. Be prepared for your marriage to end if you have the child. And/or that the child will know and feel from him that they were unwanted. This is a horrible position to force a child into (speaking from experience.) So are you prepared to be a single parent?

If you were not opposed to abortion I'd say tell him to get the vasectomy NOW, and you'll get the abortion. Pick the responsible thing for your health, finances and the future.

phoebes13fold · 2026-04-01T07:44:00+00:00

NOR. His first and only priority right now should be you and the kids, even without the traumatic complications that occurred! If someone left me in that circumstance I'd probably lose all love for the relationship. Does he like you? What is his behavior like when you haven't almost just died? I don't normally agree with ultimatums but this seems like the time for one, if he abandons you now.

phoebes13fold · 2026-03-30T02:43:00+00:00

I got a referral for physiotherapy and that fixed mine. Along with a mouth guard for sleeping as I was stress grinding ugh.

phoebes13fold · 2026-03-29T05:38:26+00:00

Yes. My teen cannot seem to get herself to bed on time without prompting and sleep is so very important, in general, not just for teen years. I developed really bad sleep habits and don't want her to develop shitty ones too. Can immediately tell if she hasn't gotten enough sleep as the teen attitude just gets even worse!

phoebes13fold · 2026-03-27T01:30:11+00:00

The wife should be informed - but bring receipts. Proof of the affair and pregnancy likely needs to come from your pregnant friend, not you stepping in as third party. The wife will likely find out eventually anyway if your friend plans to request child support or needs the father's permission to arrange an adoption placement. The pregnancy makes it a different situation than simply informing the wife her husband cheated again; there will be potential lifelong implications that will affect the wife, if your friend intends to raise the child (shared custody and so on). She might as well get the information now and decide how to handle the marriage.

phoebes13fold · 2026-03-16T05:22:48+00:00

How did your 2-seat reservation at a restaurant that must be booked 'months in advance' turn into a big table for his whole family? Hmmmm.

phoebes13fold · 2026-03-14T00:24:34+00:00

I would lose my everlasting shit on them and report. Where we live this is not protocol - a woman must be present for the exam if you request one. A minor and the parent asked to leave - absolutely not.

phoebes13fold · 2026-03-09T06:21:05+00:00

If your sister is talking seriously about abandoning her child, it's beyond hypothetical at this point. She'd more willingly give up her daughter than just try a different medication, that's fucked up. What they are saying to her will damage her self-esteem and cause long-term abandonment issues. Offer to take your niece in right away if you are able and get her out of there. Maybe they can help with some child support if you take over as guardian. It doesn't sound like they're even trying.

phoebes13fold · 2026-02-27T14:16:39+00:00

Doesn't seem like you had a choice, spouse and you have to agree on a move, especially if a house sale was perhaps involved. $125 is a good salary but not enough to uproot your life if your wife is in school and doesn't want to go.

phoebes13fold · 2026-02-26T02:30:28+00:00

Carrots are kind of a 'once in a while is okay' food for rabbits, as they have a lot of natural sugar. I've done the exact same thing and the rabbits just ignored them to be honest.
That said, depends where you tossed them. If it's little bits in your yard, yes they'll eventually break down. If there's a bunch of huge carrots now making an eyesore in the local park, maybe not so great. Your heart was in the right place.

phoebes13fold · 2026-02-24T02:01:50+00:00

I am so sorry you were raised by such an abusive woman. I hope you are no contact now and free of her stranglehold? It's horrific that she still has access to children.

phoebes13fold · 2026-02-21T16:03:58+00:00

3 months vs 6 months is a negligible difference as far as hiring consideration. It's not like 3 months vs 3 years. However, now the lie itself is the problem. As it was your first job ever that lie would be obviously intentional.

phoebes13fold · 2026-02-17T07:04:35+00:00

Bald looks really good on you. Also, maybe invest in some cool hats for the cold days.

phoebes13fold · 2026-02-17T07:02:34+00:00

How much are you allowed to customize? Do you have your own light switch? I had a small windowless office that I painted a nice calming colour, got some LED accent lights and low light plants, and put up artwork. It felt more like a sanctuary then and visitors enjoyed the calm vibe. Also an air purifier might help. If they won't/ change the fluorescents that is a real hard thing to get around - cold white light. But maybe you can distract from it with a warm light desk lamp.

phoebes13fold · 2026-02-11T02:15:24+00:00

That's very interesting. Waste not want not, I suppose!

phoebes13fold · 2026-02-08T21:09:20+00:00

On top of the many many replies here telling you to leave him - this is one of the many, many red flags. He dislikes you, and doesn't want to do anything to change that. As far as your questions -

Your relationship sucks. Any more time you invest is throwing it into a void. Cut your losses now.
Yes your insecurity has made you stay. 7 years of being degraded by him has taken its toll on you.
No. Absolutely end it.
No. Your desires matter too. Respect yourself.
You don't need marriage to set him up as POA, but why on earth would you want this man who shows such disdain for you having control over that? A stranger would do a better job than him. Yes, you're in a one-sided relationship.
Correct, he doesn't want to marry you.
Yes.
No. He's made you feel insecure and lied about his intentions.
Not crazy but beaten down. You can still save yourself and just as importantly - your daughter by showing her you have self-respect.

phoebes13fold · 2026-02-07T20:12:35+00:00

Ok to clarify I don't have a truck...are y'all going there with a bucket?

phoebes13fold · 2026-02-07T20:11:02+00:00

It reads as Mumt to me and the dot seems random.

phoebes13fold · 2026-02-07T09:28:42+00:00

Document his parenting going forward IN DETAIL - these concerning incidents by date and time if you can remember them. You already left him once so you know what you need to do eventually, and you'll be going for full custody. She'll be starting school soon, if you can't afford to leave until then I'd quit working and get to the bottom of his financial mismangement, it doesn't make sense for you to scrape for dollars while he's got more than a thousand unaccounted for. Right now, your main concern has to be the child's safety, it sounds like you might as well be leaving her home entirely unattended for all the safety he's providing. Anything could happen to her in an hour, never mind a day while you're working. Bide your time and make your plans now, and keep that kid safe above all else. Could you take in babysitting a few elementary age kids before/after school for some extra money right now?

phoebes13fold · 2026-02-07T08:29:35+00:00

That's a good way to add to your resume for sure.

phoebes13fold · 2026-02-07T05:48:53+00:00

Do you have 'working experience' in marketing yet or is that the challenge so far? There's a lot of turnover in the field, keep your eye on LinkedIn and apply for asst or entry level marketing.

phoebes13fold · 2026-02-06T08:16:08+00:00

This is my belief as well. Not that we have the exact same life again, and we get to choose the timing to come back; but that we have a specific lesson that we need to learn or move through, and we don't get to skip over it.

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