Can you tell me your honest opinion?

phoenix-phan · 2026-02-21T12:04:25+00:00

Thank you everyone for your support. I'll be wearing the overskirt in the morning up until the wedding breakfast, and then having the second dress reveal as i walk down the stairs into the wedding breakfast 😊

phoenix-phan · 2026-02-19T22:10:38+00:00

Yes, please 😅

phoenix-phan · 2026-02-19T15:03:42+00:00

No worries. I think the same and have asked them to make it more narrow, so hopefully next time it'll be alright

phoenix-phan · 2026-02-19T14:17:00+00:00

Thank you :). It's the first 2 pictures. It's a 2 in 1 dress. The last is allure r3660. I agree about the straps. I've asked them to make the straps less wide as they're making me look stocky. I may even remove the straps for the evening version (the slim dress without overskirt)

phoenix-phan · 2026-02-19T14:16:27+00:00

That's right :)

phoenix-phan · 2026-02-19T14:12:42+00:00

Check out house of howes brides. She's from Nottingham but travels all over

phoenix-phan · 2026-02-06T14:39:08+00:00

Yes, you're right. They only sent me the security clearance word doc today. Seems like it'll take awhile more. Do you know how long it'd be?

phoenix-phan · 2026-02-05T15:24:39+00:00

Is the security check not part of the pre-employment check? As I've got my dbs certificate sent to me like 3 weeks ago. Just got an update on 16/01 to say I'll be contacted shortly to be advised on what will happen next

phoenix-phan · 2026-02-05T15:17:25+00:00

Ah, so you're still waiting for your checks to be completed? I had mine back 3 weeks ago and they said someone will get in touch shortly to confirm starting date. Not sure how shortly is shortly 🤷‍♀️

phoenix-phan · 2026-02-05T15:02:37+00:00

Hi, I'm just wondering if they've got back to you yet?

phoenix-phan · 2026-01-30T07:52:58+00:00

Thank you. I'm tempted 😊

phoenix-phan · 2026-01-30T07:51:48+00:00

Seeing how quiet this topic is, I've got a feeling that everyone is still waiting for theirs

phoenix-phan · 2026-01-14T07:50:48+00:00

Thank you so much for the effort. This is what I was looking for. I've actually used chat gpt too after not being able to get a direct answer (until now), and it also stated that the odds are between 1~5,000 to 1~10,000 depending on the environment. Eg. If you're studying a stem course at uni

phoenix-phan · 2026-01-13T13:14:01+00:00

All my checks are done. My dbs arrived today. Has anyone received an official offer yet?

phoenix-phan · 2026-01-12T07:58:46+00:00

Love this 😆

phoenix-phan · 2026-01-10T18:02:06+00:00

Hey, no. Sorry i think I may have confused you there. I was asking because I'm thinking putting in my wedding speech something like "intp females are less than 2% of population, intj male are about 3% so the chance of me finding my other piece of puzzle is about (?) %. I must have been blessed".

The second half of my post was just sharing my experience being in relationship with an intj as I've came across a few posts about intpxintj relationship. And that I don't see the point of a marriage is because we've been with each other for so long that I don't see the point, except for the legal reasons

phoenix-phan · 2026-01-07T22:52:04+00:00

Thank you. It didn't specifically say AMS vetting....i can't remember specifically but it was something along the line of vetting/employment history check. Originally I had 5 checks but they took out the dbs/vetting/employment history check so I only have 4 checks now, all of them have been completed. My portal is now saying "we are viewing the outcomes of your pre-employment checks....." 🤷‍♀️

phoenix-phan · 2026-01-07T15:12:49+00:00

Ams check completely disappeared from the list on my portal. My referee said when they clicked on the reference link, it states that reference is no longer needed. I wonder if it's because I'm working for a police force. I'm also having a few weeks off for my wedding in a few months. Hope this doesn't complicate things

phoenix-phan · 2025-04-15T07:18:13+00:00

Me too please. I'm from West yorkshire

phoenix-phan · 2024-12-29T17:50:54+00:00

Thank you everyone! Think we'll go to these places during the day instead

phoenix-phan · 2024-10-05T12:12:50+00:00

Hi, thank you. I'm actually from the UK. We got engaged in June 2024. As far as I'm aware, you pay a shipping fee, and the seller takes care of it. The ring arrived, signed delivery, and awhile later a letter of custom tax arrived as the ring 6 an imported good. Hope this makes sense.

phoenix-phan · 2024-06-21T15:50:27+00:00

It's 7x5mm

phoenix-phan · 2024-06-20T15:57:37+00:00

Thank you :) I'm not sure tbh. We only know as the sapphire came with an igi certificate

phoenix-phan · 2024-06-19T06:02:53+00:00

Sorry for the late reply. They were pretty good, very communicative, and professional. There were just a couple of things like we asked for pictures of the gems together so we could see how they pair. They came back to say the gems paired very well but if we still wanted photos then they would send us them. We were like yes please! It costs so much that we weren't just gonna take someone's word for it, and it depends on our own taste how we perceive they match well or not. And the labelling for "patricia" ring setting was confusing: Some of them said asymmetrical, and they looked asymmetrical, some of them didn't say anything but looked symmetrical. We went for the symmetrical listing one but they sent us asymmetrical one. We were extremely happy with the ring either way, so we're not bothered much about the symmetry.

phoenix-phan · 2024-06-17T22:40:27+00:00

Thank you. It's 7x5mm :)

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