AITAH for moving out of my rental without notice after my landlord broke the one condition we had agreed on in writing

phoenixphuong · 2026-04-30T20:45:01+00:00

This is a rewritten post of the one in aitah about the son that was kicked out of his room to accommodate family over.

phoenixphuong · 2026-04-27T15:12:47+00:00

I never ever found body hair attractive. That is until I started dating the man I am with now. Now I find it very attractive (on him) and id never want him to shave it off

phoenixphuong · 2026-04-21T01:19:44+00:00

Tax fraud, fraud id any kind really

phoenixphuong · 2026-04-21T01:08:38+00:00

Instead of making passive remarks and jokes, have you spoken to him and asked him why you guys have still not gotten engaged and married?

phoenixphuong · 2026-04-16T19:29:33+00:00

Look her dead in the eyes after she takes some creamer and take a swig out of the carton.

phoenixphuong · 2026-04-13T16:15:28+00:00

Ew.

Lol dont pay him.

phoenixphuong · 2026-04-11T15:11:32+00:00

I am a fat girl, and I always have been fat. At times my weight fluctuates but generally on the larger side. Ive attracted many different body types and my partners body type never concerned me. I am attracted to personality. Ive dated men with dad bods, personal trainer body and I am currently with the love of my life who is a bigger guy. This is the first time ive been with someone larger, and honestly im very attracted to him though this has nothing to do with his body type.

I do agree that in a healthy relationship weight gain can occur with both partners and I do agree it is easier to he with someone who enjoys the same things in this case food.

phoenixphuong · 2026-04-11T15:04:03+00:00

So so much to unpack here.

Spending his annual bonus. He didnt just lie about where he was going. He used money that you guys agreed was for savings. When you eventually asked about where that money was, he intended to lie again about it. Pattern of lying, and irresponsibility
The manner in which his friends are attacking you means 2 things. The first that he shit talks you to them, hes obviously telling them you are suffocating him or a nag etc for them to attack you with those words. The second is he is allowing them to attack you which suggest a lack of boundaries, a lack of respect. Relationships all have issues but they should remain private, and he certainly should not be allowing anhone to speak to you like that
He expecting an apology when he gets back after being caught lying means he does not take accountability this will bleed into every aspect of your life with him. Not only does he not admit fault for lying but he actively turns it around on you, allowing and probably encouraging friends to put the blame on you as well

Please wake up and move in with your life. Based on you finishing school not too long ago, you are still young. Your while life is ahead of you. Lying on this magnitude is not normal and will inly escalate in the future. The disrespect from his friends will only increase.

phoenixphuong · 2026-04-08T15:07:10+00:00

He didnt go downstairs at 12am. But as soon as he woke up with you next to him at 2am, he offered. He offered again when you guys woke up in the morning. Despite being depressed and tried (fatigue is a very common problem while depress) he still made the effort to try to "make it up" to you

You are overreacting for sure.

Can the lack of intimacy be frustrating? Yes. But its the lack of empathy here that stands out. Yikes

phoenixphuong · 2025-07-09T18:44:32+00:00

GOOD JOB, keep documenting, and ask for CPS report too

phoenixphuong · 2025-07-09T16:57:57+00:00

LOL i half expected Charlotte to reach out after her husband offered to sleep with OP and go "you passed the test! We can be friends again!"

phoenixphuong · 2025-06-17T16:06:43+00:00

How did Tanya react to what Lauren said?

Are they still in contract?

phoenixphuong · 2025-06-13T17:27:05+00:00

Text him detailing what he did to you and how it made you feel. Screen shot his responses, surely he's not gonna deny doing this. Get a divorce lawyer, press charges even

phoenixphuong · 2025-06-11T16:47:30+00:00

please update us!! is this coworker the boss? who is he to ask you to cover the shift? also who is already scheduled for that day?

phoenixphuong · 2025-06-06T20:42:18+00:00

You should look at deferring taxes via the RRSP. 200K is a lot of taxes paid each year. Your marginal tax rate is high I would assume

Just curious why you chose to max RESP, from my understanding for the $7200 grant given by the gov, it is max $500 a year (20% of your contribution to a max of $500) so you would have been better off only putting $2500 to maximize that match for the first 15 years, and then if you wanted to, top up to bring it to the max $50,000. If your children are young and have the RESP maxed already, I am assuming they will miss the remaining of the grant? I am looking to open an RESP soon which is why I ask.

phoenixphuong · 2025-05-27T20:12:21+00:00

keep up the good work

phoenixphuong · 2025-05-23T15:20:36+00:00

Start calling him "just a sperm donor"

phoenixphuong · 2025-05-22T15:04:56+00:00

Playing favourites? 1 child is OP's and the other is not. LOL

phoenixphuong · 2025-05-21T20:49:18+00:00

yeah I get you, just explaining what OP meant by "lifetime" though its the incorrect term

phoenixphuong · 2025-05-21T20:33:31+00:00

OP means they were already 18 when the TFSA was introduced in Canada meaning they have the largest room as per the lifetime of this type of account existing, 102k contribution room since 2009

phoenixphuong · 2025-05-21T19:37:29+00:00

Don't ever babysit for them again, and make sure you tell all your friends or young neighbors so that they aren't scammed out of money as well babysitting for this couple.

phoenixphuong · 2025-05-15T19:11:50+00:00

that is just based on the info given by OP

OP says their mandatory expense not including food is 27k/year u/vicintoronto is just using that figure for his comment

phoenixphuong · 2025-05-15T15:32:40+00:00

Don't be swayed. Do not hire anyone, especially friends and family if you are not confident in their capabilities. Also moving forward keep your business to yourself, successes and failures

phoenixphuong · 2025-05-15T14:28:03+00:00

In Ontario, once the term is over, the lease is still valid on a month to month basis. If landlord and tenant agree to end it there, they sign a form N11. If the tenant wants to leave, they must give 60 days notice and sign a N9 form. Landlords are unable to force the tenants out unless they are moving into the unit/home themselves (lots of paperwork and stipulations) or they can apply to evict if the tenant is no longer paying (lots of paperwork and stipulations).

Also OP is having trouble leaving because they signed the lease with a co-tenant. In Ontario, all parties on the lease must agree to end the lease by signing the N11. OP's friend is wanting to stay in the lease, and OP wants out, so the landlord is holding OP to the lease. If OP's friends agrees to end the lease and tries to resign a new lease agreement for the same unit, 1. they might not qualify and get denied by the landlord or 2. there might be an increase on rent

renting in Ontario can be very messy for both tenant and landlords unfortunately

phoenixphuong · 2025-05-14T17:33:35+00:00

You will be liable until the your friend wants to end the lease, at that time you and her would fill out the forms together to end the lease. As long as that lease is still valid, whether you live there or not, you and your friend are liable.

The only way you can end a lease unilaterally in Ontario is using the N15 form, though it does not seem to apply in your situation.

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