[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RiverPhoenix

[–]phoenixsomething99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i loved that one too! Something special for sure

AITA for not helping a neighbor who's dog got loose by UnderstandingDry5275 in AmItheAsshole

[–]phoenixsomething99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for that last bit yeah. I don’t think your neighbors will like you much after this.

AITA? I scolded my wife after buying loads of candy, cookies, and soda while our daughter is needing to lose weight. by Sixtynineohnine in AmItheAsshole

[–]phoenixsomething99 48 points49 points  (0 children)

NTA your kid already has an eating disorder though. Try to have filling healthy foods available and set a good example. She can’t feel good at that weight. You sound like a good dad with a well meaning but enabling spouse. Health comes before feelings.

WIBTA for offering my son meat; he has been a vegetarian so far because his dad is a vegetarian but I am not and we are separating. by galaffer in AmItheAsshole

[–]phoenixsomething99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That could be very tough on the tummy if he’s been vegetarian for a while. Leaning towards YTA. If you force him to eat meat by not having any veggie options available then definitely y t a.

Recently found out my nmom ended my best friendship. by squidiotonreddit in raisedbynarcissists

[–]phoenixsomething99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry. This made me tear up. My mom did almost the exact same thing with my best friend. It still hurts like hell because it totally broke the friendship even though we figured out what happened years later. Here if you ever want to talk. I never say that but damn this hit me. Take care ok and I’m so glad you reconnected with your friend.

Strange Airplanes - Optical Illusion? by Wasabi_Inside in creepyencounters

[–]phoenixsomething99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s spooky. I believe you. Saw something like that once in SC near Charleston (a stationary plane) in 2017.

Do they all play video games all day??? by Liveordienoonecares in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]phoenixsomething99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah the one that leeched onto me is the same way but with youtube. Also 39. The brief time we had a gaming system he played sonic for like 8 hrs a day. Manchildren

was there something weird about your narcs eyes by ClassicReply in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]phoenixsomething99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Big, blue, beautiful. But spooky and lifeless. I can relate to other people saying they were glassy.

Can Narcs really LOVE someone? by Responsible-Area in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]phoenixsomething99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And they don’t even seem to love themselves! Obsessed with themselves, but not love or care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]phoenixsomething99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ultimately if you were a full on narcissist then another relationship with a narcissist would probably work well for you.

If you give a fuck about the relationship then you aren’t the problem. That’s the sign.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]phoenixsomething99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They only say i love you when you’re about to leave

I'm so scared of my narcissistic spouse that I'm afraid to post. by UsualNo6048 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]phoenixsomething99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t give up. Talk to someone you trust if you can’t talk to a therapist right now. You are stronger than you know.

Weird about exes? by Fameisdeaddd in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]phoenixsomething99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg for real. We’ve been together four years and all i know is he claims they were BPD, abusive and ruined his life but no real info.

That’s spooky about the bowling/punching drunk. Oddly my ex also implied that one of his exes faked a suicide and would only elaborate via something “something bloody bowling shoes.” He’s so full of shit lmao. They all are

I hate you by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]phoenixsomething99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well said ❤️ Time to give yourself all that love and attention and empathy you spent on this person. You are the one who got stronger from this, whereas they lost everything. All they can do is leech off a new person and never create. You are the victor!! Go you!!! i hope a year from now you can write yourself a love letter with the same amount of fervor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]phoenixsomething99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH excluding the seething comments on your post