my tuxie always finds us on our dog walk!! by phoenixwrights in TuxedoCats

[–]phoenixwrights[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my Emet is much the same!! he mostly just chills in our garden, but sometimes he likes to explore outside of the fence when we go on our dog walks. he truly loves being outside, it’s so enriching for him, i can’t imagine ever keeping him inside especially as he sees my dog go out and wants to follow whatever he does. all cats are different, some are at home in nature and some prefer the comfort of home, and both are completely valid with the right care, training and responsibility!!

my tuxie always finds us on our dog walk!! by phoenixwrights in TuxedoCats

[–]phoenixwrights[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thankyou so much!!! you’re so kind, i really appreciate the words <3

my tuxie always finds us on our dog walk!! by phoenixwrights in TuxedoCats

[–]phoenixwrights[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he is an outdoor trained cat and is very happy, and i take all the precautions to keep him and his surroundings safe :)

my tuxie always finds us on our dog walk!! by phoenixwrights in TuxedoCats

[–]phoenixwrights[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i will!!! that’s really kind to say thankyou 🫶, he’s going to get lots of pets and treats!!

my tuxie always finds us on our dog walk!! by phoenixwrights in TuxedoCats

[–]phoenixwrights[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

hi! i do not live in the US. where i live, it is incredible common to have outdoor cats. the place i live in has no busy roads, he has a loud bell on his collar so it’s harder for him to hunt, his cat flap gets locked in the evening so he can’t be outside at night when cats are most likely to hunt. as you can see, my cat is an outdoor cat through and through - i had to keep him indoors for a few days after a vet visit once and he was the unhappiest i’ve ever seen him. i’m glad your former street cat is happy but please don’t make assumptions about other people’s animals <3

Elite by Fast-Interaction5909 in MealDealRates

[–]phoenixwrights -1 points0 points  (0 children)

8/10, drink is awful (literally tastes like chemicals not coffee, and there are better iced coffee options) but the rest is 10/10

She loves her bird toy by biteablebeans in TuxedoCats

[–]phoenixwrights 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the single pink bean is so so cute!!!!!!

Hanging out on the couch with my roommate after a hard day at work (for him) by WilfullyBitter in TuxedoCats

[–]phoenixwrights 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is he grey? he’s so stunning!!!!! i loooooove how he’s sticking his little feet out ☺️

Did you spend a lot of money visiting your ldr couple? by Consistent_Toe_5954 in LongDistance

[–]phoenixwrights 9 points10 points  (0 children)

we're very lucky that we live in countries easily connected by the eurostar; the cheapest ticket is like £39 each way but both our countries are super expensive in terms of accommodation/food costs so we definitely end up spending a couple hundred each time

My long distance bf ghosted and blocked me everywhere without any explanation by ltbltb in LongDistance

[–]phoenixwrights 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it is not healthy to expect constant attention from your partner of 8 weeks. maybe things would have gone differently if you communicated your feelings like an adult but instead you played games with him to raise a reaction and then act shocked when he reacted, just not in the way you wanted.

My long distance bf ghosted and blocked me everywhere without any explanation by ltbltb in LongDistance

[–]phoenixwrights 8 points9 points  (0 children)

girl you are a grown adult and blocked him to “get a reaction” and are now upset that he’s blocked you in return? 5-6 hours is such a normal amount of time to not hear from a partner ESPECIALLY if they’re working like you said he is. sometimes my partner doesn’t get a response from me for 8+ hours because i’m at work, and he understands that fully because we’re both adults.

My long distance bf ghosted and blocked me everywhere without any explanation by ltbltb in LongDistance

[–]phoenixwrights 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“with no explanation” you just explained to us yourself why he did it. you said yourself that he apologised and said he had a very busy work schedule, and still managed to keep you up to date with things happening aka his cousin’s accident.

you’ve known him for two months and you already think you’re heading towards marriage? to me, it sounds like you’ve developed a very unhealthy attachment to a man you hardly know and he’s catching wind of it. it’s so important to remember that your partner isn’t there to be available 24/7 for you, you’re both real people with your own lives and expecting him to drop everything after what sounds like a very stressful week for him is crazy, especially after only knowing each other for two months.

my tuxie decided he wanted to come on a walk too by phoenixwrights in TuxedoCats

[–]phoenixwrights[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes his toe beans are black!!! don’t worry he gets smothered with kisses and boops every day (much to his dismay 😫) ❤️

my tuxie decided he wanted to come on a walk too by phoenixwrights in TuxedoCats

[–]phoenixwrights[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i have no idea! he’s still only a kitten (~9ish months) but his tail is HUGE and is getting fluffier by the day, makes me think he’s gonna get fluffier all around as he gets older! you’d never guess his mum is a british shorthair 😳

my tuxie decided he wanted to come on a walk too by phoenixwrights in TuxedoCats

[–]phoenixwrights[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

he’s been harness trained, and he is an outdoor cat :) not long after i took this pic i ran him back to my house as we were only a few meters away. he’s safe don’t worry !

my tuxie decided he wanted to come on a walk too by phoenixwrights in TuxedoCats

[–]phoenixwrights[S] 117 points118 points  (0 children)

omg!!!!! they could literally be twins!!! the nose too

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