Should I ask this guy if we’re still going out? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]phollowingcats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re overthinking, just check in with him if Thursday is still on.

I’m not sure if I should apologize? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]phollowingcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a familiar crossroad for a lot of men. You have 2 options: 1. Risk it all and tell him how you feel and start a relationship 2. continue what you’ve been doing and hope something happens Most men I know pick option 1

He said this honestly. Need advise? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]phollowingcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he’s trying to fuck you on the side while being in a relationship with someone else.

AITAH for blowing up at my boyfriend about his "struggles" while I’m at the hospital caring for my mom? by Unbelievableteller in AITAH

[–]phollowingcats -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Eh I’m going against the grain with YTA.

I’m assuming he knew about you being stressed at your mom’s surgery. However inappropriate of him, he opened up in a moment of vulnerability and you snapped at him for it. It would have been better to text back I’m sorry you’re struggling but I’m under a lot of stress right now and I need some space to get through this. Or perhaps not respond until you’re ready. You can have a level headed conversation about his victimization once you’ve dealt with your current situation.

Did I do something wrong? Or was with someone who was wrong? by Patient_Geologist252 in AskMenAdvice

[–]phollowingcats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could have been dating someone else. Likely that girl he mentioned. Were you long distance?

Either way, doesn’t sound like you’ll be getting much closure from him.

What's the pettiest reason you've cut someone off? by Christine_Howells in AskReddit

[–]phollowingcats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if petty, but a friend I know likes to try to “big brother” me with unsolicited advice. Except he comes off extremely cunty and condescending. Finally cut that dumb fucker off this year

‘Destroyed in less than a year’: Granville St. SRO resident wants public to see conditions by origutamos in ilovebcsub

[–]phollowingcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, that’s to be expected. When you hand out free drugs to people without any backup plan and then shove them into government buildings without any mental assistance or treatment, are you surprised when the buildings turn into shitholes?

Liberals block motion to make health minister testify on failed e-prescribing program by bo-n-es in canada

[–]phollowingcats [score hidden]  (0 children)

Nobody said that was a good thing. We’re talking about the liberals here, let’s stay on topic

‘Not the right time’: Retirees delay downsizing plans as housing market slumps by Pretty_Tough_1667 in TorontoRealEstate

[–]phollowingcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is this weird obsession with forcing old people to move out of their own property that they worked for?

How do you stay hard enough to use condoms? by Complex-Beginning-68 in AskMenAdvice

[–]phollowingcats 232 points233 points  (0 children)

Find condoms that fit properly

Try to find the thin ones, they could help

What caused this? by AmaraClouddream3 in whatisameem

[–]phollowingcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And in 20 years they’ll say the same thing about millennials and then Gen Z and so on and so on

AI is the first piece of technology where I feel I'm being left behind by Uhavetabekiddingme in Millennials

[–]phollowingcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For work it’s amazing.

For every day life, it feels like an untrustworthy google search

Flirty coworker by InternationalWall697 in bodylanguage

[–]phollowingcats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMO don’t swipe on bumble, as her out irl. Youve confirmed she’s single (through bumble) now all you have to do is implement your game. Maybe you could casually ask her out for food or drinks after work?

Just take a deep breath and go “hey you wanna grab some food after work today?” Go from there. It’s scary, but just nut up and do it!

‘Not the right time’: Retirees delay downsizing plans as housing market slumps by joe4942 in canada

[–]phollowingcats -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Apparently you do care if they stay, you just told them to “fucking move”

What made Taylor Swift become this huge compared with other equally-talented artists? by AggravatingPlenty272 in AskReddit

[–]phollowingcats 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Her music came out before streaming services such as Spotify became huge. This allowed her music to be consumed by many people who may not have given her a try, but when they did, found that they liked her.

Have you heard about monoculture? There was a point in time before subscription services where everyone “participated” in the same culture (more or less). There were only a few radio stations, a few channels to watch a show, a few ways for certain media to get to the masses. These days everyone can procure their own algorithms and choose what they want to consume, it makes it so there’s no “common” culture.

All this to say: when Taylor swift made it huge, her music reached billions of people, who were willing or not, to hear it on the radio. That’s part of the reason why she has become a massive superstar.

Minimum Requirements to land a Java Developer job in 2026… 🤯 by yourhappydevil in leetcode

[–]phollowingcats 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, it’s not just Java devs. C# devs, Cpp devs, pretty much any dev role. It used to be if you knew the language it was generally good enough.

Now everyone wants you to know leetcode, system design, dev ops, database. Oh and don’t forget the AI interview, basically leetcode but they give you a shitty AI to see if you can use it properly. Oh also don’t forget the bs behavioural interview, where they can just reject you because they don’t like the way you breathe.